What % of women you date have anal sex?

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And on this topic, current porn is going to do NOTHING to help younger dudes find willing female partners for anal sex. You simply cannot fuck a girl's ass like her pussy, unless she is a drugged up porn star.

Most girls, if you take it slowly and are gentle, will at least let you try it once or twice. If they like it, more.

But, seeing all this gonzo nonsense is only going to make too many impressionable young dudes think you can just bang a girl's ass like porno dudes. You can't.

Gotta take it slowly and gently.
 

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And on this topic, current porn is going to do NOTHING to help younger dudes find willing female partners for anal sex. You simply cannot fuck a girl's ass like her pussy, unless she is a drugged up porn star.

Most girls, if you take it slowly and are gentle, will at least let you try it once or twice. If they like it, more.

But, seeing all this gonzo nonsense is only going to make too many impressionable young dudes think you can just bang a girl's ass like porno dudes. You can't.

Gotta take it slowly and gently.

This is pretty much spot on although I will say that the one gal I was with who was into anal pretty much just wanted me to fuck her ass with abandon. But that is a rare exception that only comes from engaging in regular anal play I think.
 

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And on this topic, current porn is going to do NOTHING to help younger dudes find willing female partners for anal sex. You simply cannot fuck a girl's ass like her pussy, unless she is a drugged up porn star.

Most girls, if you take it slowly and are gentle, will at least let you try it once or twice. If they like it, more.

But, seeing all this gonzo nonsense is only going to make too many impressionable young dudes think you can just bang a girl's ass like porno dudes. You can't.

Gotta take it slowly and gently.

That is how I like it. Sure ease it in at first, i dont wish to tear but after the first couple of thrusts I love my arse to be fucked as hard as possible. My fav position is on my back with my knees pushed back into my shoulders.
 

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most of the women i've been with have been up for it. typically they suggested it, mostly out of curiosity, thinking that i'm small enough that it wouldn't hurt. several women had wanted to try it before me, but turned down bigger partners for fear of the "pain thing".
 

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From what I heard, most women who will endure it only do so to please their partners.

I have heard some women say that - but most? I'd like to see your evidence for most.

Women don't have prostates, so there is very little there for them to like about it. If they get off on it psychologically, say as it's taboo, then they'd have reason to do it, not just to please the guy. Because women don't have any mechanism in there to gain pleasure from the experience, you're unlikely to find many who are willing to allow you to roam up their back passages. Reality ain't a porno, folks!

Find an adventurous chick if you're into it, or an accommodating one, but keep in mind that if she's not in it for the taboo, she's just doing it to please you, and that's not a positive thing to put a person through. Anal sex can be painful, and if you aren't getting anything out of it, that fucking sucks!

I do notice and appreciate the last line of your post - and that it contains an 'if' - and you are right, if a person (male or female) gets no enjoyment from being fucked in the ass any associated pain would, indeed, suck.

However, as pointed out already, anal sex can be very pleasurable for women:

Um, we may not have prostates but we still have a bunch of nerves back there. It -can- feel good to some women physically. I personally don't "get off on it psychologically" at all for being "taboo".

I get off both on the physical sensation and the 'naughtiness'.

Can't speak for all women, but your assumptions do no apply to me at all. I love anal sex because it feels physically pleasurable - from the stretch at entry, the depth, his stroke, the pressure of being filled, which includes pressure to my vaginal walls. Plus, my deep spot/cul-de-sac also experiences similar sensation from anal with the right angle.

I've also engaged in impromptu/heat of the moment anal... no biggie.

Me too. I can tell when I'm empty and when I'm not, if I'm not I don't do it. Simple as. And ditto on getting the deep spot hit from the other side of the wall. Yummy!

As Fay said, we have a whole bunch of nerves there. As FLAG said, anal can stimulate our deep spots through the shared anal/vaginal walls.

And in additional to these, some women can reach orgasm through stimulation of the perineal sponge.

There's plenty of physical reasons to like anal for women who enjoy these kinds of stimulation.

Not so much the ps for me - it's all about the deep bits.

Yep! Well said Faydreh!

Though I'm a little confused atm, cos I asked my bf about why he loves it so much (we haven't had anal, but he said he really likes it) and he said it's cos of the 'power' that he gets....that's quite offputting for me. I don't want to be an object to give him 'power', this just seems degrading to me?
[...] but later on I realised that he really just did it cos he wanted to degrade me.

I guess this has left me with the feeling then...do guys just want to do this to degrade us? I'm confused. :confused:

Well - you can't say all guys do or don't - I guess maybe some guys do, but I would say most don't. I think there's a big psych factor for guys too, the naughtiness of it - but there's also the sensation, a tighter grip on the cock but maybe less restrictive depths?

That is how I like it. Sure ease it in at first, i dont wish to tear but after the first couple of thrusts I love my arse to be fucked as hard as possible. My fav position is on my back with my knees pushed back into my shoulders.

Yeah - I'm with you. Nothing like a good hard ass fucking. Sometimes the first penetration can be a little uncomfortable or, if I don't manage to relax that muscle, actually painful - but I'm very used to Hick's cock in my ass and the mechanics of relaxing to let him in so pain is rarely an issue. Even the first time we did it though, when I wasn't used to anything as girthy as his cock in my ass, we managed a vigorous one. It's just such a good sensation for me.

Also, when I'm on my back Hick will often hook one of my legs over his shoulder and get his thumb into my pussy and stimulate my g-spot. It is heavenly - makes me cum in two different ways at once.
 

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the older we get, the more the women I date want to.
0% did when I was under 20, 5% did when I was in my 20's, 15% did when I was in my 30s, now it's about a third or more are into anal.
 

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2-3 of 6 were willing, though I still haven't tried it.

The first one mentioned that she was into it, then said something about changing her mind since she "didn't think [I'd] be so big". This particular women had plenty of experience, and since it's probably only girth that matters (I'm just under 5.8" girth) I would have thought she might have had bigger, but it never was mentioned again.

The second one is my current partner who says she tried it once before, and only briefly...I'm apparently much larger than any of her exes, but she hasn't expressed concern about it, and seems like she is curious to try it, albeit a bit shy.

The reason I said 2-3, is one of my partners was a short term thing, and we never talked about it, but I'm pretty sure she'd be into it. So let's call it 2 confirmed, 1 likely, or between 33% and 50%.
 

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the older we get, the more the women I date want to.
0% did when I was under 20, 5% did when I was in my 20's, 15% did when I was in my 30s, now it's about a third or more are into anal.

escalating percentages in my experiences as well though I started asking later. And as pointed out by others, the women who discussed it were obviously much less inclined when their partner were bigger. I think the profusion of erotica and especially anal vids online rally upped the ante even as far s discussion went.