What opened your bi side?

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My bi-side went into latency from 1978-1992. Once you’ve experienced something, like sucking cock , you remember, even if you try to suppress it, and forget, your sub-conscious dreams remind you . The mid 80’s-early 90’s we’re a really wild time. I was getting more sex than ever, which fueled my panties fetish , butt fetish. One fuck buddy was crazier than the rest , she was into analingus , toys , dildoing my asshole & massaging my prostrate as she suckled my cock.
It just felt so wonderful, and whenever I fucked her butt, she would graphically describe the sensations.
coincidentally, I was taking a sociology course in college called “Deviant Behavior “ and one of the studies was about cruising behaviors.
So one day, I rode my bike over to the gay beach area at the River , I had overheard some people talking about at a party . I can still remember the adrenaline rush. This was my first time doing this kind of stuff without my cousins, and that had been a long time ago .
 

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My bi-side went into latency from 1978-1992. Once you’ve experienced something, like sucking cock , you remember, even if you try to suppress it, and forget, your sub-conscious dreams remind you . The mid 80’s-early 90’s we’re a really wild time. I was getting more sex than ever, which fueled my panties fetish , butt fetish. One fuck buddy was crazier than the rest , she was into analingus , toys , dildoing my asshole & massaging my prostrate as she suckled my cock.
It just felt so wonderful, and whenever I fucked her butt, she would graphically describe the sensations.
coincidentally, I was taking a sociology course in college called “Deviant Behavior “ and one of the studies was about cruising behaviors.
So one day, I rode my bike over to the gay beach area at the River , I had overheard some people talking about at a party . I can still remember the adrenaline rush. This was my first time doing this kind of stuff without my cousins, and that had been a long time ago .
Please tell more!
 

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My bi-side went into latency from 1978-1992. Once you’ve experienced something, like sucking cock , you remember, even if you try to suppress it, and forget, your sub-conscious dreams remind you . The mid 80’s-early 90’s we’re a really wild time. I was getting more sex than ever, which fueled my panties fetish , butt fetish. One fuck buddy was crazier than the rest , she was into analingus , toys , dildoing my asshole & massaging my prostrate as she suckled my cock.
It just felt so wonderful, and whenever I fucked her butt, she would graphically describe the sensations.
coincidentally, I was taking a sociology course in college called “Deviant Behavior “ and one of the studies was about cruising behaviors.
So one day, I rode my bike over to the gay beach area at the River , I had overheard some people talking about at a party . I can still remember the adrenaline rush. This was my first time doing this kind of stuff without my cousins, and that had been a long time ago .
Please tell more
 
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This happened when I was in my early dirty 30’s . Linda was ten years older, had a son in college, a teenage daughter & a 9yo son from two other marriages. We met at the local Community Outreach center where we volunteered.
A few months later she confided in me she was diagnosed bipolar.I think she’s the one that made me get penile fibrosis (peyrones disease) She used to ride me so hard pounding herself down on my cock, then squeezing my cock so tight inside of her , it felt like it was on fire. It was frightening like she was possessed. She was starting to get too clingy and We wore each other out after 9 months or so.
Getting back to the gay beach experience , that 1st time I went, I cruised back and forth a couple times, then circling back in the high grass and brush area behind the gravel bar, where little trails of flattened grass led to wider hidden areas of flattened grass . It was usually more humid in these areas than out in the open, but that’s where most of the butt fucking was happening . This is the 1st time I ever saw two men butt fucking. Hell, I didn’t even rent gay videos yet, nor did I go in the booths at the ABS yet.
So my first time I observed which made my cock hard. I stripped naked after about 30 minutes of lurking & gawking & found a nice open spot with a view & laid back edging, keeping my cock hard. Just by shear coincidence, the 1st guy to approach me was someone I recognized. He was a checker at Safeway. He complimented me on my cock & asked if he could join me. After he stripped naked, & laid next to me, rubbing my thighs & chest, he wondered how long I’d been here & I told him a lil while, that it was my first time. He moaned as he repositioned and slowly started suckling my glans before swallowing my shaft.
We were pretty much in the open & soon had an audience of 5-6 naked guys jacking off.
Another guy knelt down on his knees near me and presented his hard cock. I moaned , this is the 1st cock I’ve sucked in over 20 years. He literally face fucked me. Someone else was sucking the guy who was sucking me. The guy I was sucking came really fast & I gagged but swallowed, I warned my cock sucker I was gonna cum & he sucked Deeper as he rubbed my asshole making me gush, his cheeks billowing out , cum drooling out of his mouth.
It would be a couple more weeks before I got buttfucked for the first time
 

