What percent of women are pillow princesses?

[supersecretlemur]

I was wondering where many of you think women you've been with fall would be considered a pillow princess (never initiate, never reciprocate oral, never want to be on top, never suggest position changes, generally want you to make them orgasm but your orgasm is up to you, etc.).

I've been with about 20 women - less than four ever initiated (in any sense) and about 5 of them never did much more than lay there. About 4 of 20 of these girls I was with in long-term relationships and none of them really came out of their pillow-princess shell.

I'm wondering if I've just picked a lot of selfish/inexperienced women or if most women are this way.

EDIT: Part of me wonders if this is how it is... current girlfriend says that no other guy she has ever been with seemed to have a problem with her sexual prowess. So wondering if I just have some outlandish expectations or everyone else just is happy with a pillow princess.

 

[Hatt_101]

No never been with what you call a "pillow princess" never heard that tearm before

 

[sangheili90]

Maybe they just aren't very sexual naturally or are not comfortable with it.

 

[supersecretlemur]

Maybe they just aren't very sexual naturally or are not comfortable with it.

I'm not asking why they are pillow princesses, I'm asking what percent of girls that you've been with fit this description.

 

[supersecretlemur]

No never been with what you call a "pillow princess" never heard that tearm before

Really? I thought that was a pretty common term.

And you're lucky to have had 5 girls that don't fit the description!

 

[Brisler]

In my experience, zero percent are "pillow princesses".

 

[Hatt_101]

Really? I thought that was a pretty common term.

And you're lucky to have had 5 girls that don't fit the description!

Ya I never heard it before I actually thought you made up the term. But ya none of the girls I've been with fit that description

 

[GBF64]

About 20% of the women I've been with have been pillow princesses. However, in New Jersey we just call them dead fucks.

 

[supersecretlemur]

In my experience, zero percent are "pillow princesses".

Please elaborate.

 

[temptotalk]

Have only been with one woman who could come close to that description and that was only after a bit of time. Some miscommunication and compatibility issues after we both changed. Even with that though, she still initiated sex about as much as i did. Then again my pool of experiences wouldn't be considered all that expansive anyway.

With that said, most if not all have enjoyed and initiated sex as much an sometimes more than i. (Shrugs)

 

[supersecretlemur]

Have only been with one woman who could come close to that description and that was only after a bit of time. Some miscommunication and compatibility issues after we both changed. Even with that though, she still initiated sex about as much as i did. Then again my pool of experiences wouldn't be considered all that expansive anyway.

With that said, most if not all have enjoyed and initiated sex as much an sometimes more than i. (Shrugs)

Only after a bit of time? As in, she wasn't like that to begin with?

 

[temptotalk]

Only after a bit of time? As in, she wasn't like that to begin with?

Nope, at the same time she was only slightly close to what you said. Could have been something i said or did but i have yet to meet a "pillow princess" right out of the gate.

 

[supersecretlemur]

Maybe I am misconstruing a bit. I don't know if I've been with someone that absolutely only lays there and makes no noise like they are dead... but most women I've been with seem very, very timid. Maybe our sex drives and kinky levels are just total opposites. I can't remember any of the girls, except maybe one, that would even remotely initiate oral.

 

[Brisler]

Please elaborate.

Elaborate on what? I think it kinda speaks for itself.

 

[supersecretlemur]

Elaborate on what? I think it kinda speaks for itself.

You can take it two ways. I took it as "In my experience none can be pillow princesses." I guess I read into it.

 

[Brisler]

You can take it two ways. I took it as "In my experience none can be pillow princesses." I guess I read into it.

That's a pretty hefty reading. I simply meant that I've been with no women who meat the criteria.

 

[elvid]

In my experience, zero girls have been like that with me. Every girl I've been with has been awesome, and really let her self go wild in bed.

 

[Guy-jin]

I've been with about 35 women and I can't say I ever had one who didn't want to reciprocate, do multiple positions, etc. honestly if I had a selfish sex partner like that I'd probably leave.

 

[deleted992152]

Just one - thankfully now nothing more than a regretful bad memory ! lol

 

[supersecretlemur]

It seems that the general consensus is that most women are not a pillow princess. So I am not sure if I have some odd memories and/or high expectations or if they generally are/were boring.

I have been told, at least twice, that I am sexually intimidating. I am not sure exactly what that means. I think I just really like sex and maybe a bit wild by some people's standards.