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What makes a good top a GREAT top?
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A good top is one, IMO, who hits the prostate good.
foreplay is also good, in that how he loosens you up and teases your hole before inserting it can heighten the pleasure. But if he angles his cock well on the prostate, well boy, moans galore...
lmao..
foreplay is also good, in that how he loosens you up and teases your hole before inserting it can heighten the pleasure. But if he angles his cock well on the prostate, well boy, moans galore...
lmao..
A good top is one, IMO, who hits the prostate good.
foreplay is also good, in that how he loosens you up and teases your hole before inserting it can heighten the pleasure. But if he angles his cock well on the prostate, well boy, moans galore...
this is a good one - but hard in practice. For eg. if the btm is on his back and the top goes to kiss him, the angle is not optimum. I'm not saying don't kiss the btm - just change it up a bit.
for a kissing session I'd just sit on him and lean forward. gain both good kiss and great feeling of the cock very deep in the ass...
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A great top loves sex, can read the bottom from their body contact, their pleasure sounds and the sounds of the fuck.
A great top leads the bottom to an amazing sexual place and can get the most pleasure for himself and his bottom, out of a fuck one can get.
A great top is confident and deliberate throughout sex and knows exactly what the bottom is going to feel from what the top is doing.
A great top looks fucking hot as he does it; his body moves with great control, the muscles of their body moving purposefully and powerfully, demonstrating the top's control of the awesome power and endurance that is the mark of a great top.
A great top takes the bottom on a journey through foreplay and into the slow thrusting penetration marking the beginning of the sleep of reason. He slowly builds the intensity and power of their coupling, sometimes over hours or within minutes if the sex takes on an urgent lust for both.
A great top knows how much of his cock is needed at each moment, able to build the sexual tension - from a slow, rhythmic pelvic thrust that can go on for hours and able to change fuck positions without uncoupling, to furious, animalistic, sweat-drenched pile-driving as the act reaches its peak - sometimes maintaining the pace of the end-game frenetic, sexual athleticism for 10, 15 or 20 minutes until he has brought the bottom to the point of no-return, the noisiness of their physical fucking finally joined by the ululations and powerful muscular thrusts of orgasm as the great top empties his once-slapping balls deep into his bottom - the powerful muscles of his buttocks, clenched tightly and with the bottom's hands clenched around each tight cheek, pulls the top deeper into his ass as they both take in the erotic funk and slippery squelching that their bodies made during this most profound masculine moment.
A great top makes other guys who can hear their fucking, jealous and aroused and want to be with them sharing in the fuck.
A great top leads the bottom to an amazing sexual place and can get the most pleasure for himself and his bottom, out of a fuck one can get.
A great top is confident and deliberate throughout sex and knows exactly what the bottom is going to feel from what the top is doing.
A great top looks fucking hot as he does it; his body moves with great control, the muscles of their body moving purposefully and powerfully, demonstrating the top's control of the awesome power and endurance that is the mark of a great top.
A great top takes the bottom on a journey through foreplay and into the slow thrusting penetration marking the beginning of the sleep of reason. He slowly builds the intensity and power of their coupling, sometimes over hours or within minutes if the sex takes on an urgent lust for both.
A great top knows how much of his cock is needed at each moment, able to build the sexual tension - from a slow, rhythmic pelvic thrust that can go on for hours and able to change fuck positions without uncoupling, to furious, animalistic, sweat-drenched pile-driving as the act reaches its peak - sometimes maintaining the pace of the end-game frenetic, sexual athleticism for 10, 15 or 20 minutes until he has brought the bottom to the point of no-return, the noisiness of their physical fucking finally joined by the ululations and powerful muscular thrusts of orgasm as the great top empties his once-slapping balls deep into his bottom - the powerful muscles of his buttocks, clenched tightly and with the bottom's hands clenched around each tight cheek, pulls the top deeper into his ass as they both take in the erotic funk and slippery squelching that their bodies made during this most profound masculine moment.
