basket case? I hear and read that men are attracted to women who are "vulnerable."
What does that mean exactly and how does it get manifested?
What does that mean exactly and how does it get manifested?
what do you exactly mean with word vulnerable??
SOme folks are attracted to someone needy... because they feel insecure about their ability to hold the interest of someone more self reliant.
But needy is not the same as vulnerable.
Vulnerable means being open and capable of being hurt.
It means being willing to invest in a relationship, knowing it might mean a broken heart.
People who are vulnerable are open...
They do not armor themselves against injury.
The reason candid pictures of Marilyn Monroe are so prevalent, 50 some years after her death, is that they so often captured that open vulnerability that made men so want to protect and hold her.
When you meet a girl who looks at you, aloof and dismissive, waiting for you to 'prove' yourself worthy with some clever line or new approach... that is a woman hardened to love.
And when you meet a woman who looks at you with a an open smile, and that glimmer of hope that maybe this guy will be The guy... that is a woman who is still open...
still reachable... still willing to risk her heart and soul for something really great.
For someone really great.
SOme folks are attracted to someone needy... because they feel insecure about their ability to hold the interest of someone more self reliant.
But needy is not the same as vulnerable.
Vulnerable means being open and capable of being hurt.
It means being willing to invest in a relationship, knowing it might mean a broken heart.
People who are vulnerable are open...
They do not armor themselves against injury.
The reason candid pictures of Marilyn Monroe are so prevalent, 50 some years after her death, is that they so often captured that open vulnerability that made men so want to protect and hold her.
When you meet a girl who looks at you, aloof and dismissive, waiting for you to 'prove' yourself worthy with some clever line or new approach... that is a woman hardened to love.
And when you meet a woman who looks at you with a an open smile, and that glimmer of hope that maybe this guy will be The guy... that is a woman who is still open...
still reachable... still willing to risk her heart and soul for something really great.
For someone really great.
This is exactly my understanding of it.SOme folks are attracted to someone needy... because they feel insecure about their ability to hold the interest of someone more self reliant.
But needy is not the same as vulnerable.
Vulnerable means being open and capable of being hurt.
It means being willing to invest in a relationship, knowing it might mean a broken heart.
People who are vulnerable are open...
They do not armor themselves against injury.
The reason candid pictures of Marilyn Monroe are so prevalent, 50 some years after her death, is that they so often captured that open vulnerability that made men so want to protect and hold her.
When you meet a girl who looks at you, aloof and dismissive, waiting for you to 'prove' yourself worthy with some clever line or new approach... that is a woman hardened to love.
And when you meet a woman who looks at you with a an open smile, and that glimmer of hope that maybe this guy will be The guy... that is a woman who is still open...
still reachable... still willing to risk her heart and soul for something really great.
For someone really great.
I don't think anyone was saying it's a willingness to be hurt, but rather a willingness to RISK being hurt.When I hear the term "vulnerable" being batted around as some asset, I believe the point of the matter isn't a willingness to be hurt, it's the willingness to trust. I think vulnerability and strength aren't necessarily polar opposites. I don't care to see your weaknesses.
I care that you trust me.