What Makes A Men Alpha

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I feel like it’s a higher testosterone level, I can smell the pheromones. It’s also how they look, how they act, the confidence they have.
 

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There's no such thing as "alpha", or whatever. We (human beings) aren't wolves, and the whole "alpha male" thing is just psuedoscientific nonsense.

What you perceive to be an alpha male, or omega, is really nothing more than simple self-confidence, which is independent of a person's social personality type (introvert or extrovert).

You can have a person who is an introvert and socially demure with plenty of self confidence.

Likewise you can have a person who is an extrovert and socially dominant, but lacks any significant self confidence.

The "alpha male" is a myth, made up to perpetuate the stereotype of the socially dominant extrovert, stolen from a failed study of wolf packs and nonsensically applied to human social interaction.

We are more complex than that, and as it turns out, so are the wolves they were studying.
 
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There's no such thing as "alpha", or whatever. We (human beings) aren't wolves, and the whole "alpha male" thing is just psuedoscientific nonsense.

What you perceive to be an alpha male, or omega, is really nothing more than simple self-confidence, which is independent of a person's social personality type (introvert or extrovert).

You can have a person who is an introvert and socially demure with plenty of self confidence.

Likewise you can have a person who is an extrovert and socially dominant, but lacks any significant self confidence.

The "alpha male" is a myth, made up to perpetuate the stereotype of the socially dominant extrovert, stolen from a failed study of wolf packs and nonsensically applied to human social interaction.

We are more complex than that, and as it turns out, so are the wolves they were studying.
Great answer.
 

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the stereotype of "alpha" is so skewed that there is no correct fitment even by it's definition in regards to animals. the alpha is in reference to a pack and since there really isn't any sort of "pack" when it comes to a group of guys, the label is mute. now there are guys with more assertiveness than others but that doesn't make them "alpha" per se.

if i had to pick a guy to be the "alpha", i would say it would be the one that does his own thing irregardless of anyone else with full self-confidence in his ability and inability. almost a lone ranger who can handle his own and goes about his business with no need for external recognition or reward. the alphas are the quiet ones that are truly capable but no one is aware (and he prefers it that way).
 
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Having a big cock can be a factor, but for me it is a man who doesnt take shit, but also protecting people who cant protect themselves.
 

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Confidence in one's self. Attitude the way he walks, mannerisms, treats other people. You either have it or you don't. Having a big dick helps but it's not mandatory.

Plenty of big dick beta guys out there. Some of us used to say you were either a leader or a follower. Same thing with alpha/beta.