For me it’s been compassion, or trying to see the best in people. Sometimes it really has brought negative people into my life. On the other hand, I’ve learned some amazing things about people because I open myself to people.
I totally believe that! I love that about you, but I know for a fact it gets you in trouble. Still, I love knowing exactly where I stand with you.I am too fucking honest. I'm not apologetic about it, and I don't sugar coat the truth for the sake of being likeable.
You'd think this helps keep me OUT of trouble, but it's not the case.
I prefer to see you as gentle. Yet, I’d love to see you more self protective. You deserve it.Spinelessness. Not standing up for myself has gotten me in numerous unhealthy or uncomfortable situations. I'm way too confrontation-averse.
Speaking at the wrong time
"They're standing behind me, aren't they?"
Not speaking at the wrong time
"BnF, is everything ok?"
"Yep"
"Are you sure? You're really quiet and there are laser beams firing from your eyes"
"Mhm"
Spinelessness. Not standing up for myself has gotten me in numerous unhealthy or uncomfortable situations. I'm way too confrontation-averse.
Imy ADHD.
Ibeing enigmatic.
Perfectionism can be a serious problem. It can lead to some amazing results as well. Sometimes I struggle with finishing a task when I know the result will be far from perfect. It's tempting to not even bother instead. Procrastination combined with perfectionism makes matters even worse.Used to be my big mouth. Lately it's my perfectionism getting in the way of getting things done.