What % of women you date have anal sex?

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From what I heard, most women who will endure it only do so to please their partners.

Women don't have prostates, so there is very little there for them to like about it. If they get off on it psychologically, say as it's taboo, then they'd have reason to do it, not just to please the guy. Because women don't have any mechanism in there to gain pleasure from the experience, you're unlikely to find many who are willing to allow you to roam up their back passages. Reality ain't a porno, folks! *snip*
Can't speak for all women, but your assumptions do no apply to me at all. I love anal sex because it feels physically pleasurable - from the stretch at entry, the depth, his stroke, the pressure of being filled, which includes pressure to my vaginal walls. Plus, my deep spot/cul-de-sac also experiences similar sensation from anal with the right angle.

I've also engaged in impromptu/heat of the moment anal... no biggie.
 

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sFrom my experience, in short term relationships (lasted for a few couple of months): 10%
in Long term relationships (lasted for 6month+): 100%

If you combine both short term and long term : around 30%
 
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You know, sometimes when you watch the news and a story comes up about, 'Scientists have proven that 60% of carrots are more orange than the other 40%,' and you just wonder why anyone would need to know that?

Well, this is one of those questions.
 

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I'm almost 60 and been with the same gal for 35 yrs. before that I had about 50 gals, and back then it wasn't even a thought. I never had a gal even suggest it.

about 12-13 yrs ago, a fellow co-worker and his wife would sometimes hang out with us for drinks at the bar. this dude's wife was hawt, and liked to talk about taking it up the ass. her talk was very annoying to my wife. I just let it go. after one of these outings we went home and fucked. this gal's anal talk was discussed. my wife asked me if I had ever done that, and I told her no. you?, I said. she said no way. she thought it was "yucky" and said my cock was too big. she also said if we ever did that she would never BJ me again. actually, I'm not that interested. I'd rather have my wife "milk" my cock with pussy. she's so good at it.
 

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0%, in 2 long term-relations (19yrs and 12.5yrs still), 1 midterm (1year), 3 very short (less than 1month)
Only tried once, because 1 girl was curious about it, even that she didn t had any anal experience.
But the 0% is mainly because I wasn t much interested in it. But only 1, proposed it out of 6.
But those were different times... nowadays it seems to be a common thing in bed for the younger generation. ( if I may believe the polls in glossy-magaszines )
 

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I can't give accurate percentages, but most of the ladies in my life wouldn't do it. A few with anal-experience tried but found it too painful and the few that did enjoy it could only manage it for a short time, once in a blue moon. So, 10% would do it, I suppose.
 

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For me, it's because there's a much higher chance of PAIN if I have anal with someone versus having vaginal intercourse. So if it's a serious relationship then I'm going to trust them to not be a jack ass :tongue:

Beautifully said Fay!!!

For me it doesn't have to be a serious relationship, but I DO need to be able to trust them not to be a jack ass. For me that means it's restricted to serious relationships and long term FBs.


Women don't have prostates, so there is very little there for them to like about it.

Complete utter rubbish.

As Fay said, we have a whole bunch of nerves there. As FLAG said, anal can stimulate our deep spots through the shared anal/vaginal walls.

And in additional to these, some women can reach orgasm through stimulation of the perineal sponge.

There's plenty of physical reasons to like anal for women who enjoy these kinds of stimulation.
 

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For me, it's because there's a much higher chance of PAIN if I have anal with someone versus having vaginal intercourse. So if it's a serious relationship then I'm going to trust them to not be a jack ass :tongue:

Yep! Well said Faydreh!

Though I'm a little confused atm, cos I asked my bf about why he loves it so much (we haven't had anal, but he said he really likes it) and he said it's cos of the 'power' that he gets....that's quite offputting for me. I don't want to be an object to give him 'power', this just seems degrading to me?

From what I heard, most women who will endure it only do so to please their partners.

This is also true for me. I tried it twice with an ex a couple of years ago. I didn't really want to do it, but I felt pressured into it and wanted to please him...but later on I realised that he really just did it cos he wanted to degrade me.

I guess this has left me with the feeling then...do guys just want to do this to degrade us? I'm confused. :confused:
 

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LOL!! that's uncool... At least the girls who refused to give me their ass don't do anal sex qith anyone else.. But look at the upside of the coin, that means you have got a very thick penis!
The funny thing is im sure anal isnt the best thing ever but just being denied it so many times makes me want it SOOO DAMN BAD
 

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Only had one partner out of around 16 or so suggest it. When I was dating anal sex was considered by many pretty deviant behavior and was not nearly as socially accepted as now. So I never suggested it to any of my other partners or my wife (who I am certain would never consider it). Since I have been married a long time the subject has not come up.

The girl I tried it with had quite obviously done it with other guys and apparently liked it enough to suggest it. It turned out to be a bust as we couldn't get it to "work". never tried a second time.

There was a big sex survey recently reported in which something like 40% of hetero males, and a slightly smaller percentage of hetero females admitted to trying or enjoying anal sex. The younger age groups were much more likely to have engaged in anal sex. The percentages struck me as higher than I would have expected, but then I am an old fart and no doubt out of touch.
 
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I am not against Anal sex. I have had it. Sometimes enjoyed it. Other it was painful and deadfull. It would depend on my partner. Are they willing to ease me into it? Are they willing to learn my body and what it takes to make me want it as well as enjoy and desire it?

If your acting like a bull in a china shop. Chances are im going to tell you to f off and close myself to the idea.
 

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Yep! Well said Faydreh!

Though I'm a little confused atm, cos I asked my bf about why he loves it so much (we haven't had anal, but he said he really likes it) and he said it's cos of the 'power' that he gets....that's quite offputting for me. I don't want to be an object to give him 'power', this just seems degrading to me?



This is also true for me. I tried it twice with an ex a couple of years ago. I didn't really want to do it, but I felt pressured into it and wanted to please him...but later on I realised that he really just did it cos he wanted to degrade me.

I guess this has left me with the feeling then...do guys just want to do this to degrade us? I'm confused. :confused:

Answering the last issue first: No. At least I would hope not. There are generally two reasons: It feels good, in a different way than regular sex, and it provides variety.

Regarding the power thing, I think that lends itself more to the somewhat taboo nature of the act as well as the guy knowing that his partner is giving *everything* of herself now, in a physical way at least. "Power" is both accurate and wrong. I am sure he gets a rush engaging in the act and feels like a king. There is a bit of submissiveness inherently involved in giving up the ass, no? (unless you aggressively take control in a cowgirl position type of way--which is not usually the case). I would consider men giving facials to partners that really don't want them to be more along the lines of engaging in a 'degrading' act. But, as with anything I opine on, that's just my take.
 

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Variety & it feels darn fantastic here!

As for percentages, let me see...out of the girls/women I've really dated/been with (have never had a one night stand, but have had a few multi-night stands, but I'm not counting those, since I think a level of comfort & trust are needed to go for anal sex):

6/7!

Most of these girls I was dating or seeing for awhile and we had fun, good sex. A few of them really loved it and wanted it every few weeks, a few liked it but didn't want it that often, and just one liked the feeling when it was in, but didn't like the feeling of me coming out of her. This was tough for me, as she had the most fantastic ass I've ever seen. It was a work of art, bigger, round, firm, beautiful.

I LOVE anal sex. I've almost exclusively had fun times with it. Then again, I've almost exclusively had fun times with all the gals I've been with. I think it's because I'm very appreciative that such sexy women are willing to have some fun with me;) I take it as an honor.