What opened your bi side?

[Tyler123456]

During high school a neighborhood friend and I would hang out and started watching porn, we would jerk off together, eventually we were sucking each other, never went any farther but we would hook up weekly to get off, often times we would get off in the hot tub, out in the woods on hikes, in the car. After awhile he would pretend he was asleep and would pull his dock out and jerk off and when he would “wake up” he’d say what happened why are my pants undone, he also started doing the same in the hot tub, although we’d often times go in naked so no saying where are my shorts, I believe he loved it all but was in denial and didn’t want to admit it himself and be tagged as bi

 

[bi2]

I agree! I have been with many men and lots of them several times. But it has never led to a relationship outside of just sex. We tend not to hang out together or do anything with each other other than get each other off.

I tend to enjoy more interacting with strangers more than a regular man. And usually when we both get off, we both are just ready to go on with our normal lives. It’s a mutual unspoken thing. Being an oral sub, I sometimes don’t get off until I get home as I want to please the guy and have had some who once they get off. Tell me to leave! sometimes they want time to leave with cum in my face or clothes. They won’t let me clean up. They want to humiliate me by sending me into the world with their cum on me as a badge of honor. I get even more excited when this happens.

When I have sex with men, I wouldnt call it a relationship. Thats just me. I have had sex with the same guy many times with the same guy, but for us, its a release to satisfy an urge. My partner wants to be Dominant Top and have that control and power over a man and I want to be submissive bottom and allow him to do what he wants. He feels extremely strong and masculine and I feel feminine and sensual. When we finish, we go our seperate ways and catch up when we need to, without that need for emotional connection. I rarely contact him to hook up, as he is the one that takes control of that and I think he enjoys the power he has over me in that regard. Thats not to say I havent contacted him to say we need to hook up as I have and we have, but I think we both get turned on by him being in charge of "us".

 

[deleted10711701]

I only came to the realization I was bisexual until a few years ago - and I am almost 47. Unlike a lot of bi guys, I’m kind of the “reverse”; I identified as gay all these years and now identify as bi. I just couldn’t deny my sexual attraction to women too. I have never been with a woman, to be honest, but it is an immense turn-on to me to imagine giving a sexy, beautiful woman pleasure. A vagina does NOT turn me off at all. I hope one day I have the chance to experience sex with a woman (who really desires it with me).

 

[Iptv1]

My mother love for sex : I catched her several times doing sex with different men when I was young

- Ian Scott’s big dick

- this site : specifically @Serpentaire14 galleries

 

[Sirramm]

I was a very young guy, mid-teens, I had a crush on a girl up the street. She and I and my best friend, Eric, were in the woods after school. She and I started making out. Eric watched for a while and then started playing with her tits and feeling her up. Shortly thereafter we were taking turns fucking her. Seeing his cock plowing her and covered in her frothy cream started to get to me. Next thing I knew he was blowing a load in her while I watched. When he pulled out a HUGE glob of his cum started to drip out and hung from her glistening swollen pussy. Without a moment's hesitation, I started eating her out and tasting his cum in her. A few seconds later he started to cum again (YOUTH!!! UGH!!!) and tried to shove his cock past my mouth. Next thing I knew I was sucking his cock and drinking his cum and loving every glorious moment!!!! From that point forward I have been hooked on cum and orally bi-sexual.I love eating cum and sucking cock!!!!

 

[CURIOUS_8]

When he confessed what he did it shocked the hell out of me. I was a bit confused, but he explained that he was horny that night having been teased by a girl all night long with nothing to show for it. I was his ride home, but I was passed out on the table. So he hauled me to my car and drove us both back to our dorm, which was a converted apartment complex.

He literally dragged me to my room and dropped me in my bed. He said he was going to leave me, but he stopped and took off my shoes. Then he undressed me leaving my briefs. Apparently, I had a visible erection, and he said he couldn't help himself and just helped himself.

While he's telling me all this I went from confused to horny. Don't ask me to explain. I just did. Then he said since he saw mine in all its glory did I want to see his to make things fair. I said sure.

And that kind of kicked off the festivities.

Never had a gay thought before then, but what do you know? Here we are.

I keep thinking of when I learned to play baseball the coach told me to change and bat left-handed. I told him I don't bat left handed. He said "You don't know what you can do until you try."

By the way, I'm a pretty damn good left-handed batter.

Lance V Gotta say, amongst the MANY posts I like by you,


I like


“YOUR” response to what happened,


and moreover, the responses of those from this site in general.


And why I like this forum so much.





I find it’s a rarity you see on most forums these days that people can respect


someone’s responses that might not be their own.





And there’s no judgment, therapy sessions offered for those, like yourself, who have a situation like this, be a moment that awakened other parts of their sexual awareness.


Pretty cool.

 

[CURIOUS_8]

I only came to the realization I was bisexual until a few years ago - and I am almost 47. Unlike a lot of bi guys, I’m kind of the “reverse”; I identified as gay all these years and now identify as bi. I just couldn’t deny my sexual attraction to women too.


I have never been with a woman, to be honest, but it is an immense turn-on to me to imagine giving a sexy, beautiful woman pleasure. A vagina does NOT turn me off at all. I hope one day I have the chance to experience sex with a woman (who really desires it with me).

BiDaddy74 Man, I know a handful of guys in this similar situation.

 

[Lance V]

Lance V Gotta say, amongst the MANY posts I like by you,


I like


“YOUR” response to what happened,


and moreover, the responses of those from this site in general.


And why I like this forum so much.





I find it’s a rarity you see on most forums these days that people can respect


someone’s responses that might not be their own.





And there’s no judgment, therapy sessions offered for those, like yourself, who have a situation like this, be a moment that awakened other parts of their sexual awareness.


