Autonomy?, agency?, fun stuff like that. Kind of the opposite to actually being married in fact. Perhaps marriage has fuck all to do with feminism.yeah, an open marriage has fuck all to do with feminism
Did the open marriage thing. Quickly shut the door. No shortage of weasels out there just waiting to get their hands on a married woman.
My husband did better hiding his jealousy than I did. When I saw it couldn't be equal because of my feelings about him being with someone else, we shut the whole thing down.
Not that there's anything wrong with an open marriage concept. It just wasn't for us.
Husbands not "possessing" their wifes (also, explain me what you mean by that) is not equal treatment, opportunity and rights?Wut?
I'm not sure what this guy's lack of possessiveness about his wife is supposed to have to do with equal treatment, opportunity, and rights for women and men, but whatever.
How is he her gay roommate? Where in the article says they stopped having sex? He do say the "infidelities" goes both ways, but never said he does it with men.So let me get this straight: the wife decides she wants to screw around with basically random guys any time she wants. Hubby doesn't have enough self-esteem to tell her not to, so he fetishizes her profligate infidelities as pro-woman empowerment and postures himself as the strong self-confident modern man who is supportive of being treated by his wife as if he were her gay roommate.
Husbands not "possessing" their wifes (also, explain me what you mean by that) is not equal treatment, opportunity and rights?
All it says is he's fine if his wife fucks other guys. I don't have any animosity for someone who has that kind of marriage arrangement, but it has nothing at all to do with feminism.
Literary license.How is he her gay roommate? Where in the article says they stopped having sex? He do say the "infidelities" goes both ways, but never said he does it with men.
As I write this, my children are asleep in their room, Loretta Lynn is on the stereo, and my wife is out on a date with a man named Paulo. It’s her second date this week; her fourth this month so far. If it goes like the others, she’ll come home in the middle of the night, crawl into bed beside me, and tell me all about how she and Paulo had sex.I stopped reading there, after three sentences.
How is she cheating? I couldn't get through the boring article so I may not have gotten to that part. He seems to have no objections to her dating, looks forward to hearing about her exploits. If they are in agreement, and no one is lying, where is the cheating?I agree. If they want that relationship, that's great. What I'm reading is that he's trying to justify after the fact. She's cheating on him.
Feminism involves several different issues. I would say that if you don't get that "women should not be possessions of men" is a feminist banner, than you don't know what feminism is.No dude. It says jack shit about his feelings on equal pay for equal work, on equal representation in government, yadda yadda.
All it says is he's fine if his wife fucks other guys. I don't have any animosity for someone who has that kind of marriage arrangement, but it has nothing at all to do with feminism.