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My bi-side went into latency from 1978-1992. Once you’ve experienced something, like sucking cock , you remember, even if you try to suppress it, and forget, your sub-conscious dreams remind you . The mid 80’s-early 90’s we’re a really wild time. I was getting more sex than ever, which fueled my panties fetish , butt fetish. One fuck buddy was crazier than the rest , she was into analingus , toys , dildoing my asshole & massaging my prostrate as she suckled my cock.
It just felt so wonderful, and whenever I fucked her butt, she would graphically describe the sensations.
coincidentally, I was taking a sociology course in college called “Deviant Behavior “ and one of the studies was about cruising behaviors.
So one day, I rode my bike over to the gay beach area at the River , I had overheard some people talking about at a party . I can still remember the adrenaline rush. This was my first time doing this kind of stuff without my cousins, and that had been a long time ago .
I’m here for the cousins story. Please tell us more!
 
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For me, there were two moments that happened within a couple of days of each other. Puberty was coming on strong for me at the time.

My dad was on the phone right before a shower, so he was standing in the kitchen leaning against the counter. His towel fell off and his thick, hairy cock was exposed. He didn't bother covering up, as it was only him and me home at the time. I had never seen a cock (besides my little hairless one) before then. It felt wrong to look, but I stole as many glances as I could get.

Then, a couple of days later, we were in the locker room at school after P.E. class and changing from our shorts back into our regular clothes. Showering was optional, but I was too afraid to shower for fear of getting one of those spontaneous erections. But there was always that one guy that would shower and make fun with his dick swinging around in front of his buddies, etc... I was mesmerized - as he was one of the popular kids, so you saw him at pep rallies, game day events, talent shows, etc. Knowing I'd seen him nude many times, clinched my attraction to fellow guys.
 

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I’m here for the cousins story. Please tell us more!
Can’t I already got in trouble when I told it the 1st time because I didn’t pretend all of my sexual history began on the day I became “an adult” lmfao!
 
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For me, there were two moments that happened within a couple of days of each other. Puberty was coming on strong for me at the time.

My dad was on the phone right before a shower, so he was standing in the kitchen leaning against the counter. His towel fell off and his thick, hairy cock was exposed. He didn't bother covering up, as it was only him and me home at the time. I had never seen a cock (besides my little hairless one) before then. It felt wrong to look, but I stole as many glances as I could get.

Then, a couple of days later, we were in the locker room at school after P.E. class and changing from our shorts back into our regular clothes. Showering was optional, but I was too afraid to shower for fear of getting one of those spontaneous erections. But there was always that one guy that would shower and make fun with his dick swinging around in front of his buddies, etc... I was mesmerized - as he was one of the popular kids, so you saw him at pep rallies, game day events, talent shows, etc. Knowing I'd seen him nude many times, clinched my attraction to fellow guys.
It’s incredible how natural it is. You just are attracted and it feels so good. I love dudes as pals and even more so as lovers.
 

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Can’t I already got in trouble when I told it the 1st time because I didn’t pretend all of my sexual history began on the day I became “an adult” lmfao!
Ok, I get it now, the algorithm monitors target numbers but ignore the word “puberty “lmao. Ok, I’ll rewrite my story
 
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For me, it started with transgender porn when I was younger.

A little bit older I started enjoying solo anal and started watching gay porn. At that time, I was telling myself: I'm just a very sexually open minded person lol

Around 20-22yo, I officially said to myself: Yep i'm bisexual!

Since then, I have been learning about myself and what I like or dislike.
 

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Some years ago, I went to the cinema with some friends. There was a guy. I was instantly in love with him. His body, his face, his smell, his moves, he had something so special, so so sexy. Nothing happened between us (huge regret) and I never saw him again but that was the night that I said to myself "Dude, you are not 100% straight. You are bi or even gay. Explore your sexuality."
 

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Some years ago, I went to the cinema with some friends. There was a guy. I was instantly in love with him. His body, his face, his smell, his moves, he had something so special, so so sexy. Nothing happened between us (huge regret) and I never saw him again but that was the night that I said to myself "Dude, you are not 100% straight. You are bi or even gay. Explore your sexuality."
Enjoy every moment. Every touch. Every kiss. Every moan.
 

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I have been wondering if there is anything specific that opens up a straight guy to be bi. It seems like you hear a lot of guys realizing this side as they've gotten older. As a gay man, my attraction to guys has always been present.

Did you always know you like both sexes? Or, did you start experimenting with gay or bi porn and like what you see?
My first sexual experience was with a friend a couple of years older than me. I wasn't quite a teen yet when he got mme to suck his cock. I continued int high school, but was also attracted to girls and dated some over the years. This continued after highschool while in the Navy.Dated girls and served guys when the opportunity arouse (no pun intended) I married and it quickly became an open swinger marriage so my bi side was active there. We divorced after 12 years. I dated some and sucked some, but in 1999 I was tired of the dating games and began just servicing men and have ever since. So I guess my bi side was always there and became gay as a choice I made.
 

