What opened your bi side?

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My fascination and envy of big cocks opened up my bi-side. I never found "men" attractive as a whole, but big cocks turned me on. Eventually looking at them in porn grew to doing a little web cam stuff, which eventually led me to want to experience a real one. And once I got to hold, stroke and suck a big dick in the flesh, I have always had a desire to experience it again!
 

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A good friend with a big cock showed it to me at his house and we began JOing while looking at Girly mags. Pretty soon he rubbed my dick with his hand and dropped to his knees and began sucking my dick. When he sucked me for a while I told him I'd like to try sucking his big dick. I began sucking and bobbing up-n-down on it and he came in my mouth in about 3 minutes with no warning: I was shocked at the force of his cum. Liked it though. He then sucked me until I came.
We did this weekly for over 3 years. Good times.
 

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A good friend with a big cock showed it to me at his house and we began JOing while looking at Girly mags. Pretty soon he rubbed my dick with his hand and dropped to his knees and began sucking my dick. When he sucked me for a while I told him I'd like to try sucking his big dick. I began sucking and bobbing up-n-down on it and he came in my mouth in about 3 minutes with no warning: I was shocked at the force of his cum. Liked it though. He then sucked me until I came.
We did this weekly for over 3 years. Good times.
I can so relate. My best friend and I many years ago did the same. Later in life I regret not taking the initiative and sucking his cock. I think he would have liked it. But those were different times.
 

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for me LPSG and t-girls. The t-girls got me over what I would call fear of dick or a big dick and made me a bottom. LPSG gave me a view of bi lifestyle that drew me in. Or at least a little, I still prefer t-girls but a very recent thing for me is to see a picture of a hot, hung guy and think, not only would I suck that dick, I would suck his tits. Kissing is still a step too far for me though, at least now. ;)
For many men, myself included, kissing another man seems to be the very last thing we want to do......not really sure why that is...but many men feel this way. I was having sex with a man for YEARS (oral and anal, giving and receiving), before I finally gave in to kissing......over time, my views and thoughts about kissing changed....I was like, I do enjoy kissing women......why shouldn't I try kissing a man??? So one day I did.....just made up my mind to go for it......and it was wonderful.....took the MM sex to a whole new level of intimacy, eroticism, and pleasure......

PS--I too am very attracted to trans sexual women!!
 

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For many men, myself included, kissing another man seems to be the very last thing we want to do......not really sure why that is...but many men feel this way. I was having sex with a man for YEARS (oral and anal, giving and receiving), before I finally gave in to kissing......over time, my views and thoughts about kissing changed....I was like, I do enjoy kissing women......why shouldn't I try kissing a man??? So one day I did.....just made up my mind to go for it......and it was wonderful.....took the MM sex to a whole new level of intimacy, eroticism, and pleasure......

PS--I too am very attracted to trans sexual women!!

That is exactly what happened to me too! I had a friend in high school and then another in college. All we did was BJs, Jack off, and fuck. No kissing. I did not want to do that with men.

The guy in college tried to make out with me and I resisted. On day, we are going at it and he goes in for the kiss. I said what the hell... holy crap! Didn’t realize what I was missing. Just like you said, it brought the experience to a new level of intimacy, eroticism. I’m glad he didn’t give up on trying.
 

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That is exactly what happened to me too! I had a friend in high school and then another in college. All we did was BJs, Jack off, and fuck. No kissing. I did not want to do that with men.

The guy in college tried to make out with me and I resisted. On day, we are going at it and he goes in for the kiss. I said what the hell... holy crap! Didn’t realize what I was missing. Just like you said, it brought the experience to a new level of intimacy, eroticism. I’m glad he didn’t give up on trying.
Reading all the comments in this thread and others......this whole kissing scenario is so common........start out having nothing to do with kissing....then finally give in, and BAM.....everyone enjoys the heck out of it and MM sex gets even better!! I love it. Hate to see and hear other men missing out!!

I still remember my first time....we were standing together naked,belly to belly....simply holding, touching, fondling each others cock and balls......and we just started kissing.....gently at first, lips coming together.....then in rushed all this passion and desire.......just intense, open-mouth, wet, passionate kissing....now wrapping our arms around each other, belly to belly, and cock to cock....grinding against each other.....we fell into bed....arms and legs wrapped around each other....bodies pressed together.....and just made-out for the next 30 minutes.....cocks rock hard against each other.......and from there the sex was just super, super hot......
 

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We should have a separate thread just for kissing. I'm certainly not complaining that it's here. I just enjoy it so much, it would be great to hear from others who feel the same way, and share their experiences.
Agreed. Look under Gay Photos and Videos for thread "Hot Males Kissing" Photos and GIFs....very hot.....
 

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That is exactly what happened to me too! I had a friend in high school and then another in college. All we did was BJs, Jack off, and fuck. No kissing. I did not want to do that with men.

The guy in college tried to make out with me and I resisted. On day, we are going at it and he goes in for the kiss. I said what the hell... holy crap! Didn’t realize what I was missing. Just like you said, it brought the experience to a new level of intimacy, eroticism. I’m glad he didn’t give up on trying.

I like mutual cock play. But kissing is a no-no. (just my preference) Not knocking guys into that.

Kissed a guy ONCE....the razor stubble turned me off. Never again.

I'll give a handjob in a heart-beat.....but screw that kissing crap. To each their own. Not judging.
 
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It was always there for me, but I didn't want to acknowledge it because I was afraid of what others would think. As I got older, I stopped giving a fuck what others think. It's a moot point though because I love my wife more than anything and don't want to hurt her. Shame I didn't figure this out while I was still single.
 

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Hmmm... I was very young... In my (early)mid-teens... I was dared to perform fellatio on another guy and took the dare. To do it I had to pull his pants down and do it in front of several other guys of similar age. As his pants came down I saw his penis bulging and erect behind his "Y" front underwear.Pulling down his underwear and revealing his erection caused me to almost orgasm right there and then. When I saw it I knew I wanted it. I did it the way I liked it to be done to me, slow, long strokes, taking it all the way into my mouth while gently stroking his testicles, which were tight against his body. He was very excited and lasted only three or four minutes, but it was wonderful! If I could I would do it every day.
Didn’t the rest of the guys call you a fag after that?
 

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Specifically? Just honesty.

I grew up straight but by high school I was attracted to a handful of guys and considered I might be bi. I didn't hook up with a guy until I was a senior in college.

Be fair to yourself too, the social environment in HS was such that exploring that option was really hard in most cases, there was not a lot of opportunity and a lot of risk. I knew damn well, but I sublimated it well, partially due to existential dread, and the same pressures did not exist at uni, new venues and new people.
 

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Being honest to myself

I’ve always admired big, burly, hairy, masculine men, even from a very young age.

It was different from just a typical boy idolising a man. I was actually attracted and wanted to keep looking.

Same with girls and women too, but I remember my attraction to these masculine types being potent. It still is to this day.
 

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It started for me when I turned 18 and went to my first adult book store. Got my first bj there through a glory hole. Started to go there somewhat regularly when an older guy changed the tables on me and sucked him off and was waiting for me after that. That's when I became a submissive cocksucker even to this day.