What Makes You Shoot A Big Load?

[926835]

So I’ve been thinking about this lately. When I jerk it for a quickly obviously still feels amazing but I don’t cum a whole lot. Obviously edging and being aroused for a long time and being turned on a lot for a long period of time makes me cum a lot.

But I’ve found when I have sex with my wife I’ll cum and cum hard and it’s kinda in the middle to a little and a lot. Obviously when we get the toys out and play for a while it’s like a waterfall and when I play with guys there’s a shit ton. Like literally everywhere. I’ve never done anal or anything but when I frot or blow a guy and he cums then I cum it’s massive. So that’s what makes me cum the most is when I get to play with a guy. I’ve read some guys cum a lot when they get pegged, or their wife gives them a bj, or certain things push that certain button that makes them cum like a waterfall. I’ll shoot over my head sometimes or hit my forehead. So let me know what makes you cum the most.

 

[notthatguy]

Here is my one word answer.....breathing.

If i am still breathing, i am probably going to shoot a big load.

 

[LeftHandLuke]

New pussy always made me cum more. But I'm married now so that was fun.

 

[deleted1074483]

texts during the day teasing one another and occasional pix to each other so that by the time we're both home we're so gagging for it and its just wild sex together - makes us both cum more than usual

 

[samandtham]

• Prolonged period of abstinence (a week or two) is definitely number one.
• When I'm doing it, either masturbating or having sex, I delay it as long as I can. It's easier when I'm with someone because we can make out, take a break, give each other massages, etc. When I'm jacking off, I'd put on porn and make it a point to slow down and cum when the actors finish.

 

[Thomas82]

Experimented for fun with the combination of edging daily over a weeks time, wore cock/ball ring daily, and took some natural supplements believed to affect load size (cellery seed, lecitin etc). Finally one day played a bit with fleshlight and shoot huge long ropes of cum like crazy over my hair, eye, beard and chest, it was just massive and needed towels to clean up Worth the experience, but now back to the old pattern of needing to fuck or get off at least every other day.

 

[libralover4u2]

My swing partner used to give guys a finger wave while she was stroking their cocks and they would cum big loads. A finger wave is when someone puts their finger in your butt and massages your prostate. She had a similar effect when she pegged guys and they would have very strong orgasms.

 

[Cum]

Not jerking off or having sex for a while makes me shoot big loads....

 

[UncutViking]

Refraining from bating or sex for 2-3 days, then do an extended bating session, with edging thrown in, at least one hour

 

[prepstudinsc]

I always shoot big loads, and normally, i cum every day If I wait a day or two , it's a flood.

 

[erpap]

I always shoot big loads, and normally, i cum every day If I wait a day or two , it's a flood.

Now I really want to suck you off!

 

[hotguy88]

Edging before a blowjob or sex

 

[Forever Horny]

my girlfriends mouth. she sucks dick so good and she's obsessed with going to town on mine. nothing like kicking back while she pulls my boxers down to my ankles and she goes to town on me and i'm just laid there with my eyes rolling into the back of my head

 

[chrisrobin]

So I’ve been thinking about this lately. When I jerk it for a quickly obviously still feels amazing but I don’t cum a whole lot. Obviously edging and being aroused for a long time and being turned on a lot for a long period of time makes me cum a lot.

But I’ve found when I have sex with my wife I’ll cum and cum hard and it’s kinda in the middle to a little and a lot. Obviously when we get the toys out and play for a while it’s like a waterfall and when I play with guys there’s a shit ton. Like literally everywhere. I’ve never done anal or anything but when I frot or blow a guy and he cums then I cum it’s massive. So that’s what makes me cum the most is when I get to play with a guy. I’ve read some guys cum a lot when they get pegged, or their wife gives them a bj, or certain things push that certain button that makes them cum like a waterfall. I’ll shoot over my head sometimes or hit my forehead. So let me know what makes you cum the most.

Frotting can take a much longer time and its the whole body experience that then relates to you sexual activity and makes yo shoot and shoot and shoot - more than the average wank. Likewise with a bj, wet warm and slow, you have time to enjoy the feeling and to build up to a climax. The addition of toys with sex gives even more bodily stimulation which can also result in a heavier cum load. As you say a quickie with the hand gets results but not quantity. As a wanker I can appreciate the need to cum quickly, on the other hand sometimes I like to space it out and enjoy it more so I use toys to stimulate my anal cavities, sometimes vibrators, sometimes just wall/floor applied dildo's, cock rings and ball straps and always use mirrors to satisfy my lust - recently I've changed the lube to using a bit of butter, makes for a nice soft stroke, seems to make the cock more receptive and the cum shot as it blows is extraordinary.

 

[WarriorforLife]

Learn how to master the art of edging and stroke throughout the day without cumming. Even for 1 or 2 minutes at different times of the day will make all the difference.

 

[Mike hung]

Nothing in particular, I just do. I always cum several times a day anyway usually from sex and I might throw in the odd hand job myself. I always cum a big load and it seems to make little difference how soon I'd cum before hand, it's been very rare that I've gone without cumming for longer than a day, my balls just ache too much if I don't cum. Even the rare occasion I have gone a longer period it's difficult to say if my load has been bigger than usual, maybe I've had an extra rope or two but still around what I'd consider normal.
On the other side of the coin what can make a difference is prolonged foreplay and teasing, I've cum harder than usual then.

 

[3325671]

No idea. I just do

 

[thickcockjames]

I've noticed that there are actually multiple ways I can orgasm, and depending on what way I do, I'll shoot a different load.

1-Jerking off, using my cock's "hood" I guess. I'm circumcised, but its not the tightest circumcision so I've still got some wiggle room so to speak with my extra skin, so I can jerk off and use that skin between my head and hand. If I stimulate my head this way, I'll get a pretty average cumshot, few spurts, nothing to really brag about.

2-Essentially the same as above, but flexing my sphincter, legs and butt muscles. When I started doing this, I didn't know what it was, I realized that while having sex I had a bit more sensitivity when I would fully thrust into my partner and even more if I held it inside her like, flexing those muscles. I tried that while masturbating, and it feels pretty good. Later on I realized I was essentially massaging my prostate very gently. This produces fewer spurts than above, but they are thicker. Usually one thick rope of cum, then a few smaller ones.

3-Pulling the skin. If I jerk off while holding my shaft and gently tugging down, that puts some pressure on the "male clit" area of my head. This usually takes a while to produce and orgasm but it's powerful. This is the, shoot a load across the room orgasm. I have to be pretty damn horny to do this, but it's like 4 or 5 good, powerful spurts.

4-Lubed masturbating. If I do the traditional, lube up and run one out, it's a bit more powerful than the first two in terms of the ropes coming out, but it feels way more intense. If I cum that way, my dick is done for a while. With other forms I can usually just start jerking off again right away.

5-Sex. Vaginal sex is kind of a combination of all of them, once you include getting stroked, and sucked by my partner with thrusting into her, its the best. Biggest load, strongest orgasm, get turned on just thinking about it. haha.

 

[HorsemanUK]

I usually cum big loads, but when a woman has a naturally hairy pussy, that really makes me blow a super big load inside.

 

[Volumen]

I’m another who cums quite a bit under most circumstances. Edging alone or with someone else will add to volume and intensity greatly. But the thing that pushes my cumshots into insane territory is if my foreskin is pulled back by the person stroking me and my dick is wet from either lube or their saliva and they focus specifically on stroking my big mushroom head. Normally I jerk dry with just my foreskin for friction, so I have literally had screaming orgasms where i’ve sprayed all over the fucking room when the jacker zeroed in on my lubed up cockhead.