I have been trying to explain to a male friend of mine what makes a good kiss. My first bit of advice is simple: more lip and less tongue. That's probably the best advice. So many men could be saved just from that one tip! I also suggested going slow and not being so aggressive and using your hands to brush my cheek or do something sensual. But my question is this: How do you like it initiated and what about technique? My girlfriend likes it when a man kisses her bottom lip and uses only a little tongue. How do you like it?