What Makes A Top Want To Top Instead Of Bottoming?

[ilbdd03]

Being a total bottom, I know why I like getting fucked in the ass. I love being owned and having a hard cock hit my prostate is the best. But for you tops out there, what makes you choose to top instead of bottom?

 

[halcyondays]

I love everything about penetrating a guy who wants it, needs it, craves it, enjoys it.

I didn't bottom because anal play/penetration gave me no pleasure until I was 40. I don't know why my body/brain changed. For the last 20 years I've enjoyed both. I still top way more in part because I attract bottoms. Most verse guys want to be topped only.

There's something to the stereotype that the tall hung guy tops. Age also. I'm a month away from 60. I prefer young guys. Few want to top older gents.

 

[Hx4]

I worked as a gay prostitute for a while many years ago. If I wanted to attract and keep clients I had to be versatile and top when asked to. It was rather hard sometimes, because you really have to find the motivation and the clients are often not the kind of men that turn you on, whereas I found that as a bottom I was almost always ready and open to be penetrated, no matter the client (even if I didn't like the guy I sometimes ended up kissing him once he was inside me). Now, in my private life I am exclusively a bottom and quite submissive too. So, I have always been curious about the so called "power bottom", because in my experience a top usually likes to take control -sometimes total control, sometimes just the feeling of having a bottom open and at his mercy- but the power bottom challenges that. Still, I think toping is a matter of control/domination in the exchange that is sexual intercourse.

 

[elklindoxxx]

I'm a buttman. That's always the way it has been for me ever since I could remember.

 

[pursine]

Pain, we'll start with pain. Bottoming fucking hurts until you get used to it.

 

[montyclift]

Dominance and control in my case

 

[Wolfprud3]

I love bottoming but I’m more attracted to a big ass rather than a big dick, I love eating guys out especially ones who are really masculine

 

[Big_a_20]

For me it’s knowing that once a dude sees my dick he wants me balls deep in him. While very few can do that orally, I am quite talented about getting deep while fucking. Seeing their eyes and hearing the moans and feeling them struggle but wanting more really turns me on. Plus the fact they always hit me up for more is a turn on as well and proof that I did fuck them good haha.

 

[deleted1774761]

Dominance and control in my case

What he said...

 

[9x6VersTop]

For me it’s knowing that once a dude sees my dick he wants me balls deep in him. While very few can do that orally, I am quite talented about getting deep while fucking. Seeing their eyes and hearing the moans and feeling them struggle but wanting more really turns me on. Plus the fact they always hit me up for more is a turn on as well and proof that I did fuck them good haha.

Fuck me anytime

 

[Marco86]

For me it’s knowing that once a dude sees my dick he wants me balls deep in him. While very few can do that orally, I am quite talented about getting deep while fucking. Seeing their eyes and hearing the moans and feeling them struggle but wanting more really turns me on. Plus the fact they always hit me up for more is a turn on as well and proof that I did fuck them good haha.

where do I line up to bottom for you?

 

[gogo7890]

I love ass so much!! i cannot see a hole and not want to lick it and fuck it! (specially the hairy ones)
I also feel much pleasure in my penis so im always wanting to feel that delicious sensation of my penis inside some ass

 

[svendiff44]

For me it’s knowing that once a dude sees my dick he wants me balls deep in him. While very few can do that orally, I am quite talented about getting deep while fucking. Seeing their eyes and hearing the moans and feeling them struggle but wanting more really turns me on. Plus the fact they always hit me up for more is a turn on as well and proof that I did fuck them good haha.

Summed it up perfectly here. While i have bottomed a bit more recently, this is why I primarily am a top

 

[erpap]

I like to be dominated, I like a man who takes what he wants and use me for his needs. So I like bottoming, and it’s definitely not a choice Me just how I’m programmed.

 

[Bigred12]

I’ve tried but bottoming just doesn’t do much for me. I do love sliding into a bottom that really wants my cock. Seeing how much pleasure he’s getting from it and on the rare occasion, making a bottom have a hands free orgasm from fucking. Absolutely the best for me to see & feel that.

 

[BlackIncher90]

It's dominance but that in and out sensation on my dick just drives me crazy. Having said that I do love bottom also. So if there are takers or givers, lol.