What opened your bi side?

[fuckyeah]

I've answered this in other threads, but I was molested by a friend in college. I was passed out drunk at the time. He confessed what he did later. I thought I had one helluva wet dream, but I didn't remember getting in bed naked.

One thing lead to another and I wanted to return the favor. Never felt guilty about it at all.

Wow. He molested you and your reaction was you liked it? Or did you at first feel angry and then worked through it with him to accept it and even like what he did?

 

[Williamsfw]

It’s interesting to see what got each of us to start or wanting to enjoy the same sex ... When I was young I was molested by a neighbor boy one summer.. (never been a hang up for me that it happened) ... he was 16 and I was 8 I believe and was taken advantage of in all ways..I remember touching him and oral and swallowing but I am foggy on if he fucked my ass.. I liked him and never told a soul what was happening and never didn’t want to go over to his house I mean I know it was wrong now but not then but he never hurt me and was always super nice ... a few years later he was killed in a car accident ... he would always tell me I’d make a good little girl because I had a bubble butt and girl hips and good little girls pleased boys private parts... I would hear that more in my life down the road about my ass . moving forward a few years it was summer again and we were being watched by our cousins (not blood cousins) and they were 14 &15 year old females and one day the oldest told me to get to her room and we’ll we had awkward sex that day and almost every day the rest of the summer ... I loved being with her and I guess I was having fun but i loved her body and I wanted it so bad ... I think that summer was the summer I had the split in my head ... I told her I wish I had her body with boobs and her you know like her .. sometimes she would dress me in her clothes and it was so much fun acting like a little girl ... I was 16 when I was caught wearing a skirt that I found in a box of clothes ... I was freaked thinking he’d tell my parents but he told me my butt looked good and with longer hair I’d look like a girl from behind ...he’d keep my secret if helped him out ... you know.. I said ok and we hid and I hand jobbed him to a nice explosion. Every other week I would wear the clothes and give him a hand job .. So one day I decided to see if I could suck home off .. when he got there I pulled his shorts down and kneeled and started sucking and I don’t know if I was any good but but he moaned and moaned saying yes a lot but in three minutes or so and without warning he was filling my mouth with warm cum his cock snapping as it pumped streams of his seed ... I was in heaven pleasing him with my mouth was so hot .. ... I would blow him anytime I could and I swallowed a lot of cum but in my mind I was being a good little slut and well one night he asked if he could put it in my butt to see how it felt.. he thought I’d like it also... we got our hands on some Vaseline and the next night up my ass his cock went ... it was super thin and very long and pain was minimal . It felt great different but great... ! He got it all the way in and went to jackhammering my fat ass... he fucked it good and hard given my butt a nice hard fuck and he came right up inside letting out a loud grunt then filling me with his sticky goodness... I blew and let him fuck me for almost two years before we moved on.. my up and down weight has given me a big bubble butt at times and a smaller one but it’s always been a bubble butt... there were others and bigger .. A few things lead me to being bi and I’m ok with it

 

[nakedgmby]

I had sucked a few cocks growing up but wasn't too interested in continuing until 1 night in an xxx theater in nj I was sucking a guy off thru a condom. Another guy walked up and I started stroking him as I sucked the other guy. Then I noticed 2 other guys were watching it all and jerking off. At that point I got hooked on sucking cock and have loved doing it ever since.

 

[WebMale80]

I was bisexual before I even knew what that word was.
Started messing around with guys in high school even though I actively dated girls. I always knew I liked both when I was 17.
Access with guys and sleepovers at friends houses made hook ups so easy then.

 

[Lance V]

Wow. He molested you and your reaction was you liked it? Or did you at first feel angry and then worked through it with him to accept it and even like what he did?

When he confessed what he did it shocked the hell out of me. I was a bit confused, but he explained that he was horny that night having been teased by a girl all night long with nothing to show for it. I was his ride home, but I was passed out on the table. So he hauled me to my car and drove us both back to our dorm, which was a converted apartment complex.

He literally dragged me to my room and dropped me in my bed. He said he was going to leave me, but he stopped and took off my shoes. Then he undressed me leaving my briefs. Apparently, I had a visible erection, and he said he couldn't help himself and just helped himself.

While he's telling me all this I went from confused to horny. Don't ask me to explain. I just did. Then he said since he saw mine in all its glory did I want to see his to make things fair. I said sure.

And that kind of kicked off the festivities.

Never had a gay thought before then, but what do you know? Here we are.

I keep thinking of when I learned to play baseball the coach told me to change and bat left-handed. I told him I don't bat left handed. He said "You don't know what you can do until you try."

By the way, I'm a pretty damn good left-handed batter.

 

[fuckyeah]

When he confessed what he did it shocked the hell out of me. I was a bit confused, but he explained that he was horny that night having been teased by a girl all night long with nothing to show for it. I was his ride home, but I was passed out on the table. So he hauled me to my car and drove us both back to our dorm, which was a converted apartment complex.

He literally dragged me to my room and dropped me in my bed. He said he was going to leave me, but he stopped and took off my shoes. Then he undressed me leaving my briefs. Apparently, I had a visible erection, and he said he couldn't help himself and just helped himself.

While he's telling me all this I went from confused to horny. Don't ask me to explain. I just did. Then he said since he saw mine in all its glory did I want to see his to make things fair. I said sure.

