What Makes You Want/need To Bottom?

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I've been a top for many years now, and it has always fascinated me why guys need to bottom/enjoy bottoming so much.

You see them grimace as they take a massive cock in their holes, and the grimace turns to a smile and sheer enjoyment - what happens that makes it so enjoyable?

Now, I know some of you will be cheeky and tell me to go and try being a bottom - but you can bog off! LOL

Just curious to read what guys have to say.
 

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I mean, having a guy you think is really hot in you like that is hot. Then there’s feeling his dick head nudging your prostate. And I guess lastly is the fact that the anus is a major erogenous zone for males.

I used to bottom, but I quit anal sex because over time I realized I get more psychological satisfaction out of oral sex (giving), and I am very orally oriented sexually.
 

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I've been a top for many years now, and it has always fascinated me why guys need to bottom/enjoy bottoming so much.

You see them grimace as they take a massive cock in their holes, and the grimace turns to a smile and sheer enjoyment - what happens that makes it so enjoyable?

Now, I know some of you will be cheeky and tell me to go and try being a bottom - but you can bog off! LOL

Just curious to read what guys have to say.

the prostate.

feeling dominated.

feeling "taken".

just feels better.

just some reasons why people prefer bottoming.
 

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As a bi guy, I "top" with F's so when I'm with a guy I want to be the bottom. I'm masc - type A, but with guys I like to be sub and just be used for his pleasure. LOVE to suck and swallow, if things click and he wants to mount me all the better, nothing like having a guys cock using my ass for his pleasure. I'm long over due, now that things are opening up, I'm hoping that includes my chances of getting bent over more often.
 

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As a bi guy, I "top" with F's so when I'm with a guy I want to be the bottom. I'm masc - type A, but with guys I like to be sub and just be used for his pleasure. LOVE to suck and swallow, if things click and he wants to mount me all the better, nothing like having a guys cock using my ass for his pleasure. I'm long over due, now that things are opening up, I'm hoping that includes my chances of getting bent over more often.
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I met this married guy he talked about feelings he had about being with a guy.. I figured he was wanting to see what it was like to fuck a guy. But he wanted to do that and see what felt like to be fucked .. I told him I’m mostly bottom but I’d top him if wanted me to .. I figured I’d last couple of minutes and be done but I last over 20 minutes and he loved it .. he fucked me and enjoyed it as well but he was definitely enjoying being g fucked
 

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I have enjoyed doing things to my ass as far back as I can remember .. there were times I wk served what be like to feel my cock inside someone but it seemed like there was this invisible sign on my forehead that guys were ready to fuck me and. NEver wanted fucked
So it really didn’t bother me much as I was getting what I enjoyed .. and that was a nice hard cock inside me under a mans control
 

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The short answer is that prostate orgasms are mind-blowing, like 10x more intense than orgasm by penile stimulation alone.

It's insanely pleasurable for those who are used to anal penetration.

I started topping at 22 but for some reason my anus didn't become an erogenous zone which could bear penetration until my late 30s. I didn't bottom until I was 40. Then I understood why guys I fucked had to have it over and over again. :cool:

Full disclosure. Long before then I had prostate orgasms from non-penetration stimulation from vibration/rubbing of my perineum aka taint. The prostate's underneath it. Penetration is much more direct and intense.
 

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My ex-wife used to fuck me with her 8” strap on. I loved it. I would leak cum whenever she would hit the prostate, and I liked being the bitch. I’m looking for a guy to give me my first real cock. I have no interest in fucking a man. I like the thought of submitting and having someone else in control.
 

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There's actually a lot of power being a bottom. It's my job (and great pleasure) to get my top off. Yes, I love servicing a top, To get him just to the edge of coming when I deep throat is the kind of control over a top that gets me off. When getting fucked, I try and take the lead on positions and speed, and when I'm ready to shoot my load, I get on my back and let the top know he can pound me as hard as he'd like. There's nothing better than my hole squeezing a big dick when I start to cum.
 

