What Method of Sex Is Best?

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  1. kjguy

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    I've been with my girlfriend for over a year, and up until recently, we've been having pretty standard sex. Occasionally, I will go for the slow and sensual style, which is my specialty and what I'm good at. She likes that way too, but only if she's in the mood for it. Recently she told me she likes rough, hard sex. I had no problem with trying it, and to give her what she wants. I made fast, deep, hard thrusts, and she just goes crazy! The only problem is it gets me off way too fast. It's hard to hold myself off from orgasm for very long. Earlier I tried it, and I had cum before 2 minutes. It was unintentional, and I felt pretty silly about it. What do you guys suggest? She just wants me to let go and give into pure animal instinct, but that's not the way I am. I get off too fast, I feel awkward talking dirty...
    I don't know, I just feel stuck in a way. What should I do?
     
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    If all else fails, rub one out before you have sex with her. Once the edge is taken off, so to speak, you shouldn't have any problem holding back.
     
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    LOL, I was going to suggest that. :biggrin1:

    "She just wants me to let go and give into pure animal instinct, but that's not the way I am. I get off too fast, She loves you, she only wants to be with you, anything you do including showing her your pure animal instinct; will be fine with her.

    I feel awkward talking dirty...Dirty talk is not my forte either, I have a very limited dirty talk vocabulary during sex (While driving is another matter :tongue:). If the sex is good, I can barely think let alone string together a sentence, dirty or otherwise. :wink::redface:


    I don't know, I just feel stuck in a way. What should I do?
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    Silly as it sounds, relax. It doesn't sound like she's going anywhere.
     
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    Use a de-sensitizing creme beforehand.
     
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    How about giving her an orgasm by oral sex first? Maybe after she has an orgasm, you won't feel so bad about cumming too fast then.

    It is a dilemma for a lot of couples. The woman wants faster so she can have an orgasm, but as she gets close and excited, her vagina tightens up causing the guy to cum. Or he cums just from seeing her get excited.

    Oh, and I just thought of something else. Have you ever tried using your middle finger to fuck her fast? (Press against the front wall of her vagina to hit the g-spot as you do that.) What you give up to the girth of a penis, you gain in speed and pressure you can apply with a finger. I'm thinking try that before penetration, but start slowly.
     
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    Let her climb on top and grind out a few good orgasms before you flip her over and give her a good pounding to finish off. Take a nap and repeat.
     
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    I have the same problem! I can make her orgasm by going slow and steady, but sometimes it pisses me off that I can't hold out long enough to really pound it into her like she wants...I've tried the desensitizing cream too, and that didn't help...

    I don't think rubbing one out before hand is gonna work for me, because every time I come, even if it's from masturbating, it takes me like over an hour to get ready for sex again! I know it sucks but that's just the way I am...:( We've tried to go again right after, and the frustrating thing is that my dick will get sorta hard again, like it's ready to fuck, but then if it's too soon, it'll go down again in like 40 seconds!

    The only times when I've been able to really give it to her hard enough to where she was speaking in tongues and shit was when I'm very buzzed, but not drunk, if that makes any sense...Too much and I'll get whiskey dick, too little and I'm back to normal. Even better is the "cross-buzz" with weed and beer! But not too much of that either.
     
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    When I feel myself getting close, I switch to a position that feels okay but doesn't get me off. An example would be if I'm pounding from the front, missionary-style, and I feel the orgasm coming up, I'll go to doggy-style, which I have never actually cum from. I'm sure there are certain positions for any man whereby he doesn't get off easily, so I'd become familiar with those and use them to break things up a little. The other thing to do, as you've said, is go with the slow and sensual style for a few minutes, which covers your ass excellently when you feel a minute-man-moment approaching.
     
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