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I'm so glad I found this thread. Growing up the youngest in a large household (6 kids - 3 sisters, 2 brothers) I was always around both sexes. There was a family next door, same size, same breakdown. Ryan (the youngest) and I played a lot together. I remember some pre-teen groping we did in a secluded part of the yard where our properties joined. I never tried that with any young girls.

Gals always fascinated me, and I was on the road to becoming a traditional suburb straight guy. But thank god it was the 1970s when I was in high school, and there was a lot of experimentation going on. I had a steady girl I was dating and we'd make out. It seemed fun and more than that, it was "sanctioned" and I "belonged".

Then I offered to tutor Jeff, a guy in my first-period accounting class. We knew of one another, as we were both on the tennis team. He'd broken his arm during this period, and lived nearby. He'd come over and we'd work together on homework assignments. I can recall (like it was yesterday) the first time our legs touched one another, under the table. It was so innocent, and not planned. I swear: I popped wood and started leaking. The wood part had happened with my girlfriend. But no leaking.

There was another guy, Mitch, also on the tennis team. I used to ride my bike to his house to visit. He'd always invite me over when his folks weren't there and he was babysitting his little sister. We'd close the door and I'd give him back rubs. I'd admired his taut ass (we played doubles together) and thought I'd soon see it all. The closest I got was him taking his tee shirt off: he kept his pants on!

Jeff and I eventually messed around more later that year and into the next year. He had a great cock and I couldn't get enough of it. Turns out I wasn't the only guy. A couple of times he'd come over and we'd get down to business and he'd say "Not sure if there's anything left. Skip took care of me earlier."

I did eventually lose my straight cherry to my girlfriend at 18. Of course we didn't know what we were doing. Afterward, I remember feeling like a milestone had been passed. But I also felt a nagging "So - is that all there is?" I found myself fantasizing more and more about Jeff, Ryan (who'd turned into a real Italian/Irish hottie!) and Mitch.

I met a guy in college and lost my gay cherry to him. That's when I knew I was no longer 100% straight. Funny thing is: I've had several girlfriends, and we've developed strong, emotional attachments. The sex (if it happens) is akin to "buddy sex", almost unnecessary. But I find I still enjoy sex with guys. Now in my sixties, it's easier for me to be single, and have my gal pals for "date nite" stuff and my bi buddies for the occasional wank-a-thon.
 

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My love for dick, but disgust at dating men/anal sex made me realize I am not exactly what you would call straight. I also have a more effeminate personality which has made gender roles sometimes problematic for me in hetero relationships. Though my effeminate side is hidden/guarded due to the fact that I am closeted, and toxic masculinity and what not. I blend in as a normal straight dude, but I love me by jewelry and my heart melts when my gf gets me flowers or stuffed animals as gifts. You know, traits not typically associated with straight men.
 

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Now in my sixties, it's easier for me to be single, and have my gal pals for "date nite" stuff and my bi buddies for the occasional wank-a-thon.
Loved your entire post. Im in my 20s and this is me today.

I love and enjoy sex with girls and do enjoy the date night activities that comes with some of them. Mind you sex with girls, does eventually lead to the inevitable question where is this going?

With my Bi Buddy its purely sexual, which is what we both want. We have our own seperate private lives, we come together to have casual, enjjoyable NSA sex without any dramas whatsoever. Its why while I have had several girlfriends and hookups with different girls, I have enjoyed staying with my Bi Buddy. Sexually we have great physical chemistry and its easy, convenient and pleasurable.
 

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My love for dick, but disgust at dating men/anal sex made me realize I am not exactly what you would call straight. I also have a more effeminate personality which has made gender roles sometimes problematic for me in hetero relationships. Though my effeminate side is hidden/guarded due to the fact that I am closeted, and toxic masculinity and what not. I blend in as a normal straight dude, but I love me by jewelry and my heart melts when my gf gets me flowers or stuffed animals as gifts. You know, traits not typically associated with straight men.

Great post, nothing wrong in being who you are. This is a Bi Board, all Bi guys are to be respected here.

Thanks for your response, Im definitely effeminate/feminine with my bi buddy, its what I enjoy and what he loves, so I get to express myself differently with him, compared to say a girl, where sexually I tend to be Dominant and take charge.

Absolutely zero chance I could be feminine with a girl, so my bi buddy provides me with that outlet to express comfortably, safely and most importantly pleasurably.
 

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For me I think sex with my wife has got a bit samey. I still want straight sex and enjoy it. But as things got more repetitive in bed I thought more about fantasies I've had for years about wank mates. Not had one yet but that's where I'm heading.