deine_huendin
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a good top ?
the balance between taking care and using me in HIS way
the balance between taking care and using me in HIS way
What makes a good top a GREAT top?
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deine_huendin
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the right top ?
if he grabs you with both hands on your hips to get you in the right position
if he rests some seconds when his glans is behind your spincer
if he don't minds your whimmering
if he talks to you, explaining that he will shove it in all the way
i he takes a brake before exploding,
if he is resting and then hitting harder, rougher and deeper
no matter if the bootom complains...
if he grabs you with both hands on your hips to get you in the right position
if he rests some seconds when his glans is behind your spincer
if he don't minds your whimmering
if he talks to you, explaining that he will shove it in all the way
i he takes a brake before exploding,
if he is resting and then hitting harder, rougher and deeper
no matter if the bootom complains...
met a hung top and we spent about 15 mins with him trying to open my second hole.
he finally had me pinned down and used his weight to push down on my second hole. and he finally went in. I think he last 5 mins before he came.. must have been really tight on his head. haha
he finally had me pinned down and used his weight to push down on my second hole. and he finally went in. I think he last 5 mins before he came.. must have been really tight on his head. haha
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A man who is truly enamoured of putting his penis inside other men, and lets this lust guide him far above and beyond any need to fulfil a role or create a role.
Some useful advice here. I am pleased to find that much of it I follow anyway, good to have my methods confirmed by these bottoms. I have bottomed myself too to understand better what it feels like but I prefer the top role. . Fucking, even lovemaking, is a mutual activity and should be a mutual pleasure.
Being a great top, like being a great anything, is wholly dependent on your caring about your partner's experience. He should be there for your pleasure, just as you should for his.
If your bottom is in pain, you respect that and adjust. If he's signalling for more, you give it. If he's tight, you tongue/finger/open him up. If he's not into kissing, you don't force the issue and if he is, your are passionate and hungry to devour his tongue. If he's an insatiable cock whore and you're tired after already cumming, suck it up, Franklin, and lay back while he slurps on that givestick until you're ready to maraud his hole again.
Also be appreciative, and if your bottom exhibits effort or skills, recognize that overtly - it can only pay off. If he lacks skills or effort, try to guide & teach him what you like without being condescending or insulting.
Being a great partner means that you are just that, partners in each other's experience. Otherwise you may as well stay home with a dildo & Mary Palm.
If your bottom is in pain, you respect that and adjust. If he's signalling for more, you give it. If he's tight, you tongue/finger/open him up. If he's not into kissing, you don't force the issue and if he is, your are passionate and hungry to devour his tongue. If he's an insatiable cock whore and you're tired after already cumming, suck it up, Franklin, and lay back while he slurps on that givestick until you're ready to maraud his hole again.
Also be appreciative, and if your bottom exhibits effort or skills, recognize that overtly - it can only pay off. If he lacks skills or effort, try to guide & teach him what you like without being condescending or insulting.
Being a great partner means that you are just that, partners in each other's experience. Otherwise you may as well stay home with a dildo & Mary Palm.
during doggy. when the top is holding on to the btms waist.. he should also try to grab the side of the ass so he can spread it while fucking.. the means the ass is not blocking the top and he can go in deepeer...
simple...he kisses, licks, suck, rim, fucks...enjoys been rimmed also....think Bruno or Giorgio Canalis!
datbroccoliandbooty
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deine_huendin
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HE goes his own way, no matter what hurdles...
no matter what concerns the bottom has
he takes the bottom by the hand, shows his his determination, explaining everything...
a lot of time for preparation, cleaning, lubrication...
but when the times comes:
no discussion
spreading his cheeks
ignoring the concerns... shut up...yes it will hurt a bit...you can dio it.. i will "help" you...
pressing the head in
pausing...
slow but steady and deep, in-and- out , all the way in
endless thrusts...
no matter what concerns the bottom has
he takes the bottom by the hand, shows his his determination, explaining everything...
a lot of time for preparation, cleaning, lubrication...
but when the times comes:
no discussion
spreading his cheeks
ignoring the concerns... shut up...yes it will hurt a bit...you can dio it.. i will "help" you...
pressing the head in
pausing...
slow but steady and deep, in-and- out , all the way in
endless thrusts...
deine_huendin
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a perfect top ?
Make his bottom feel good about his ass. All bottom boys are naturally self conscious and worried about what their Daddy/Top thinks about them. By telling him how beautiful and delicious his pussy is, and letting him know how much you love it as often as you can, he will gain confidence in his ass-pussy and be much more comfortable in showing it off and using it. Reinforce behaviour which glorifies his ass and puts it at the forefront of his sexual pleasure and identity. Much like you are trying to promote a feeling of the forbidden and negative towards his cock you are trying to promote feelings of desirability and positivity surrounding his ass and being a pussyboy.
Make his bottom feel good about his ass. All bottom boys are naturally self conscious and worried about what their Daddy/Top thinks about them. By telling him how beautiful and delicious his pussy is, and letting him know how much you love it as often as you can, he will gain confidence in his ass-pussy and be much more comfortable in showing it off and using it. Reinforce behaviour which glorifies his ass and puts it at the forefront of his sexual pleasure and identity. Much like you are trying to promote a feeling of the forbidden and negative towards his cock you are trying to promote feelings of desirability and positivity surrounding his ass and being a pussyboy.
Love how you worded this You know how I’d love to be a bottom for you to use and share
