I ask this because I am married to a GREAT man. He is SMART! He is SEXY as hell! He is tall and well built! He makes a good living. His family is good stock. Then me.. I have good looks about myself. I come from a pretty nice looking family. I am smart...ENOUGH.. I am just wondering what do you look for in a MAN or WOMEN when you want a CHILD.. My ex... No way in hell would I have had kids with him! He was a major DICK to his kids that he already had. He was NOT a good guy to me!! He was not a good money maker!! He was really not a good guy in all... His family was ok. I did NOT love HIM!