This isn't my first time posting in this section; I've posted before about relationships and I received helpful feedback so I figured I could use it again. I've been dating someone for a few months now; a frequent shopper where I work (I stock shelves at a grocery store). I asked her out after being more and more attracted to her every time she came in; I'd strike up conversations, help her out with whatever she needed and even flirt with her (of course!) Her name is Kerry and thus far, our relationship has been pretty enjoyable. Good times, good talks, great sex, fun experiences. She's 35 and I turned 21 in July...I've had experiences with older women before but those were purely sexual and cuckold-situations; this is the first relationship I've had with an older woman where it's monogamous and there's actual emotions involved. However, Kerry wants to sort of move things forward with me. Besides her son (a 17-year-old; she's divorced), none of our friends or families really know about our relationship (except for one or two of her friends). She wants it to be open and has even mentioned me moving in with her. I guess I'm mostly cool with being open about it but not too sure about moving in... I'm sure my friends would think it'd be cool if I was dating an older woman but I'm not sure how my family, especially my parents, would react; I currently live with my mother and father (I made our finished basement into my own quasi-apartment years ago) and I think they'd be pretty weirded out about it. Not only that but her son, Eric, seems to resent me and quite possibly despise me. We were kinda decent with each other at first but I recently overheard him with his friend on the phone one night saying how he thinks Kerry and I's relationship isn't right. I guess he eavesdropped on some of his mother's phone conversations, listening to her swoonfully talk about me, how I'm a sweet guy, a "hot fuck" and how big my dick is, especially compared to her ex-husband (that part seemed to make him the most sick, I guess...her ex was a semi-abusive alcoholic/gambling addict). So...I don't know what to do, really. There's some stress mounting on our relationship; should we come out, should I consider shacking up? I am pretty young, of course. We have good times; we go clubbing, go to the bar, we do have fun...I do like her, she's great. Funny, sexy as hell, great to be around...what should I do? I'd show off some pics of her because I'm a photocentric kind of guy and...well, because I like gloating, but that seemed to rub people the wrong way another time so I guess I won't unless the general consesus feels otherwise.