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I've been a top for many years now, and it has always fascinated me why guys need to bottom/enjoy bottoming so much.

You see them grimace as they take a massive cock in their holes, and the grimace turns to a smile and sheer enjoyment - what happens that makes it so enjoyable?

Now, I know some of you will be cheeky and tell me to go and try being a bottom - but you can bog off! LOL

Just curious to read what guys have to say.

Pleasing my top, getting dominated,and anal actually feels great when one is relaxed enough to take it. Nothing compares to a big man just pounding balls deep mercilessly.
 
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I had my days when I would pound a fuck buddy into the mattress and we would both end up worn out and drenched in sweat and cum. I mostly like to suck cock these days. I still like to fuck once in a while and on a rare occasion, I like to bottom. When I do it's because I'm craving a level of intimacy that you can't get from blowing someone. I don't always get physical pleasure out of it, but it really satisfies an emotional need for me. I like it at a steady slow pace until we both cum, and once in a while, I like a good hard pounding as well.
 

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I've been a top for many years now, and it has always fascinated me why guys need to bottom/enjoy bottoming so much.

You see them grimace as they take a massive cock in their holes, and the grimace turns to a smile and sheer enjoyment - what happens that makes it so enjoyable?

Now, I know some of you will be cheeky and tell me to go and try being a bottom - but you can bog off! LOL

Just curious to read what guys have to say.
Love the feeling of being stretched and feeling full, love the weight of a guy on top of me and the feel of the big dick rearranging my insides.
 

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Personally, I have a lot of power and control in my day-to-day life so I like bottoming and relinquishing that control when I can. Don’t get me wrong, I love feeling a warm, wet hole wrapped around my cock on occasion (tho, admittedly, I am a little insecure about my topping skills due lack of experience), but there’s something uniquely pleasurable about feeling the weight of a man on top of me, his beard and chest hair rough on my skin, him jackhammering my prostate until I cum (a lot of times hands free) that I can’t get enough of
 

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As a versatile guy I like to experience the different feelings and love to flip with another versatile guy. I like the feeling of a cock up my ass and letting my partner take it. Submitting to each other is fun.
 

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I most recently have experienced anal orgasms that are so powerful and fulfilling I know longer have the desire to jerk off. This started after getting by pounded by a trans and I now crave more and really enjoy pleasing others. So far other than the one trans I now love giving blowjobs and keeping them on the edge as long as possible..
 

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I have been about 50/50 in my top/bottom experience. When I first ventured into the gay side of my bisexuality, I was sure I would top. I had an ongoing conversation with a confidant who is a bottom - and a bottom on a quest for the ever bigger cock. It was through him and the experiences that he relayed to me that I became interested in bottoming.

I seriously enjoy body contact and having the weight of my partner on top of me. That closeness and full contact really fulfill me. My best experience with anal sex so far was one in which I topped my partner where he rode me. I have had some incredible orgasms that were brought on by my tantric masseur pleasuring just inside my sphincter including one where he penetrated me with only the head of his cock. I look forward to the opportunity to have a full-on experience of being properly fucked while my partner lies on top of me in absolute full body contact.
 

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I have been about 50/50 in my top/bottom experience. When I first ventured into the gay side of my bisexuality, I was sure I would top. I had an ongoing conversation with a confidant who is a bottom - and a bottom on a quest for the ever bigger cock. It was through him and the experiences that he relayed to me that I became interested in bottoming.

I seriously enjoy body contact and having the weight of my partner on top of me. That closeness and full contact really fulfill me. My best experience with anal sex so far was one in which I topped my partner where he rode me. I have had some incredible orgasms that were brought on by my tantric masseur pleasuring just inside my sphincter including one where he penetrated me with only the head of his cock. I look forward to the opportunity to have a full-on experience of being properly fucked while my partner lies on top of me in absolute full body contact.
Very similar experience...
 
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