What Other Group Has To Put Up With This?

[1345864]

Yeach, as usual; pull the pin, toss the grenade over the wall, count to 4. Walk away.

Kinda hard to put the Cenobites back in the box once you've unleashed them, you know.

 

[deleted1138933]

How would you know about rejection?

How would you know what rejection for being too big feels like?

STOP SPEAKING FOR OTHERS

I know about rejection. I am not speaking for others. I am saying that being rejected fir other resins is not the sane, as it does not shame, immaculate or question your manhood. Of course you would not understand this, given your privileged/advantaged situation.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I know about rejection. I am not speaking for others. I am saying that being rejected fir other resins is not the sane, as it does not shame, immaculate or question your manhood. Of course you would not understand this, given your privileged/advantaged situation.

You've spoken for women several times throughout the tread.

You aren't speaking for others like I'm not smoking weed right now

*Rips bong*

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

That's an exaggeration. Some people are elated about how their life is going. Often they are delusional, of course.

The attitudes of others in any endeavor can make it more difficult. It is all a matter of degree. Why blame the victim?

This completely ignores the central point in @AlteredEgo 's post...the question of whether there's any credible evidence that this supposed pecking order has caused actual denial of safety, housing, employment, sexual intimacy.

And any mention of such a pecking order brings up the issue of just how often any man, especially one who doesn't want his size known, actually has to be seen...flaccid....by any other man. The urinal/gym shower argument doesn't hold water. I have never been forced to shower other than high school gym. I have never had to show my dick at a urinal. There are about six thousand ways to not be seen. And of course, a "go fuck yourself" coupled with the thousand-yard-stare shuts up plenty.

Then there's not giving a rat's hairy ass about what others...especially other guys...think about your dick. Unless you're actually seeking guys, of course.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

I know about rejection. I am not speaking for others. I am saying that being rejected fir other resins is not the sane, as it does not shame, immaculate or question your manhood. Of course you would not understand this, given your privileged/advantaged situation.

You wouldn't know what I feel when rejected. Being that you aren't me.

STOP TALKING FOR ME.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

I know about rejection.

I don't know how. You've said you haven't actually had a relationship. Everyone gets turned down for one-night stands and dates. That shit ain't nothing compared with dating, falling hard for someone who seems interested and the perfect partner, then being told you aren't a good fit. Even in a one-night stand, being told you're essentially a freak of nature...yeah, nothing emasculating, demoralizing or depressing about that. But again, for you to understand this requires you to put yourself in another's place. You speak for others, yet show no signs of empathy for them. And given that you have no real experience of your own, your arguments are weak sauce right from the start. Try having a twenty year marriage burn to the ground around you...an entire life, your children, all of it ripped out from under you. Because your spouse wants others, is not happy with just you....you aren't enough. Yeah, that big dick is a reaaaaal comfort.

Please shut the fuck up, you know nothing.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I had sex with a guy several times who had an average penis. I'd venture to guess 4.5 to 5 in length and probably 4 inches in girth. His cock got so much harder than everyone else he was obliterating my g spot. He never once mentioned his penis size. Nor did I. We just lubed that sucker up and stuck it in. It was amazingly good sex. Coming from a military career he probably has seen a lot of dicks and sized himself up as average and was completely content with that. I was content with it not only because it didn't bother me most importantly it didnt bother him.

 

[BoBolt]

Anyway, I am leaving this thread. Have fun.

Walter is a puss

 

[deleted136887]

Now that wall-eye has taken himself out of thread.
How is it that he can get such reactions from normally rational people?
He does it all the time.
We all play into his game.
He left this one....
But will be back.
And we all going to be caught hook line sinker and small weenie bs.
Till next time

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Now that wall-eye has taken himself out of thread.
How is it that he can get such reactions from normally rational people?
He does it all the time.
We all play into his game.
He left this one....
But will be back.
And we all going to be caught hook line sinker and small weenie bs.
Till next time

I reply because his bullshit needs to be refuted.

I reply because other guys will read his bullshit and be affected by it.

Look at this thread. The same guy who coined the derogatory "Smalls" moniker posted a thread with an SNL skit mocking a guy with a small penis.

The same guy who says small guys should never have sex because "it isn't sex".

The same guy who says small guys should "live underground".

