Tender: hapi, 'HI' :-*
i think what makes a man a man is that he is a man.
the individual characteristics that are thought of when you think a 'man' --
depends on what each person sees as masculine or as a turn on....
for instance some women prefer shorter stocky men,
some prefer the tall thin man,
some prefer men that cook, and like kids...
some prefer blondes,
some dark...
ect.
ask most women what they think about the beefy muscular 'hunks' on the magazine covers,,, and they will go 'eww'. bigger muscles are not always better, there comes a time to stop pumping ya know...
so i guess i am saying that what makes a man a man varries according to the obsservers interpretation....
it seems most every woman or man for that matter, has a personal taste of what they like...
suppose a man where short, thin, had a soft voice and loved to sew.
doubtful he would have women flocking to his side.
suppose he was tall, built, had a deep voice and sure of himself.....
he will be more likely to land a lady... especially if you cover him in sweat or grease, throw on a uniform, or give him the firetruck keys....................
so does that mean men who dont fit that description arent 'men'...? :-/
i suppose we could reverse the question.
what makes a woman a woman?
is it long hair, softness, and the barbie figure?
so if i cover the 250 pound woman with grease and a uniform, and cut her hair above her ears....
lets just say its doubtfull she would sale as a poster girl.... guys wouldnt be interested.
so it boils down then to men who are masculine, and women who are feminine are more succesful at the whole game...
anyone who doesnt meet these standards placed by society tends to have a hard time finding their way, and being content with themselves. so the question really is, yes men are men, but if he doesnt fit into the 'standard'---how does he cope?
Tender
oh, a small PS... notice how MY description of masculine DOESNT include 10 inches
BillyZane--- i got no idea of his endowment, but i think he is SO hot...............(drool.....!)
he may even beat spiderman