What makes you feel sexy?

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Most of the time I don't feel sexy, and I don't want to feel sexy.

It's only when I want to have some fun that I feel sexy. I feel sexy when hubby comes home and attempts to hug me but instead caresses my breasts.

I feel sexiest when I'm wearing something that I think is sexy or makes me look sexy. I always feel sexy in my little black dress, but I also feel self conscious sometimes. The only problem is that I sometimes forget what I'm wearing, and I quit feeling sexy.

I have a few pieces of lingerie that makes me feel especially sexy.

I don't always feel sexy in the nude. I swim in the nude and do housework. Not very sexy stuff.

I feel fake sexy when I'm flirting. That doesn't count. There's no goal in mind - just fun.
 

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I don’t know that I ever feel sexy. Confident, yes, sexy? No. I feel pretty good rocking a good set of boots, makeup done, hair feeling done. I just feel confident. I think I’m past sexy. I’m in my invisible years, I think.
 

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I don’t know that I ever feel sexy. Confident, yes, sexy? No. I feel pretty good rocking a good set of boots, makeup done, hair feeling done. I just feel confident. I think I’m past sexy. I’m in my invisible years, I think.

That's it! I don't feel sexy most of the time, but I do feel confident, and that makes me feel good about myself. You nailed it, Sweetie!
 

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I make me feel sexy.

Sure, when he tells me I look good or I catch him staring at my body it makes me feel sexy, but he's not where it starts. It starts with me... with how I choose to dress and carry myself.

I almost never find clothes that by themselves make *me* feel more attractive, I feel like I make the *clothes* look fuckin sexy.

I have confidence issues like anyone else. I used to hate everything about the way I looked. I taught myself to look at me and think DAMN BITCH, YOU FINE AS FUCK.

It took a long time.
 
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I honestly don't know... Just sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. Sometimes I'm dressed up and feel bleugh, other times, I'm totally rockin' my PJs

Sometimes the way others interact with me makes me feel sexy. I had a very tactile bf, would always brush my hair back to kiss the spot where my neck meets my shoulder, would always rest his hands on my hips, trail a hand down my back, frequent small touches throughout the day - it was done absent mindedly but it did make me feel sexy, come to think of it.
 
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I don’t know that I ever feel sexy. Confident, yes, sexy? No. I feel pretty good rocking a good set of boots, makeup done, hair feeling done. I just feel confident. I think I’m past sexy. I’m in my invisible years, I think.
While you are “invisible” to many of us-—I only know your avatar, my dear Wonder Woman—your intelligence, your kindness, your sense of humor, your confidence, your writing are all visible to us; and of all of those amazing attributes, singularly or combined, make you a remarakable, attractive—and dare I say—sexy woman. The same can be said for all the women of LPSG that I have had the pleasure of interacting with on a repeated basis. Hardly invisible, always amazing, always appreciated, and never past sexy at any age.
 

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While you are “invisible” to many of us-—I only know your avatar, my dear Wonder Woman—your intelligence, your kindness, your sense of humor, your confidence, your writing are all visible to us; and of all of those amazing attributes, singularly or combined, make you a remarakable, attractive—and dare I say—sexy woman. The same can be said for all the women of LPSG that I have had the pleasure of interacting with on a repeated basis. Hardly invisible, always amazing, always appreciated, and never past sexy at any age.
Thank you, Sam. There does come an age when a women is confident but perhaps sexually invisible to the world at large due to age. As a woman in her 50’s, that time has come for me. And that’s totally fine with me. I wouldn’t trade the security and confidence of age for all the sexiness and attention of youth I used to get. I love being in my skin now. It’s good to be me!
 

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Post the thread whoring.

I either feel like the sexiest beast to ever stride the planet. Or I feel completely non-sexual.

An in between is very rare. I can go from asexual potato, quite happily spudding along in my own little world to sex good pretty quickly at times. Cuz the mood and my own awesomeness occurred to me out of the blue.

Right now I have a pretty decent "I'm a love machine" vibe going.
 
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Thank you, Sam. There does come an age when a women is confident but perhaps sexually invisible to the world at large due to age. As a woman in her 50’s, that time has come for me. And that’s totally fine with me. I wouldn’t trade the security and confidence of age for all the sexiness and attention of youth I used to get. I love being in my skin now. It’s good to be me!
As a “woman of a certain age”, you have no need to sell yourself short. Nor do you need to become invisible. Your “security and confidence” far outshine—and are more enduring than—the supposed pluses of youth. I know you and all the rest of the women of LPSG only for the outpourings of your minds. I never look at profiles and galleries; but, from what I’ve seen—and know—is that all of you are highly impressive accomplished desirable women that are second to none—at any age. So, my dear LaFemme, be very, very visible. As you said: it’s good to be you; and we all celebrate that you are you. Let your light shine and your flame burn hot. Let no one diminish either.

Over and out.
 
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That Rem loses his train of thought/gets distracted every time he sees my bare ass. Which is a lot, since I hang out nude or mostly nude at home. Even after several years of being together, I still have that effect on him :blush:
 

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While you are “invisible” to many of us-—I only know your avatar, my dear Wonder Woman—your intelligence, your kindness, your sense of humor, your confidence, your writing are all visible to us; and of all of those amazing attributes, singularly or combined, make you a remarakable, attractive—and dare I say—sexy woman. The same can be said for all the women of LPSG that I have had the pleasure of interacting with on a repeated basis. Hardly invisible, always amazing, always appreciated, and never past sexy at any age.

I can't say it any better than that, or agree more. ^