This kind of hatred and mockery needs a response. Because this troll doesn't go away when he's ignored. He's come back every time. I shot down one of his threads in one post last week. It plummmeted off page 1. He posted this one.

He won't go away if he's ignored. He'll only go away if he's banned. Plenty of other members have been permanently banned for far less than what he's done here for a decade. I can only conclude that a paid membership buys leniency. I hope I'm wrong and some legitimate reason for him slipping through the cracks is presented.

 

[Nosuportneeded]

I like to play with Wally. I’m not sure how much he believes himself or not. I do like to search for kernels of truth in his posts and the basis for what often becomes misinformation

I think it’s also important to provide the alternate view and/or what your truth is in comparison with what another person says. Maybe not for the op, but maybe another reader

 

[MisterB]

I had sex with a guy several times who had an average penis. I'd venture to guess 4.5 to 5 in length and probably 4 inches in girth. His cock got so much harder than everyone else he was obliterating my g spot. He never once mentioned his penis size. Nor did I. We just lubed that sucker up and stuck it in. It was amazingly good sex. Coming from a military career he probably has seen a lot of dicks and sized himself up as average and was completely content with that. I was content with it not only because it didn't bother me most importantly it didnt bother him.

Sounds like this dude was quite comfortable in his own skin. Confident about himself. ALL of him. Including his penis. Confidence. I think that's what draws us to other people. Confidence. In yourself and sensing that in others. Being secure in ones own skin. Warts and all.

And in this case with Ms. TG, it sounds like dude knew who he was. That's confidence. And I'll bet smart and secure enough to know that maybe he'd strike out. But he put himself out there. Gave it a whirl. Can't win if you don't play!

And he met Ms. TG. Sounds like this guy was a good fit (pun intended) for Ms. TG. And he had the right penis for Ms. TG. And knew how to use it. That's called having game. Confidence. Sounds like dude had it in spades!

Once again, one of LPSG's ladies has given you straight dudes, moaning and groaning and making excuses about why you can't get with a woman, the inside scoop. And what strikes me funny, is she and so many other woman have done that regularly over my 7 years here. And it seems to be the same sad sacks who refuse to believe our beloved women here: It ain't your penis; it's what it's attached to.

I don't understand how that can be so hard to understand. So I say to them:

Wallow away my friend. Continue to divorce yourselves from reality with your moaning and groaning, woe-is-me, gaslighting, non-sensical excuses, made-up scenarios, boldface lies and all your other gyrations. You know we don't buy any of it. And if you were completely honest, neither do you. You know deep down the real problem is not your penis. You are the problem. You are cock-blocking yourself!!!

And your continuous lamenting *all my problems are because of my dick* is getting you where? Getting you what? All I see is misery. If that's what you've decided your lot in life is, so be it. That's on you.

Only one person can change your current situation. YOU! Get busy!

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Sounds like this dude was quite comfortable in his own skin. Confident about himself. ALL of him. Including his penis. Confidence. I think that's what draws us to other people. Confidence. In yourself and sensing that in others. Being secure in ones own skin. Warts and all.

And in this case with Ms. TG, it sounds like dude knew who he was. That's confidence. And I'll bet smart and secure enough to know that maybe he'd strike out. But he put himself out there. Gave it a whirl. Can't win if you don't play!

And he met Ms. TG. Sounds like this guy was a good fit (pun intended) for Ms. TG. And he had the right penis for Ms. TG. And knew how to use it. That's called having game. Confidence. Sounds like dude had it in spades!

Once again, one of LPSG's ladies has given you straight dudes, moaning and groaning and making excuses about why you can't get with a woman, the inside scoop. And what strikes me funny, is she and so many other woman have done that regularly over my 7 years here. And it seems to be the same sad sacks who refuse to believe our beloved women here: It ain't your penis; it's what it's attached to.

I don't understand how that can be so hard to understand. So I say to them:

Wallow away my friend. Continue to divorce yourselves from reality with your moaning and groaning, woe-is-me, gaslighting, non-sensical excuses, made-up scenarios, boldface lies and all your other gyrations. You know we don't buy any of it. And if you were completely honest, neither do you. You know deep down the real problem is not your penis. You are the problem. You are cock-blocking yourself!!!

And your continuous lamenting *all my problems are because of my dick* is getting you where? Getting you what? All I see is misery. If that's what you've decided your lot in life is, so be it. That's on you.

