It's a hard poll!
You tell me what I should answer?
If fast ejaculation was a problem, then that would be the most annoying thing. It's okay every once in a while, but if it regularly happens that I don't get to finish, then that's the worst. Most guys don't offer to finish you off, either. When they cum, it's over, and they just say, "I'm sorry." Hey, how about instead of saying sorry, you put your tongue to work?
I was going to say, "too polite man" but then I saw that your definition is a bit different than mine. My husband does this thing all the time, in and out of bed. Things in our lives are stressful ATM. We're poised for a big life change that could be really wonderful, or just different than before, but the change is stressful for me, the anticipation and worrying over decisions and whether they're the right ones, etc. Sometimes a worry will cross my mind when we're trying to relax, and I don't want to ruin downtime thinking about stressful things, so I'll try my best to banish the thought for now and be more zen about the moment. My hubby does this thing where he'll see my furrowed brow and he'll say, "What's wrong?" and since I want to stop thinking about it, not focus on it and have a conversation about it, I'll say, "Nothing." Now, that's a lie. I was thinking about something, but I would have already moved on by now, which is what I want, but my hubby presses me for more, "No, really, what's wrong?" Now, what do I say? If I say, "I don't want to talk about it," then that sounds passive aggressive and it sounds like something is really wrong and it begs him to press more. See where this is going? It's annoying, but it's even more annoying in bed. I wish he would hear the "Nothing," and understand that it means that it's not something I want to have a conversation about, and not because I'm keeping secrets, this stuff practically is all we talk about other than the baby, it's just not something I want to make a topic of conversation at this very moment when we could be doing something much better with our time!
I prefer hairless. Scratchy hair really is irritating on my face and on my happy place.