Inwood: When you are interested in someone what is it that usually piques your interest first? Being that this is the LPSG one might suppose that the subject at hand ;D is the main interest. But from what I've read members write, tastes are rather catholic. In my case it's the face. The person doesn't have to be stunningly attractive or anything like that (the first man I was in love with I thought he looked rather dignified. My cousins thought he looked like a gnome. I could see their point but he was my gnome). Actually let me add to that. I did think my first boyfriend was very attractive but I was scaling him to my own standards not society's. Once the initial interest is there then other things come into play. And a fuller package is a decided plus but not having one doesn't knock anyone out of the running if they've got a face I like. Anyway, just thought I'd throw this topic out.