What makes a lover 'unforgettable' ?

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Spill ur guts ladies and gentlemen.... What traits or feats would make a lover unforgettable to you? Or if u already have one, how did he/she earn that title?
 

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when in a loving relationship, tenderness and caring, as well as rough and nasty, are always great combinations. kissing as well is always BIG!!! as well as showing you new and interesting ways to do things.

that is how my partner/boyfriend got and retains his title as an excellent lover! ;)
 

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Lots of things make the boys I've been with unforgettable. One was gay, that is probably the biggest thing I'll never forget.

Things that make it special though, is the relationship you had with them before and after you have sex with a person. Sex always is better when you have a friendship or a relationship with them previous to the sex.
 

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What makes a lover unforgetable is a connection on every level, physical and emotional. It is an excitment of being together, it is the touch, the smell,the taste, the feel. It is all those things that work up to that moment when you are one with another person. When all space is gone and all time stands still and it is just the two of you in your own world. It is knowing one another on every level and the little things that excite each other. It is the laughing, the whispering, the look in each others eyes, it is the knowing without speaking and alot more.
Yep that is what it is.
 

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Most of the comments sound like your CURRENT lover/bf/whatever is unforgettable, but im talkin about past ones, the ones that are not with ya anymore
 

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What makes a lover 'unforgettable' ?

Spill ur guts ladies and gentlemen.... What traits or feats would make a lover unforgettable to you? Or if u already have one, how did he/she earn that title?


What would make a guy adversely unforgettable?
I think that men who are mean and cruel they would definately be unforgettable.
If you can't see beyond yourself and are selfish in a relationship,
you are going to be unforgettable.
If you are a cheater, tell your lover that you are committed and you get busted cheating,
consider yourself etched "unforgettable".
If you are trying to change a person into someone you want them to be and they aren't able to be that person, you will be unforgettable.
When you stop having sex when you used to have sex,
you will be unforgettable.
If you have a lot of issues to deal with and you bring them into a relationship without resolution, you will be unforgettable.
When you abandon a person when they need you the most,
you will be unforgettable.

What would make a guy positively unforgettable?
If a man communicates honestly to a fault without being cruel and insensitive--that is
unforgettable to me. I like learning a person's view.
I like men who very comfortable with themselves--good and bad.
If you are comfortable with yourself, you will be unforgettable.
If the feeling's mutual and sex happens a lot,
you will be unforgettable.:biggrin1:

This is all I can think of at the moment.
:smile:
 

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Most of the comments sound like your CURRENT lover/bf/whatever is unforgettable, but im talkin about past ones, the ones that are not with ya anymore

Every person is unique, so every lover has his or her own special quality that makes him or her unforgettable.
 

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Spill ur guts ladies and gentlemen.... What traits or feats would make a lover unforgettable to you? Or if u already have one, how did he/she earn that title?

It's not them, but my ability to remember.

For example, I'll never forget how our current administration has screwed so many with so little lube.
 
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The things that make a lover unforgettable for me for sex are sexual confidence, sexual maturity and erotic passion. I've met a few ladies who had this and I will never forget them.

On the other hand, you can love someone deeply, utterly and totally, they can be your soulmate, you can be connected deeply and emotionally, and you have good sex with that person as well. But as 'lovers' they are not as unforgettable as a chance encounter with a woman who knows exactly what she wants, and who wants to give you the time of your life as well.
 

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Here's a quote that's always struck me as saying a great deal, particularly considering the source:

"The most unsatisfactory men are those who pride themselves on their virility and regard sex as if it were some form of athletics at which you can win cups. It is a woman's spirit and mood a man has to stimulate in order to make sex interesting. The real lover is the man who can thrill you just by touching your head or smiling into your eyes or by just staring into space." --Marilyn Monroe
 

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For me, if the person is exactly on my wavelength emotionally, sexually and mentally then it's gonna be something I totally remember.

On the other hand, I'll also remember a horribly bad lay. Whatever they did that just sent up a big red flag will forever be etched into my mind.
 

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Kissing ability
How much we are/were in tune with each others bodies, knowing all the right places and touches
I agree that being vocal (moans or talking) really make for a close and deep connection
 
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