Pretty cool.

I think when you strip away religion, other opinions, your own baseless biases you realize there's not really much wrong.

 

[iluvmen]

Well guys, as a 90 percent gay man, depending on my experiences and conversations both in real life and online, there is always a way to open a man's bi side as long as he is not afraid of facing it, living it and embracing all that male sexuality includes.

Right place, right time, right person. That's it. Unknown sounds always exciting. Men that had never had sex with men or that even had not thought about it think to themselves from time time and ask: How would it feel? Bcoz we all have one life, one body and not too many chances. Chances are even lower if you've been living a str8 life since puberty.

 

[merc41]

To be quite honest lack of sexual attention by my wife and lots of attention from gays and bi men. Although I enjoy the female body greatly sex with men is just as enjoyable i.e. lack of inhibitions,enthusiasm and over all quality.

 

[bi2]

To be quite honest lack of sexual attention by my wife and lots of attention from gays and bi men. Although I enjoy the female body greatly sex with men is just as enjoyable i.e. lack of inhibitions,enthusiasm and over all quality.

The older men I have been with express a similar theme to yours. Lack of sexual attention by wife/women their age/divorce as reasons coupled with inhibitions. With me they get a guy that takes on a passive feminine role and thats there and ready and willing for sex the moment we meet up.

 

[TrynBi]

The older men I have been with express a similar theme to yours. Lack of sexual attention by wife/women their age/divorce as reasons coupled with inhibitions. With me they get a guy that takes on a passive feminine role and thats there and ready and willing for sex the moment we meet up.

I have found the same thing with men. I tend to hookup with older guys since I first began my cocksucking journey from age 19. As I became a more mature cock sucker, most guys I would encounter were either married/had a girlfriend or were simply bi curious. Discovering they had a willing guy who would allow them to experiment with who also was feminine and submissive gave them the comfort of connecting.
I have found most men cum to me because they don’t get the erotic passion from their wives or girlfriends. Men still want to just FUCK every once in a while! They want a willing, submissive sex toy to do nasty things to and when you provide that to them, they have have the sexual freedom to become who they fantasize being. I think some of these men aren’t even gay or bi. In fact if a woman offered themselves as I do, they’d likely pick her over me every time.
Men just don’t judge other men with the hang ups girls do with us guys. If a guy comes over for sex and by the time he pulls out his cock, is cumming already out of excitement, I don’t get frustrated. We both are getting what we want ultimately. He gets off with a great experience and I get cum! I enjoy pleasing all men of every shape, size and fetish.
In the end, it’s all about pleasure!

 

[Theo0152]

I think you are born bi. I explored a bit but after college with career marriage, kids and not accepting environment i pretty much repressed my bi-ness. Mid fifties it all came back... with help of a few great guys i found myself. I love it!!!

 

[bi2]

Discovering they had a willing guy who would allow them to experiment with who also was feminine and submissive gave them the comfort of connecting.

Men still want to just FUCK every once in a while!

They want a willing, submissive sex toy to do nasty things to and when you provide that to them, they have have the sexual freedom to become who they fantasize being. I think some of these men aren’t even gay or bi. In fact if a woman offered themselves as I do, they’d likely pick her over me every time.

From my limited experiences I would have to agree with all of this.

My partners in the past thave been masculine alpha males that viewed themselevs as "straight" . They were a dominant Top, with me and I was a feminine bottom that was submissive. They needed to fuck every now and again when they felt like it with someone that made it easy, conveninent, simple and uncomplicated. For the most part they enjoyed the power and control they had over me, the sex was at times rough, aggressive and humiliating. However, that built up over time, as I had given them the cues and comfort to feel comfortable in doing what they pleased as it turned me on wildly.

I had definitely had in my opinion two guys that were not gay or bi, but because they were divorced and the other the wife was not into sex anymore, they lacked option to have sex with women easily. To some part they feminized me a bit to make themselves comfortable with me and I was happy, wanting and willing to oblige.

 

[Theo0152]

To be quite honest lack of sexual attention by my wife and lots of attention from gays and bi men. Although I enjoy the female body greatly sex with men is just as enjoyable i.e. lack of inhibitions,enthusiasm and over all quality.

For me i get plenty of sex from my wife but she can't satisfy my need for a man....i need and want both.

 

[bi2]

For me i get plenty of sex from my wife but she can't satisfy my need for a man....i need and want both.

Do you crave both equally? Or just men occasionally?

 

[Theo0152]

Do you crave both equally? Or just men occasionally?

It definitely swings..sometimes more men sometimes more woman. I honestly feel if i were single i would date either male or female and partner with either. But maybe lean a bit toward men since i find them easy to be with (not just sexually) but have not lived with one.

 

[kcdave]

I think you are born bi. I explored a bit but after college with career marriage, kids and not accepting environment i pretty much repressed my bi-ness. Mid fifties it all came back... with help of a few great guys i found myself. I love it!!!

Very nice where did you meet the few great guys? Or online or just through some other activity.

 

[bi2]

It definitely swings..sometimes more men sometimes more woman. I honestly feel if i were single i would date either male or female and partner with either. But maybe lean a bit toward men since i find them easy to be with (not just sexually) but have not lived with one.

Same.

Some days, I love taking control and fucking a girl, other days I love for a man to over power me and take me from behind.

The ease and convenience of sex with men makes it far more enjoyable, however the thrill of the hunt is with girls.

 

[Theo0152]

Very nice where did you meet the few great guys? Or online or just through some other activity.

I found them on hookup apps. The first guy we chatted on and off, met for coffee then I got my nerve up to drive to a rest area (before all the cameras everywhere). I met another guy on an older-younger app and he was awesome. .