And that kind of kicked off the festivities.

Never had a gay thought before then, but what do you know? Here we are.

I keep thinking of when I learned to play baseball the coach told me to change and bat left-handed. I told him I don't bat left handed. He said "You don't know what you can do until you try."

By the way, I'm a pretty damn good left-handed batter.

I get it man. I was molested as a 5 year old by a female babysitter. Very different circumstance obviously, but the trauma lives with me to this day. So I was a bit taken aback when you said you actually ended up liking it. Im glad you have had a positive experience come out of it and that the two of you had a fulfilling sexual relationship. Being Bi is not easy and it’s even tougher when you are trying to figure out who you are. So happy you are now an ambidextrous batter.

 

[Tyler123456]

I guess I've always been interested in girls and guys. I got around with girls at first, and then a few years into being sexually active i started to top dudes too.

When and where was your first hook up with a guy, how did you initiate with the guy, did it last over time, or just a one time with the first?

 

[Derringer]

Short answer is my SPH fetish.

 

[titan1968]

In my teenage years, I felt attracted to athletic and hairy-chested guys because they looked confident and I was not--I was not muscular either. There were a series of crushes but, unlike with women, it was never love at first site. It was only when I was in my thirties that I started to act on these feelings and have sex with men. I now believe that latent homophobia prevented me from processing my feelings and accepting who I was and it also prevented me from loving and having sex with men. Although I am slightly more attracted to men than to women, I consider myself bisexual because I can be turned on by both sexes and can see myself in a relationship with either sex.

 

[txviewer]

What opened my bi side was a situation between me and a friend as kids. Now, I will preface this by saying that as a kid I knew I liked both boys and girls but didn't quite understand why or know how to articulate it. When I was young, it seemed like in every grade (I'm talking 1st to 6th) there was some girl that I found attractive and wanted as a "girlfriend". At the same time, I began to notice boys as well. At the age of 8, there was a boy (same age) who lived across the hall in the apartment I lived in and for whatever reason, I wanted him and I to take a bath together. To me, this was an innocent request - taking a bath with another boy and just being silly. The bath did happen, but both our mothers were there, so no funny business happened. It wasn't until 4 years later when I had my first experience with another boy (he a year younger). Oddly enough, it was he who wanted to compare - to which we did. Other than a few more times doing this sort of thing, I only had a few more "dick" viewings when I was in my teens. My first real sexual experience with another guy (a gay friend) didn't happen until I was 22. By this time I'd seen quite a bit of XXX straight porn and I was more interested in the guy's dick than anything else.

 

[Chungster]

What opened up my bi side? If we're being technical, plugs and dildos.
Although I don't outwardly let it be known, I've always been comfortable being physically attracted to both sexes.

 

[beginner63]

When I was a teen I thought about getting used by an older neighbor. I would crossdress and walk around the neighborhood late at night. In my 40s from watching porn and finding web sites I finally acted out my dreams and sucked my first guy. Now I’m hooked

 

[Janelle_]

Actually nothing, when I was a kid I had crush on a girl, naked butt of man in TV turned me on, I kissed a boy my age few times and u know I played with cars and barbies

 

[alex-xx]

What opened me up (literally) to being bisexual? Well I always knew I loved pussy. But the first man or men should I say (group sex was my first man encounter) left me feeling like a dirty lil slut. I loved that feeling, the feeling of men wanting me, their passion and aggressiveness. I was so petite at the time (5'4" 145 lbs.). They were big, strong and older. They did all those things I loved, and did it with passion. No woman ever made me feel like a man has....at least most men I've had sex with. I love the cum and dump, guilt and go back o their gf/wife look on their face. The feeling of being used just for my cum, ass or oral ability and swallowing. Those days are gone....but the memories always turn me on.

Care to give more detail about the experience?

 

[alex-xx]

What opened me up (literally) to being bisexual? Well I always knew I loved pussy. But the first man or men should I say (group sex was my first man encounter) left me feeling like a dirty lil slut. I loved that feeling, the feeling of men wanting me, their passion and aggressiveness. I was so petite at the time (5'4" 145 lbs.). They were big, strong and older. They did all those things I loved, and did it with passion. No woman ever made me feel like a man has....at least most men I've had sex with. I love the cum and dump, guilt and go back o their gf/wife look on their face. The feeling of being used just for my cum, ass or oral ability and swallowing. Those days are gone....but the memories always turn me on.

or send me a PM about it.

 

[Love in a Mist]

I think it's probably the curiosity of being with a man. Watching gay porn may stimulate you to experience such thing.

 

[BiTatBoy]

I have been wondering if there is anything specific that opens up a straight guy to be bi. It seems like you hear a lot of guys realizing this side as they've gotten older. As a gay man, my attraction to guys has always been present.

Did you always know you like both sexes? Or, did you start experimenting with gay or bi porn and like what you see?

My first time was through a gay man, and I've still not had sex with a girl.

 

[6695221]

Growing up I was attracted to one or two guys. I’ve always wanted to suck their dicks and fuck them both. But, I’ve always loved women as well.

 

[halcyondays]

BTW it's not a side.

 

[deleted1016751]

I would go on Omegle and mess around. I would come across guys way bigger than me. It turned me on that they were bigger and we would mess around. They would turn me into a sub and make me do things. It was so hot.