Only one person can change your current situation. YOU! Get busy!

Who gets on a plane betting the pilot will crash it? That's what these guys are all doing.

I'm tellin' ya....it's some new weird-ass cruising tactic. Can't be anything else.

You heard it here first.....

 

[deleted1138933]

I don't know how. You've said you haven't actually had a relationship. Everyone gets turned down for one-night stands and dates. That shit ain't nothing compared with dating, falling hard for someone who seems interested and the perfect partner, then being told you aren't a good fit. Even in a one-night stand, being told you're essentially a freak of nature...yeah, nothing emasculating, demoralizing or depressing about that. But again, for you to understand this requires you to put yourself in another's place. You speak for others, yet show no signs of empathy for them. And given that you have no real experience of your own, your arguments are weak sauce right from the start. Try having a twenty year marriage burn to the ground around you...an entire life, your children, all of it ripped out from under you. Because your spouse wants others, is not happy with just you....you aren't enough. Yeah, that big dick is a reaaaaal comfort.

Please shut the fuck up, you know nothing.

Rejection comes in various forms and fir various reasons. I have experienced discrimination due to race, nationality, language, ethnicity, etc. The only one that hurts permanently and deeper is rejection due to penis size, all other can be dealt with. Exactly it is because of this rejection that I have not been in a relationship. Why would i pursue a relationship with someone that all ready stated, mentioned, referred, alluded, joked, mocked, laughed about not wanting no short dick man, bigger is, better, etc? Thats like a lawyer applying for a brain surgeons position at a hospital, or a history teacher applying for chemical engineer etc

 

[1345864]

Sounds like this dude was quite comfortable in his own skin. Confident about himself. ALL of him. Including his penis. Confidence. I think that's what draws us to other people. Confidence. In yourself and sensing that in others. Being secure in ones own skin. Warts and all.

And in this case with Ms. TG, it sounds like dude knew who he was. That's confidence. And I'll bet smart and secure enough to know that maybe he'd strike out. But he put himself out there. Gave it a whirl. Can't win if you don't play!

And he met Ms. TG. Sounds like this guy was a good fit (pun intended) for Ms. TG. And he had the right penis for Ms. TG. And knew how to use it. That's called having game. Confidence. Sounds like dude had it in spades!

Once again, one of LPSG's ladies has given you straight dudes, moaning and groaning and making excuses about why you can't get with a woman, the inside scoop. And what strikes me funny, is she and so many other woman have done that regularly over my 7 years here. And it seems to be the same sad sacks who refuse to believe our beloved women here: It ain't your penis; it's what it's attached to.

I don't understand how that can be so hard to understand. So I say to them:

Wallow away my friend. Continue to divorce yourselves from reality with your moaning and groaning, woe-is-me, gaslighting, non-sensical excuses, made-up scenarios, boldface lies and all your other gyrations. You know we don't buy any of it. And if you were completely honest, neither do you. You know deep down the real problem is not your penis. You are the problem. You are cock-blocking yourself!!!

And your continuous lamenting *all my problems are because of my dick* is getting you where? Getting you what? All I see is misery. If that's what you've decided your lot in life is, so be it. That's on you.

Only one person can change your current situation. YOU! Get busy!

THIS. Right here. ^^

The ladies of LPSG have been truthful, honest, and forthright answering questions. And for their efforts they have often been cursed at, scoffed at, ridiculed, dismissed, reviled and insulted for it.

The men who behave this way are caught in a self-fulfilling prophecy, self-defeating, and ultimately alienate women, ensuring they'll be alone forever. You should not ask someone a question if you aren't prepared for the answer or you are only seeking one specific answer. Wallowing in self pity like a pig in a hog waller will get you nowhere.

As for the man Tattooed Goddess referenced, good on him for his laudable level of confidence. He should be an inspiration for guys everywhere.