A great top makes other guys who can hear their fucking, jealous and aroused and want to be with them sharing in the fuck.
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A great top is confident, but not so arrogant he thinks it's all about him.
A great top doesn't need to shout about it in giant type or otherwise.
A great top doesn't need to shout about it in giant type or otherwise.
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I'm not a great top. I'm a top but not a great one. I have only admiration and awe of these men
My mistake then, but it really sounded like you were talking about yourself.
Then are you speaking from your perspective as a bottom being fucked by a great top?
Otherwise, how would you know the feeling of the experience you're describing?
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My boyfriend and I invite guys with big cocks to fuck my bf. I watch them so know what a great top looks like. My boyfriend tells me what they feel like
Then you should be well on your way from the 'lessons'. Especially as he's your boyfriend, I would think you'd be able to perform as a great top with him at least.
What I found missing in your description, which was undoubtedly hot in a pornographic sense, was what I addressed in my post earlier in the thread. Seems all the more apropos to your situation.
Carry on, have fun mate. As long as everybody's happy, I say.
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Ok, I'll give it a go...
Firstly, they have great aerobic fitness to be able to fuck for extended periods of time and this may require extremely vigorous thrusting - powerful thrusts delivered at jackhammer speed for 30-40 minutes at a time.
Their bodies are well-defined with little body fat and with powerful gluteal (ass) muscles and leg muscles. The musculature of their back is well defined as are their abdominals.
Their bodies, although solid muscle, are flexible and lithe and their thrusting is almost entirely done by their pelvis swinging back and forward from a rock-steady torso and abdomen.
Their bodies are quickly coated in a glistening sheen of sex-sweat within minutes of sex starting and their copious pre-cum mixes with ever slicker sweating bodies until the sex sounds obscenely wet
to be continued
personally, for me a great Top is one who enjoys being in control and controlling others. Also he must put his needs way, way before mine as his bottoms. His focus and mine should be his pleasure, because his enjoyment of the sex is a major factor in how much I enjoy it. If I'm not making him happy I won't enjoy it at all. And this is just me speaking but I'm also perfectly willing to suffer a little pain and discomfort if he wants to rough fuck me or go in deep. It might hurt a bit but I get so much sexual pleasure from pleasing a guy it's worth it.
I think I have had sex with someone like that... more delusional than great I would say. With all due respect, there is still a skill to it. Can't will yourself to be good.
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The responses suggest that its very subjective. What a surprise! For what it's worth, my 2-cents says that a great top is a man with a strong sense of masculine authority, willing and able to express his manhood through the sexual taking of another. For me, technique is secondary to masculinity.
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I'm shy in bed, and I didn't start having anal sex regularly until well after I came out. I think as a top it's been about building self-confidence. It's about clearing out my mind and just emptying a load. My exboyfriend taught me how to fuck, and he was totally vanilla. By the end of the relationship, I had some basics down. He was about 98% bottom.
I loved to just lay on the bed and have him ride my dick.
I have been fortunate to have guys who are more experienced who are not so vanilla. Flip-fucks, stopping in midstroke and jerking them off a bit, changing positions up (as long as they are still getting off)
Had a great guy in bed, loved to fuck his ass. I liked to switch positions, and he told me later he just wanted me in this one uncomfortable position for me that was "blackout orgasm" for him. (on his back with ankles raised to my head, slightly apart and hips raised up as high as possible.)
I like a challenge: wrestle with me before fucking my dick with your ass.
I loved to just lay on the bed and have him ride my dick.
I have been fortunate to have guys who are more experienced who are not so vanilla. Flip-fucks, stopping in midstroke and jerking them off a bit, changing positions up (as long as they are still getting off)
Had a great guy in bed, loved to fuck his ass. I liked to switch positions, and he told me later he just wanted me in this one uncomfortable position for me that was "blackout orgasm" for him. (on his back with ankles raised to my head, slightly apart and hips raised up as high as possible.)
I like a challenge: wrestle with me before fucking my dick with your ass.
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