What makes a good bottom?
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i've shown my current partner how to grind his ass cheeks on my cock and to use his ass muscles to squeeze and pull at my cock whilst i'm fucking him or if he's riding me - blows my mind completely when he does that and he feels so tight and the feeling on my cock is amazing
I had a FB. a few years ago who's ass could milk my cock. I could have lived like that for days!
I had a partner many years ago who told me he loved the feeling of how my ass clenched around his cock when I came. So I began to replicate that feeling during sex. Over time that evolved to milking.
not really a new concept or anything but here's my answer:
so i hooked up with a slim waist/bubble ass bottom who invited me to his apartment
and as we walked up the stairs to his floor he was walking right in front of me and wear a tight onesie, so i got to check out his ass the whole time
it's a small thing (that situation, not his ass, he has a nice big ass) but it still gets me horny thinking about it lol
What makes a good bottom? Well, from a bottom's perspective, the most important thing is the desire to totally satisfy the top. This means making him feel that he is in charge, doing whatever he wants, and letting him know that your only purpose is to satisfy him. If that means you have to submit to merely being a hole, that's what you do. If he wants to hear that, you tell him," I'm only a hole; use me however you want." Secondly, if he wants to feel that he is king, make sure you moan or talk to him while he is fucking you. If he doesn't like that, then keep quiet. Make sure there is variety; just doesn't lay there motionless. Contract your ass muscles, then let up and thrust back and forth, doing the work. If he wants, switch positions until you find the one which pleases him the most. If he is a romantic who likes things slow, then by all means, kiss him gently, making sure your tongue moves inside his mouth. Then, as his passion builds, go with him and increase the intensity. A good bottom gets pleasure when the top is satisfied. As the motion gets more intense and he is nearing his climax, surrender yourself completely. Don't think, just feel.
If you are a top, take charge. Let the bottom know what you like and control the session. We are bottoms because we want to surrender to the wishes of another man and not make decisions. Most of all, have fun.
If you are a top, take charge. Let the bottom know what you like and control the session. We are bottoms because we want to surrender to the wishes of another man and not make decisions. Most of all, have fun.
@herbho you're describing one scenario only where its a submissive/controlled bottom guy and a dom type top guy - there are many many different scenarios too each where the bottom and top can be 'good' bottoms and tops.
I'm a top and i love to see my bottom guy satisfied as much as myself and not just from the fact he's let me use his hole.
I'm a top and i love to see my bottom guy satisfied as much as myself and not just from the fact he's let me use his hole.
Actually, I did mention what to do if he was a romantic. Of course, everyone is different. However, I did say it was from my perspective ( which might be a bit too much kink). You seem like a caring top; all the best.
ThroatCummer
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I don't do anal often, but these type of bottoms are the ones who can make a total top like me say (to them) the words "fuck me" and then I know my cock is just along for the ride.
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