What pisses me off about MOST men, in my experience- is their mistaken belief that something I am feeling is about HIM. Sometimes, its about ME. Im not trying to find a sneaky way to tell him something, Im not trying to get him to do something by using manipulation, I'm not using some obscure example as a way to tell him something about himself. All Im doing is USING him, yes USING him as a sounding board for my thoughts. All he has to do is be understanding and realize that I talk out loud as a way to resolve things. I don't want a solution or to be rescued, I don't want to get yelled at cos he doesn't agree with whatever I'm rambling about. When its really about him I'm blunt enough to say so. In the meantime, he can get off his egocentric horse and not take it personally since I'm not attacking him or saying something about him anyway!
Wow, that felt good!:biggrin1: