what sexual orientation am I?

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  1. cav7x6

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    I am a married guy in my forties, I've had sex with 20 plus women. Big breasted women are my thing. But, I have a strong urge every now and then to suck cock. Not just any cock though, It has to be big. only the cock though. I have no interest in the guy at all, honest. I dont care what he looks like as long as he's hung like a donkey. You could give me the best looking guy in the world with an average dick and I would turn him away for the fat ugly guy with a big cock everytime. I am at present invoved with a married neighbour who lets me suck his cock about once a week. No frills, just suck this, swallow my load then shut the door on the way out. Thats just the way I like it. (he's 9 easily, wife doesn't like blow jobs) I have no desire to fuck or be fucked, kiss, caress, talk or any of that bullshit. Am I alone in this? Is it unusual? Help me out.
     
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    chronic cocksucker ....hehehe
     
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    You are not alone. It sounds like you're a little bisexual.

    Who do you enjoy having romantic relationships with? Men or women?
     
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    Women, I couldn't imagine it with a man.
     
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    live and let live! as long as no one gets hurt, including U.
     
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    If you fall in love with women then you're mostly straight.

    I like the fact that LPSG has percentages for determining your straight/gay orientation. It's more true to reality.
     
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    The urge to suck a cock isnt straight

    so im gonna go with bi-sexual
     
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    Whatever other labels apply, include 'Serial Offender.'
     
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    you are straight and an adulterer. Enjoy!
     
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    I only hope you don't kiss goodnight your wife the night you come home with the cum of the neighbour in your mouth ;-)
     
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    in a straight, evident line toward bisexuality.
     
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    Looks like one of those struggling-out-of-the-closet types. As he gets older, he'll get more ravenous and spend more and more time cruising. Eventually, he'll probably start identifying himself publicly as a 'gay American', divorce his wife, and find a rich, hung, ugly steroidal musclequeen with balls the size of kidnet beans.:rolleyes:
     
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    Lol gotta love it a queer guy using biblical terms to cast judgment.


    Lighten up dude dont you think theres enough hate in this world.



    Mate your just a straight guy that likes to suck cock plenty of them out there despite what the label brigade might want to call you.

    Dont ask people what orientation you are... tell them
     
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    First, fuck labels.
    However, I would explore whether you view a big dick as powerful, and whether or not you want to watch your wife/gf get fucked by a big cock.

    If either of those are true, you could just like feeling submissive to a guy with a big dick. Part of that would be wanting to suck it and gag you with it or whatever. Which is not an uncommon desire.
     
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    I have to agree with exotiKittie, don't worry about the labels. I've known a lot of straight, married guys who like to suck cock. I very much enjoy sucking cock myself and, in spite of the 60/40 percentage in my profile, I consider myself to be basically straight. Just like the OP I have no interest in a relationship, kissing, fucking or any of the emotional stuff ... with guys I am totally cock-focused.
     
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    Sounds just like me. Except I can't find the hung neighbor. Since I am having problems finding the big one I am less picky, which is probably the 10% difference between us.
     
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    funnily enough I do have fantasies about my wife with a big dick, seen her ex in the gym showers once and he was huge! she did describe sex with him once, very much turned me on! and I do like being dominated by a big cock, gagging and being made to swallow his come.
     
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    Ahhhh the domination factor...very hot
     
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    As I said I've said before, who can resist a big, hard cock??? :)
     
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    Only you can determine your sexual orientation as you are the only one who has access to your thoughts. Sexual orientation is not about with whom you have sex, but rather how you think and who you are.

    I wish I had an easier answer for you, but I am very hesitant to weigh in on this as it is so personal and tricky. My best suggstion is to try and determine for which gender(s) you have a sexual attraction to, and use that as a starting point. Really look into yourself and the answer is there. But in the end, I wouldn't focus too much on the actual label as I would in accepting your own sexual feelings. The label itself is just a categorization. It doesn't change or determine who you are.
     
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