Fencepost
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This question from twoton is crucially important. If the husband did NOT want this, then if the wife went out anyway, it is cheating. I think we all agree on this one. So the question begs, did he really have a choice in the matter? He does not seem to struggle with this in the article, but we do not know the background.I wonder what would've happened if he didn't agree to it.
If a husband or wife is sexually unfulfilled, then they need to look at why, and if this can be addressed within the monogamous relationship. If one or the other can not or will not take necessary steps, then maybe divorce is the way to go.
Mutual monogamy at one time was part and parcel of the meaning of marriage. Why get married if your commitment was not proven through monogamy and faithfulness? Why bother with marriage? I guess I do not understand the open concept of marriage. If you need the freedom to shop around, then by all means, do it. But to do it within marriage seems weird to me. Please do not take my words as personal attack on any of our members here. I am simply telling my feelings and opinion. I cannot grasp the concept of open marriage.
Finally, this article seems too "pat" to me. He is congratulating himself. Again, we do not know the background.