What opened your bi side?

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Watching Cum Shots Turned me Bi ? I posted something on Craig's List wanting a guy who had sent some masterbation vids to send me more. My post drew responses from other guys. We exchanged dick pics and suddenly things were set up for meetings with guys.

The first guy never showed up and I was kind of relieved but disappointed too.

I met with the next guy, we blew each other, I sucked cock for the first time and there was no doubt in my mind that I was going to finish him in my mouth and swallow his cum. I did and I loved it.

The next day I met up with a guy that only wanted a blow job, he even wanted me to keep my clothes on. I loved being used like that. His cock was so tasty and he came a lot. I swallowed it all which surprised, me being a rookie cock sucker. I guess I was officially bi after that weekend.
 

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Watching Cum Shots Turned me Bi ? I posted something on Craig's List wanting a guy who had sent some masterbation vids to send me more. My post drew responses from other guys. We exchanged dick pics and suddenly things were set up for meetings with guys.

The first guy never showed up and I was kind of relieved but disappointed too.

I met with the next guy, we blew each other, I sucked cock for the first time and there was no doubt in my mind that I was going to finish him in my mouth and swallow his cum. I did and I loved it.

The next day I met up with a guy that only wanted a blow job, he even wanted me to keep my clothes on. I loved being used like that. His cock was so tasty and he came a lot. I swallowed it all which surprised, me being a rookie cock sucker. I guess I was officially bi after that weekend.


If not anything, you’re officially a cocksucker! Welcum to the club!
 

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Not attracted to guys per say so I class myself as romantically straight but sexually bi - it's only their cock that I'm interested in.
I am very much like this. Just want to suck that cock and swallow that load.
 

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For me it was just the curiosity, You see guys in the locker room and at the gym. You loved getting a blowjob from your girlfriend so what would it be liked to give a blowjob. Sucking a cock and licking balls is great but you really need 2 guys into it though. It has to be mutual.
 

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For me it was first playing around with my ass at around 12, then fast forward to having sex with my girlfriends and have them play with my ass, the first time was when I was 17, since has been part of my sex life with girlfriends and eventual my wives, the first time I was with a man was 2015, if it wasn't for the internet I don't think I would have ever hooked up with a guy, when I have sex with a man I'm a total bottom, its what I prefer
 

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The curiosity for me started in my mid 20's when I just came to the realization that lots of things can feel good and there was no reason to let myself get all worked up/stressed out about it. I'm pretty much a no drama person so once I had that epiphany I just went with it. Without the internet it would never have happened, though...that's what opened my eyes to lots of things I hadn't seen before. It started out with watching bi-mmf porn then grew from there. I hooked up with my first married couple in my late 20's through AFF which totally blew my fucking mind. They were the perfect couple to introduce me to the lifestyle - laid back, open minded and they really showed me the ropes. The first time I touched the husbands cock and took him in my mouth I was like
'this is soooo not a big deal but totally HOT" and just went from there. Have had quite a few experiences since then - mmf, mmff, mm. The best was a married couple I met with frequently in my early 30's - started out as mmf then we added another girl for the mmff. Everyone was open minded and just went with the flow. My favorite memory is of me 69ing with the husband on their king size bed while the ladies were 69ing next to us. Watching those two go at it (as best I could!) while my mouth was wrapped around his fat cock was amazing. I definitely miss those days sometimes!

I have been wondering if there is anything specific that opens up a straight guy to be bi. It seems like you hear a lot of guys realizing this side as they've gotten older. As a gay man, my attraction to guys has always been present.

Did you always know you like both sexes? Or, did you start experimenting with gay or bi porn and like what you see?
 

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slick is lucky! for me, seeing some nice long, smooth dicks in the gym....then a little more interest, finally (maybe 2012) realized it was ok.... still have not had ANY experiences, though with my wife the thought of is certainly fantasized while we make love. I think our favorite thing would be the right couple under the right circumstance, and she knows exactly how i feel about this!
 
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Yes, I have been very lucky over the years and realize I am probably luckier than most. I don't take that for granted and am very grateful for what I've experienced sexually in my life. I've checked a lot of boxes - mf, mm, mmf, mff, mmff. Pretty sweet.


slick is lucky! for me, seeing some nice long, smooth dicks in the gym....then a little more interest, finally (maybe 2012) realized it was ok.... still have not had ANY experiences, though with my wife the thought of is certainly fantasized while we make love. I think our favorite thing would be the right couple under the right circumstance, and she knows exactly how i feel about this!
 

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I’ve known I’ve been attracted to both sexes for most of my life. I married a woman because I fell deeply in love with her and still am to this day. But I find that my eye will wander to dudes that turn me on. I’ve been caught staring at both men and women, but with dudes it’s ironically less embarrassing when I am caught. And if I find a dude staring at me I will wink, though that’s it. Yet, I love (and attracted to) women and need them in my life. But dudes have always been for me about connecting on a primitive sexual level only. I need to bond and validate my masculinity with another man from time to time. I don’t understand why, but it makes me feel more of a man than not.
 

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For me it was just something I had to try, a curiosity and interest that would never go away.
That nagging unknowing feeling you have in your head: "What Is It Like". "Would I Enjoy It". Yea, I know the feeling and gave it a try. Great. Haven't looked back since then.
 

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That nagging unknowing feeling you have in your head: "What Is It Like". "Would I Enjoy It". Yea, I know the feeling and gave it a try. Great. Haven't looked back since then.
It has to be more than just a curiosity though. You don’t just look at a dude and not be turned on and think “I want to check off fucking a dude from my bucket list” and proceed to hit on him. There must be something more than “Now I can say I did it”.
 

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I've answered this in other threads, but I was molested by a friend in college. I was passed out drunk at the time. He confessed what he did later. I thought I had one helluva wet dream, but I didn't remember getting in bed naked.

One thing lead to another and I wanted to return the favor. Never felt guilty about it at all.