What makes you feel sexy?

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Fucking Elvis on Fremont. :biggrin1:

Yup shorty with big hair haha

Which one of you was doing Elvis on Fremont??? I know anything goes in Vegas, but seriously - you could arrested for molesting Elvis. Unless Elvis is code for OWO.....and Sprinky is Priscilla.... in that case.....uh oh

*backing out of thread slowly and pretending I didn't see a thing*
 

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What makes me feel sexy is the whole slow ritual of getting into a corset or nice lingerie.

It starts with bathing, grooming..setting the mood with candles, soft blues in the back ground, a glass of wine.
Applying make up and scent.
Unwrapping the item from it's storage box and tissue paper.
Holding it up to admire the workmanship.
Doing up the clips...
reaching back and slowly exhale as you tighten the lacing.
Feeling your ribcage being squeezed and compressed.
Admiring the way it makes your bosom swell and bulge out of the top.

Mmmm...yes it makes me feel sexy and very desirable.
 

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What makes me feel sexy is the whole slow ritual of getting into a corset or nice lingerie.

It starts with bathing, grooming..setting the mood with candles, soft blues in the back ground, a glass of wine.
Applying make up and scent.
Unwrapping the item from it's storage box and tissue paper.
Holding it up to admire the workmanship.
Doing up the clips...
reaching back and slowly exhale as you tighten the lacing.
Feeling your ribcage being squeezed and compressed.
Admiring the way it makes your bosom swell and bulge out of the top.

Mmmm...yes it makes me feel sexy and very desirable.

*swoon* You are driving me crazy!!! I would love to be there to to watch this process *drools*
 

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I'm like FancyPants in some areas.

When I get out of the bath he has that sexy lecherous smile; kinda hard to explain, but you must know what I'm talking about. I get embarrassed first, and then I get flirty.

My LBD always makes me feel sexy. Heels do it too.

As for in the mood sexy when his tongue touches my ear I'm all his. Hell, when his hand touches my elbow....

"Hell, when his hand touches my elbow...." This made me think of Ally McBeal, a show that started off fast and furious and fizzled pretty quickly. But one running thing from the later episodes that cracked me up was the 'knee' and the 'waddle'. I think the character was Richard, right? He just had a way of touching those two spots that drove women crazy.

And I found it doubly funny when many years ago, I was flirting with this gal and we had to ride the underground--she was heading home, and I was only riding a few blocks to my office to pick up some things. As part of some joking flirting, I put my hand on her right knee, and moved my hand toward the inside of her knee and extended my middle finger and then pulled back. I know it wounds weird. I did it a few times. I found out weeks later that she had gotten so wet, she though she could have cum if I kept doing it! LOL
 

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When a guy I like thinks I don't see it but he's checking me out. With a damn-I-want-a-piece-of-that look in his eyes. That makes me feel sexy. When I'm not attracted to him, it doesn't have that effect though, totally subjective.

Also when I'm just passing by, and they have a glance at me, turn back to whatever they're doing, and then uncounsciously look back to have a second better look. I love that! Depending on the situation, I'll act as if I didn't see it but have this huge grin on the inside, or I'll give him a wink.

This weekend I was at a club and this (total playerish!) guy came up to me and commented on how I was about the only woman in that club that actually knew how to dance. And how he loved watching me move. I knew he was a player, I knew it was a total lie because there were plenty women dancing, and I knew he probably said that line to about every woman he met there. Still made me feel sexy. (But then again that guy was totally on top of his game ^^) Before he walked up to me I had caught him looking my way several times throughout the evening. That "singling me out" made me feel sexy too.
Generally having the feeling that a guy choses me above all others. Whether you are at a club or in a relationship, doesn't matter, makes me feel sexy.

When I'm in a relationship, no matter how strong it is, reaffirmation of him chosing me, knowing he's thinking about me, knowing he wants me, will make me feel sexy.
It can be just a shared look between the two of us when we're in a crowd, talking to different people. It can be getting sexy lingerie knowing he's totally looking forward seeing me in it. It can be getting a text telling me he wants me and what he's going to do to me when he gets home.
It's really in a thousand different possible ways. But the message is the same.
Knowing he wants me.

I'm not saying that every little thing he does like that will make me jump his bones. It's the combined tension he's creating. It all adds up. Playing my mind like that, making me feel sexy, will get me in the mood.
When those "messages" stop, when that reaffirmation is gone, when I catch him looking at other women more than I catch him looking like that at me, I will start doubting myself in the relationship. -- I'm not saying he cannot look at other women. I can deal with that, if he's a man and something hot passes by he's going to look. That doesn't threaten me. Not as long as he's giving me those signals, shows me he wants me, and in a way, reaffirms that he's picking me over "them". He has to keep flirting with me AND he has to not take me for granted. (Which may sound silly but it's something I see a lot of couples doing when they're in a long term relationship...)

I hope that's what you meant by your question? If not, feel free to elaborate :)
 

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Which one of you was doing Elvis on Fremont??? I know anything goes in Vegas, but seriously - you could arrested for molesting Elvis. Unless Elvis is code for OWO.....and Sprinky is Priscilla.... in that case.....uh oh

*backing out of thread slowly and pretending I didn't see a thing*
HAHAHAHA....I will just say pelvic gyrations with a few low moans. :redface:
 

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Was there singing? I don't recall that but then again I was busy. :tongue:

Tough to sing if your mouth is full.....:smile:

Next time you guys meet in Vegas, I don't know if I want to be a lurker or if I should run like hell...:confused:
 

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When he gets on top of me and nurses like a kitten and massages my tits with his hands. OMG. Or if he rubs his hard cock against my ass cheeks or thighs trying to cum if I'm not in the position of being penetrated. That always gets me in the mood. When he spanks my ass hard...that'll do it.
 

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Eventually I am going to start a thread about this in the Ask A Woman group as I am clueless about purchasing lingerie for a woman. I worry a lot about buying her something that suggests "I want sex from you in return" rather than "I bought this to make you feel sexy and confident about yourself".

Take her shopping. She will enjoy trying on things in the dressing room for you and often pick exactly what YOU like on her.
 

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I like that look of self confidence on her face when I know she feels sexy.
 

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Yeah, sometimes it's that feeling of self-confidence that makes you feel sexy. I know I'm a lot like some of the other women, working out does it for me, or achieving my fitness goals and so on. Being successful. Those things add to my confidence and yeah, make me feel sexy. I like to wear jewelry and take time with my appearance, and so on, shoes, clothes, but really it's the sexy things I wear under the clothes that make me feel a bit more like 'sex on toast' ...

Not in a relationship, so I don't have much of the other 'sexy' feeling good stuff. LOL.
 

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Well, I need some ideas, too. Since my relationship ended AND I'm now all menopausal it seems I have completely lost my mojo. I went from feeling like the most desirable woman in the world to feeling like dollar store dog food. For the most part, even the men here don't flirt with me :eek:!

So please, my fellow women...what else beside the men in your lives make you feel like sex on toast?

Getting a little color with self tanner

Wearing red lipstick

A bra that gives sexy cleavage

Objectifying men and using them for sex(they do not fight this)

Masturbating twice a day

Enjoying first time in years of being unattached and realizing there is so much fun out there

Going out dressed up and owning a room

These things all work good
 

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I suppose feeling confident in myself makes me feel sexy.

Anything that a man may do, including the looks, touching, etc. makes me feel wanted, but I don't really know if it makes me feel sexy.