i have basically confessed my love to a guy. we've been best friends for a while, and he knows that i like him very much. when i first met him, i wasn't attracted to him at all, infact, almost the opposite, but over the years as our friendship became closer, the way i looked at him began to change. i'd say that only about 1/4 of what i like about him is physical, and the remaining 3/4 is his character. anyway he's bi, and im gay, however, hes not entirely out like i am, therefore, im the only one he has when he wants to talk about guys even the occasioanl girl, and things of that nature. after i told him how i felt, he told me doesn't feel the same way about me, but that i was his very closest friend, and that he was sorry. initially i was upset, but i guess theres nothing really i can do. i then let him know that just because i told him how i felt, doesnt mean he cant still come to me to discuss those things. so my question isnt "what should i do to make him fall in love with me", rather "should i continue being his friend even though its very difficult to be only that?" any sort of feedback would be appreciated! thanks.