What makes a good top a GREAT top?

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  1. macho8

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    I thought I would start this tread for btms to share thoughts and tips for the tops out there to up their game....

    Let me start with one...

    Initial penetration, the top should wait for the btm to signal its ok to fuck. It will be quite obvious - his ass starts twitching, or he'll start moving his ass like a bitch on heat.
     
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    A great top will get an ass loose before he slides his cock in the hole...lickit, finger it, tease it slowly with the head of his cock til the hole opens ups then slide it in...kiss a bit and when the hole is ready the bottom will let him know and he can start to fuck slowly and then he can pound.
     
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    A long tongue fucking before the festivities commence!
     
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    Work with me to make sure that we get each other off. Not necessarily at the exact same time but that works great too! Too many porn films seem to train guys that they fuck and cum, or fuck, pull out and jerk off, then the bottom is supposed to jerk himself off. Um, no. When you're in me I'm doing the best that I can to make sure that it's a great experience for you. I'm clenching my ass muscles - if we're face to face I'm nibbling your neck, playing with your nipples, pulling you in harder with my hands on your ass, stroking your balls. Reach down and play with my dick! Hold it against your abs while you fuck, etc. It's about both of us! And yeah if we time it right and "manage" the intensity, I'm going to tighten up really hard on your dick when I'm getting ready to shoot, and that's going to take YOU over the edge too. :)
     
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    all great points guys keep it coming...

    For me, a great top is someone who fucks hard and its btms job to ask him slow down if he can't take it. I hate having to ask a top to fuck me harder.
     
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    Get in my sling and I'll show ya.....
     
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    Time and patience. When I'm in the mood to get fucked, do all the things to me listed above. Make sure I'm enjoying it as much as you are, and that includes touching my dick throughout. I hate in porn where the bottom is just emasculated and used as a hole.
     
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    Another thing I like is when i start cumming, I like the top to either fuck me really really hard or go slowly and time the strokes with me cumming (feels like he pushing the cum out with his dick).
     
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    Pateince with his bottom's acceptance of his size....without a doubt.
     
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    changing how deep you go as you fuck... keep the btm guessing... thats hot too!!!
     
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    A good top knows what's he's doing and doesn't have to ask, "how are you doing?" every 2 minutes.

    A great top knows how to read a bottom's body, face, grunts and moans to tell when the moment is ripe and ready for penetration and once in whether or not he wants it harder, softer, deeper, quicker, slower, still or pulled out.
     
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    Definitely second what someone said above, he must keep the bottom guessing as to the depth, intensity, and speed of the next thrust. Great tops also know that just like all women aren't the same, all bottoms don't want to be fucked the same way. Several of you guys like for the top to play with your cock, I hate that. It's all about the ass for me. Great tops adapt their style to the guy they are fucking. Also, understand that it's not just the hole that you are fucking. A hand brushing across my lower back, or a tounge on my neck can make me shiver just as much as a deep thrust.
     
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    Every bottom is different, so communication is key. Not everybody likes getting their ass rimmed or fingered or whatever- so ask the bottom what's up. Ask him what he wants done, or what he wants to do to you.
     
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    Sometimes I'm in the mood to be used as a hole. :biggrin1:
     
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    What makes a great top is having been a great bottom.
     
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    that should be the next thread... what makes a great btm? the tops should give their tips!
     
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    Great tops are usually men who have also bottomed. Once you learn how to take and enjoy a cock, you know better how to give a cock. Becoming versatile made me a much better top.
     
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    I'm of the mind there are more than a few tops around here who would benefit from a few lessons and lots of practice....

    call me! :tongue:
     
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    I've always thought I was a good top because I'm not a good bottom.

    OK!:wink:
     
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    I agree 100%
     
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