What makes you look at someone? Why do you look at someone? Is it for a possible sexual partner? Is it because they look interesting or different than you? I ask this as someone that people have looked at my whole life. I don't know what people want when they look at me. From the time I was very young, i had snow white blonde hair and huge, blue eyes. As I was in my teens and in college, i had an amazing body - thin, swimmer, boy body. The german nazis loved looking at me to try to breed me with their girls. I kid you not. So at this point when people look at me, i figure "let them look. i don't care. i have to do what i have to do and i will do it". it's only very seldom that women will look at me and have the presence of mind to walk up to me and tell me their same and tell me they want to fuck me/they want me to fuck them. and i am all for that and wish it happened more. when i look at someone (man or woman) its because they seem somehow physically attractive. if a woman - i look and evaluate if she would be attractive enough to have sex with. beyond that, i wonder if i would have a child with her. with men - its always competitive. i wonder if he is better looking than i am, do women wonder if he is better looking than i am. if he is in fact better looking than i am, i wonder what i need to do to be better looking or how to adjust my gym work out. so - what makes you look at someone?