What % of women you date have anal sex?

[v32bone]

When I was first dating anal sex in the hetero community was relatively unheard of of rarely mentioned. Nowadays it is obviously much more prevalent.

What percentage of the women you have dated are up for anal sex?

Do you find that the younger they are the more likely they are to participate?

In my experience age has had little to do with it though it seems women 10+ years younger than me seem more experienced at it than the women above that age. Also to answer the first part of the question my experience has been about 30% of my partners are up for it.

Also interesting that the first gay man I ever met was not an anal sex fan. What percentage of the gay/bi men you are with decline anal sex?

 

[D_Crystallized Ginger]

Very interesting thread! I cant be useful witg my experiences though for I knly had few partners and nobody was up for anal sex.. Many times I ve been wondering how many girls are up for it myself..

 

[rtg]

I'd only be up for it if it was a serious relationship....

 

[D_Chocho_Lippz]

I've had quite a few say they are up for it and have done it before...

Then they have vaginal sex and they balk on anal sex saying I'm too big... annnddd, I'm not all that big...

So, still a anal virgin.

 

[B_Hickboy]

All of her.

 

[Dbug]

Only a very few had. I'd really want to try it but none has let me because they thought it would hurt or wouldn't go.

 

[diabolicalpornstar]

I've had three partners.

The first said yes to anal after we'd been together for about 6 months, she'd never done it before, but agreed to try it because I wanted to, and because I think she'd gotten turned on by the idea.
It never came up with the second, so I'm not sure if she'd have said yes or no.
The third was already an experienced back door girl when I met her, so that was a yes as well.

So I'm batting 66.6%, and it might have been 100%. Sadly I'll never know.

 

[B_Hickboy]

:hug:

 

[D_ShlongJohnSilver]

Any relationship that went beyond 3+ months included anal sex so 3 out of 3 in that department.

Only once on a one night stand though. I imagine that is a pretty rare occurrence.

 

[D_Crystallized Ginger]

I'd only be up for it if it was a serious relationship....

heard this many times.. but never really understood what anal has to do with a serious relationship

 

[693987]

heard this many times.. but never really understood what anal has to do with a serious relationship

For me, it's because there's a much higher chance of PAIN if I have anal with someone versus having vaginal intercourse. So if it's a serious relationship then I'm going to trust them to not be a jack ass :tongue:

 

[D_Crystallized Ginger]

For me, it's because there's a much higher chance of PAIN if I have anal with someone versus having vaginal intercourse. So if it's a serious relationship then I'm going to trust them to not be a jack ass :tongue:

makes sense! thanks for letting me understand it a bit better!

 

[latinluva]

About 3-4 out of every ten.

 

[cocktaste]

From what I heard, most women who will endure it only do so to please their partners.

Women don't have prostates, so there is very little there for them to like about it. If they get off on it psychologically, say as it's taboo, then they'd have reason to do it, not just to please the guy. Because women don't have any mechanism in there to gain pleasure from the experience, you're unlikely to find many who are willing to allow you to roam up their back passages. Reality ain't a porno, folks!

Find an adventurous chick if you're into it, or an accommodating one, but keep in mind that if she's not in it for the taboo, she's just doing it to please you, and that's not a positive thing to put a person through. Anal sex can be painful, and if you aren't getting anything out of it, that fucking sucks!

 

[Thirdlegproduction]

Have had no anal experience here, but women have asked me if i did in correlation to my size and it seemed to be optional if it weren't for my size.
I'd say about 50 to 60% but I've never asked directly and don't care to.

 

[The Dragon]

For me it's something that I'll allow once there's a level of trust.

There will never be spontaneous anal sex simply because shit isn't sexy at all and there's a lot of effort in making sure it's a clean and safe event.

 

[693987]

From what I heard, most women who will endure it only do so to please their partners.

Women don't have prostates, so there is very little there for them to like about it. If they get off on it psychologically, say as it's taboo, then they'd have reason to do it, not just to please the guy.

Um, we may not have prostates but we still have a bunch of nerves back there. It -can- feel good to some women physically. I personally don't "get off on it psychologically" at all for being "taboo".

 

[B_thenakedgardener]

I would say 75% of the girls I've fucked were up for some anal one girl wanted it a lot probably more than me

 

[v32bone]

All of her.

gotta love Hickboy! LOL.

 

[latinluva]

Have had no anal experience here, but women have asked me if i did in correlation to my size and it seemed to be optional if it weren't for my size.
I'd say about 50 to 60% but I've never asked directly and don't care to.

I'm sure it had everything to do with your size. Most women want something more practical......at least til they can open up more. Their concern would most likely be towards their vagina with anal completely out of the picture.