What Popular Sexual Act/trend Just Isn’t For You?

[Here_be_dargons]

Step sister step brother porn.

God yes. This is having such a moment now and it’s ridiculous. I saw a thread on reddit once that mentioned it may be because so many other kinks are so prevalent and not considered taboo anymore, that now, step sister/brother porn is still a taboo, so it’s a huge trend.

Either way, I’m not into it.

 

[VoyeurEx]

Spitting on people and treating it like it is mainstream/not a fetish thing. I'm not talking about casual saliva transfer as you're eating pussy, sucking dick, rimming a butt, or making out. I'm talking "lemme borderline hawk a loogie onto someone's groin because lube apparently does not exist".

Role play also is a "sit at a table with a group n roll dice" thing for me. Not so much a bedroom thing. I can't get the mindset right.

Oh sweet hell. Spitting on/in/within range of my vision is an instant red . Instant stop. Do not pass go, do not collect $200. That is 100% gross as fuck to me and in no way sexy. I can not understand how it's in any way appealing to people.

I just LOST it at "hawk a loogie"

All that spit is highly and wholly uncalled for.
Also...no anal, and most assuredly nothing involving the numbers 1 or 2.

 

[marriedasian]

for me it's choking. even if there is no pressure at all, the fact that my hand is around her neck doesn't appeal to me at all. my wife loves it though and i do it for her when she asks for it but only by request, i never initiate. on the flip side, i like to pull her hair during doggy and hard enough to arch her head back so go figure that one out, hehe... yea... i digress a bit here.

 

[deleted817718]

Feet! Why do so many people love feet? They are not in the least bit sexy to me.
For my wife oral and anal are both on the ‘No’ list. Her view is ‘there is a hole for sex, use that one or none at all’

 

[WhoIsThisOne]

Eating ass.

I will do whatever you want to the rest of your body but I’m not going back there for that. Now if you want to eat mine, I won’t stop you.

 

[HungBtmVegas]

DP and I can say this with confidence because I've been DPed twice lol

 

[nailz]

Haha, aside from a handful of gross ones like , prolapsing, incest, etc this thread is basically like a todo list for the typical weekend

I'm a little shocked at how many people here don't like roleplay at all. Roleplay doesn't have to mean dressing up in costumes and spouting silly dialogue .. even very light dom/sub stuff can have subtle elements of roleplay that can make it super hot

 

[nailz]

Because I do agree, rope can be absolutely beautiful but entirely too time consuming and tiring before you get the fun stuff.

Some of it is deceptively fast and simple

My bf can truss me up like a thanksgiving turkey before I can blink

A little more time but even full body stuff can be soooo simple once you see how it's done:

I used to point people to Kink University for rope tutorials but a lot of them are very advanced and all over the place.. there's so much quality, free content on youtube now
Just make sure you have some EMT shears/safety scissors around in case of emergency. Knots tighten, body parts swell, and you don't want to get into a situation you can't get out of quickly.

 

[sizehungry]

Spitting , slapping & rimming . Spit on , or , slap me , i'll put you in a fucking ambulance . Rimming ? Nah .just Nah .

 

[Mittimer]

Some of it is deceptively fast and simple

My bf can truss me up like a thanksgiving turkey before I can blink

A little more time but even full body stuff can be soooo simple once you see how it's done:

I used to point people to Kink University for rope tutorials but a lot of them are very advanced and all over the place.. there's so much quality, free content on youtube now
Just make sure you have some EMT shears/safety scissors around in case of emergency. Knots tighten, body parts swell, and you don't want to get into a situation you can't get out of quickly.

I've been a part of the BDSM world for 13 years and a Domme/Mistress for most of this. I've seen countless shows and classes on rope. I'm aware of the safety needed for it, but also that it can be quick if you want it to be.

I simply find no pleasure in taking the time to use rope when I've got cuffs, bars and clips that take all of fifteen seconds the majority of the time.

Rope is a performance to me. While simply beautiful in a lot of ways, not my preferred binding material in kink. I love sitting down and watching others use it and make intricate pieces and suspensions, but again, not my thing for sex.

 

[jutadawg]

Choking. It pops up so much in porn right now. Really degradation of women turns me off in general.

Anal sex has never done much for me. I’ll fuck my wife’s ass if she wants (it’s actually been years since we’ve done anal) but I never get off that way for some reason.

Cum — even my own — kinda grosses me out. My wife sometimes likes when I cum on her face, which is hot, but I don’t want to kiss her until she’s wiped all the cum off. ALL of it. Lol

 

[51arledge]

Yeah, it's funny but a lot of the above really appeals to me: kissing, sucking dick, eating cum, rimming, anal: I've been on both giving and receiving sides of all these and enjoy all. (French kissing? Really? If a guy isn't going to kiss me and he's hoping for sex, I'm headed out the door!)
On the other hand golden showers, scat, fisting, and choking are complete turn-offs.

