What Makes You Look At Someone?

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What makes you look at someone? Why do you look at someone? Is it for a possible sexual partner? Is it because they look interesting or different than you?

I ask this as someone that people have looked at my whole life. I don't know what people want when they look at me.

From the time I was very young, i had snow white blonde hair and huge, blue eyes. As I was in my teens and in college, i had an amazing body - thin, swimmer, boy body.

The german nazis loved looking at me to try to breed me with their girls. I kid you not.

So at this point when people look at me, i figure "let them look. i don't care. i have to do what i have to do and i will do it".

it's only very seldom that women will look at me and have the presence of mind to walk up to me and tell me their same and tell me they want to fuck me/they want me to fuck them. and i am all for that and wish it happened more.

when i look at someone (man or woman) its because they seem somehow physically attractive. if a woman - i look and evaluate if she would be attractive enough to have sex with. beyond that, i wonder if i would have a child with her. with men - its always competitive. i wonder if he is better looking than i am, do women wonder if he is better looking than i am. if he is in fact better looking than i am, i wonder what i need to do to be better looking or how to adjust my gym work out.

so - what makes you look at someone?
 
Normally the first thing I notice about someone is their smile. If it's the first time I meet someone their eyes also interest me. That first eye to eye connection normally does it for me. Though it varies from person to person.

Last night I went to the store and stood in line behind a guy buying beer. I couldn't see his front... but his tshirt was alittle tight and everytime he moved I could see his muscle's flex under his shirt even though he was pretty lean. When he turned around I had to stop myself from openly ogling him, because I wanted to see the rest of him. I waited until he was talking to the cashier before I started checking him out.

I guess it kind of all depends on the situation. Watching a guy play sports I'm focused on his body, watching him read a book I'm focused on his face.
 
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