What revenge if any

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by hotwetkiss, May 18, 2008.

  1. hotwetkiss

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    would you inflict on your partner if you found out they had been having a full blown affair behind your back?

    Would you show them the door and kick them out?

    Say whats good for the goose is good for the gander and have a fling yourself?

    Say nothing and just let it eat away at you?

    Or take some other form of unspeakable retribution?:eek:
     
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    Revenge is for the mentally unstable.

    Simply dump then and tell them WHY you've dumped them so they make think twice about cheating (that only works of course if they end up regretting what they had with you).
     
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    i once took revenge by going balls deep in thier arse till they admitted what they were up to
     
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    I'd change the locks, box and/or bag up everything they had up, leave it outside of my place and change my phone #'s.

    Violence is for people who are more mentally unstable.
     
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    I'd do what Chuck would do, or if I was living in his place I'd simply have to leave without saying anything. Cheat on me and expect me to have a civil break-up? No way, I'll just leave.
     
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    Just found your May 2 photo posting! Wow, wow, wow, what a great cock! If you're ever in Pittsburgh......
     
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    Well, that's the thing- if she was living with me not on the lease, then she'd have to leave.
     
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    I agree, 100%.

    If my partner cheated on me, my response would be pretty simple: "You shit on me for trusting you. Have a good life. Good luck finding anyone else of my quality."

    And that would be the end of it.

    And it happened once before (but not with my current partner.) He cheated on me (while I was in the hospital, recovering from a tonsillectomy!), I packed my stuff that night I found out, he stalked me for a while, then tried to beg me back. I was done.
     
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    I think you change as you get older, in my youth lol, i would have fought and been very verbal, now adays i would just say nothing and pack him up and ask him to leave, sometimes silence is the best form of revenge
     
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    im with ya on that man. Thank them for their time, tell them its been real but you dont want to play doormat and show them the exit. People who do that crap have a pathology that you alone can not fix (like telling an alcoholic or drug addict to simply 'stop'). The best 'revenge' you can exact is picking up the pieces of your life, learning from this and moving on with your life...hopefully to a healthier relationship next time around.

    I am sorry it happened to you. As cliche as it sounds, rest assured you that you will get through it and be a better person for it...if YOU choose to.
     
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    Revenge? Success is the best revenge. I'd find someone who wanted me. If someone betrayed me that way I wouldn't want them anymore anyway so it wouldn't matter. I'd wish them good luck and be glad I was free of living a lie. No thanks! Too many fish in the sea. I don't want anybody who doesn't want me! I think actions speak louder then words. That pretty much says it all. Nothing left to say after that only goodbye.
     
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    I don't EVEN want to go there. I am thinking that I just didn't make the right choices in men. :confused:

    Revenge is the sorriest invention. I think that I will learn not to expect too much from guys.
     
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    Just say, "Adios, Muchacho/Muchacha" and walk away. I've never experienced a gf cheating on me, and I've never really had a relationship, other than purely sexual, with another dude yet; but I'd probably just tell them to take a walk and never speak to them again.
    Getting even is just immature. As Ghandi said, "An eye for an eye, leaves everyone blind."
    Put it behind you and move forward.
     
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    I'd change the locks and throw all of the cheaters clothes out on the front lawn, and then let karma handle the rest of it. REvenges gets ya nowhere, and in the long run will end up hurting you.
     
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    Anger eats you up inside, the person should just become dead to you
     
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