 

[shard38]

Rejection comes in various forms and fir various reasons. I have experienced discrimination due to race, nationality, language, ethnicity, etc. The only one that hurts permanently and deeper is rejection due to penis size, all other can be dealt with. Exactly it is because of this rejection that I have not been in a relationship. Why would i pursue a relationship with someone that all ready stated, mentioned, referred, alluded, joked, mocked, laughed about not wanting no short dick man, bigger is, better, etc? Thats like a lawyer applying for a brain surgeons position at a hospital, or a history teacher applying for chemical engineer etc

Well, that has everything to do with your own mindset and nothing with society. People van be bastards about anything. They’ve rejected you for several reasons, including your race, your language and (we still don’t know this for sure) your smaller than average penis. All things that are a) ridicilious to discriminate about and b) things you can’t change. But for you the small penis is the worst thing that has been mentioned. That’s YOUR mindset, that’s YOUR way of dealing with it. Ever occured to you that from all the shitty things people discriminated you for penis size eas actually the one that DIDN’T stood out from the outside and that you had to reveal to them? It’s not something people are usually interested in. From all the conversations on this forum I never would have guessed you are below average until YOU decided it was a problem.

 

[deleted1138933]

Well, that has everything to do with your own mindset and nothing with society. People van be bastards about anything. They’ve rejected you for several reasons, including your race, your language and (we still don’t know this for sure) your smaller than average penis. All things that are a) ridicilious to discriminate about and b) things you can’t change. But for you the small penis is the worst thing that has been mentioned. That’s YOUR mindset, that’s YOUR way of dealing with it. Ever occured to you that from all the shitty things people discriminated you for penis size eas actually the one that DIDN’T stood out from the outside and that you had to reveal to them? It’s not something people are usually interested in. From all the conversations on this forum I never would have guessed you are below average until YOU decided it was a problem.

The other forms of discrimination and rejection do not reduce question or in anyway Question your manhood. I never revealed anything these are comments that are made generally regarding size

 

[1543042]

This completely ignores the central point in @AlteredEgo 's post...the question of whether there's any credible evidence that this supposed pecking order has caused actual denial of safety, housing, employment, sexual intimacy.

And any mention of such a pecking order brings up the issue of just how often any man, especially one who doesn't want his size known, actually has to be seen...flaccid....by any other man. The urinal/gym shower argument doesn't hold water. I have never been forced to shower other than high school gym. I have never had to show my dick at a urinal. There are about six thousand ways to not be seen. And of course, a "go fuck yourself" coupled with the thousand-yard-stare shuts up plenty.

Then there's not giving a rat's hairy ass about what others...especially other guys...think about your dick. Unless you're actually seeking guys, of course.

Hiding you dick while camping, hiking, participating in all manner of outdoor sports? In the boiler room if you are a pipe-fitter. How about trough style urinals (fortunately quite rare now). How about when I accidentaly entered a gay bar when traveling and there was a mirror the length of the trough. Further, you only have to be exposed once for your peer group to know and label you.

Avoiding showing you penis in many situations such as above labels you as small and ashamed, exactly what the patriarchy relishes.

All of this indicates the tremendous pressure and divides the really small guy from his peers even if the victim says, as I did myself, act like I don't care. I did care.

 

[1543042]

It is not an exaggeration. Everybody is discouraged about something, whether they will admit it to you personally, or not. If a person is literally the only person in their own way, that person is not a victim. There are no people standing in the way of the personal safety, employment, housing, medical care, or ability to socialize of any other person based solely on penis size, other than the person with the insecurity himself. I refuse to infantilize grown adults by calling them victims when they are the only ones standing in their own way.

They are NOT THE ONLY one standing in their way. The patriarchy is actively shaming them. Why do you want to join in the shaming? You should think about that. Such people are already shamed for not being able to stand-up to the patriarchal pecking order structure. They are victims and already ashamed they couldn't handle it.

Contrary to Wally, such men are suffering from inability to socialize, not the other things you mention unless social status gets somehow rarely involved.

 

[AlteredEgo]

They are NOT THE ONLY one standing in their way. The patriarchy is actively shaming them. Why do you want to join in the shaming? You should think about that. Such people are already shamed for not being able to stand-up to the patriarchal pecking order structure. They are victims and already ashamed they couldn't handle it.

Contrary to Wally, such men are suffering from inability to socialize, not the other things you mention unless social status gets somehow rarely involved.

This is laughable. I agree that men with small penises face derision from media (like everyone who isn't a white man has during my lifetime). But give me one example of men with small penises being precluded from physical safety, employment, housing, medical care, and the freedom to socialize. You are talking aboit people CHOOSING not to socialize. Nobody is denying them freedom of movement.