I've had one FB ask me for role play; he's black and I'm white; he wanted to play Master/slave and that was an instant turn-off. As for the step brother/step dad trend: I find it just too silly. Most dialogue in porn us ridiculous; I usually just turn off the sound.
And the whole "Daddy" business! I'm old enough to be a grandfather to some of the guys I've played with but I he D----word is an instant turn-off. I've had 2 FBs who hated the word "stud" and I understand that to be very objectifying.

 

[1529982]

Maybe it's just my BDSMLR feed but the following seem to be appearing a fair amount which are total turn offs for me:

Golden showers (erugh)

CBT and other extreme domination practices (why, just why?)

Prolapses (as someone said before, just gape it and leave it in - that's hot IMO)

Family / Incest (including step brothers / sister stuff)

Feet (my GF has learnt to not touch mine and I avoid touching her's)


Some stuff I can understand why others like it but it ain't for me:

Bondage (takes too much prior preparation)

Pitch-black sex (I'm definitely a visual person and therefore much prefer to see my partner)

Porn romance (Girl on Girl is tolerable, everything else is getting skipped)

The majority of BJs in porn clips (unless it's a totally huge cock, I'm going to skip to the part where that cock enters her / his arse)

Bushes (a hairy vagina or arse is definitely a turn off. A hairy cock isn't but a trimmed or smooth one is preferable)

Lingerie that isn't crotchless or at least easy access (you spend all this time putting on your stockings, garter belt etc and then have to ruin it all when the action starts).

There's probably a few more things I've forgotten.

 

[halcyondays]

Anal? Dirty talking? Bondage? Dom/sub? Eating ass?

What popular or common sex thing just isn’t for you?

irl it's facials (do ppl really like getting spunked in the face?)... I would add scat/pee though it seems they aren't popular...

I have along list of what I don't like in porn though it hasn't necessarily stopped me from sampling it all.

 

[4388301]

(French kissing? Really? If a guy isn't going to kiss me and he's hoping for sex, I'm headed out the door!)

If that's at me, you perhaps misunderstand. I kiss. A lot. I just do not go for the whole tongues in each other's mouths thing. I nibble, suck, and generally kiss quite a lot. Different things for different folks, but of my fairly lengthy sexual history, I have never had a complaint about the way I kiss. I have only "French" kissed literally two people. The 60 something other people got plenty of other things, just not my tongue in their mouth. If that kind o thing is a deal breaker for you, I get it. Thankfully, very few other folk seem to share that view in my experience.

Perhaps related, but most of the foods I dislike it is due to their texture. I am sensitive to that kind of thing.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

"French" kissing. I have done it for some folks, but it does not do much for me at all..

Same here, my fella and I don't really kiss much and when we do there is almost never tongue involved. Neither of us really enjoys it, and we both absolutely fucking Hate watching it.

We have to really be in a mood to make out for foreplay, and it usually doesn't last more than a minute. Which is odd, because it does feel amazing.. it's just not my preferred way to get into the mood. His either.

 

[MickeyLee]

The over the top/trying to out edge lord the next rando vibe. It's okay to cuddle fuck.

Not every sex act needs to check 50 boxes and double duty as a Mountain Dew Energy Drink ad. Be in the moment, not thinking about who you're going to brag about the moment to later.

Spitting. No.

The violent language used to describe sex. My pussy is not a coastal city, don't attempt to kaiju my area.

Thankfully I avoid porn and porn's need to retain an over-stimulated/de-sensitized audience. Only fuck humans I would hang out with fully clothed. Fuck for fun not transactional types of ego/clout gain.

ETA: bondage to blood letting works for me. Humiliation/degradation not so much.

 

[Player_01]

Eating ass.

I will do whatever you want to the rest of your body but I’m not going back there for that. Now if you want to eat mine, I won’t stop you.

That was what I came here to post. People talk about eating ass on Facebook, comedians have jokes about how butt licker used to be a huge insult and now it's a first date. Not to mention all the "booty hole" mentions in movies. I just don't see the appeal.

But I don't really like butts all that much anyway, beyond the muscle looking ok. I'm just not into them

 

[LargeUnit]

Spitting, bondage and kinky ass play are absolute no go’s for me. Anal is another — the only ass I would eat is a hot woman’s in the shower with soap and water running down her butt.
I have tried anal with 2 women and they both hated my head in there. Im not a fan and won’t try it again.

 

[dopeboyfresh]

Ass eating. Keep your mouth away from my asshole and I'll stay away from yours lol. In fact, don't even touch mine or think of putting a finger in.