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I'm a 30 yr old guy. I was changing after going for a swim. I was alone when this guy similar age as me comes back from the shower. I've seen him many times before, but we never chatted. But this time he smiles at me broadly while holding the towel and drying himself. He is this hairy, quite handsome bearded bald guy, nice brown beard and pale skin. Hair all over his body and large uncut cock. Very manly with a deep voice, gives off a very straight vibe. He was naked and started chatting. I think he chats openly to everyone - he's just open.
He smiled at me and asked me if I had just been swimming. I said I need to bulk up as I don't have big arm muscles like he does. We carried on chatting for a while. He told me I should use protein shakes all the while, drying his dick. He got out his phone to show me a before and after pic of him (before he lost weight and became fit) , gesturing me to come closer. I remember basically getting a semi but i was in my swimming shorts so he couldn't see. (before he lost weight and became fit)
He put on his boxers with me able to see everything. I don’t think he knew how much I enjoyed looking at his body. I was embarrassed but he kept on assessing my physique, scrutinizing it, looking all over as I stood there sheepishly. Very sexy! Someone else came up and started changing, standing there basically naked assessing me too. He said I had a handsome face to make up for my slight physique.
I was shy but he insisted I join him at the gym so he can help me bulk up. He said, with my physique, I could look really ripped if we work at it. Should I let him know that I find him really attractive before I let him train me? He seems to be straight. Or I can just keep it professional.
 

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Coming from someone over 30: ain't nobody fit time for that! ;)

In case you actually want top bulk up:
Well, he offered you help without asking about your sexuality, so why mention it?
Take his offer or leave it.

In case you don't want to bulk up but you are interested in him:
Be open about it. Might get weird, but at least your honest.

In case you want bulk and the dick:
Train with him, shiwer with him, see If he shows Interest. Mention it openly If necessary.
 

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Coming from someone over 30: ain't nobody fit time for that! ;)

In case you actually want top bulk up:
Well, he offered you help without asking about your sexuality, so why mention it?
Take his offer or leave it.

In case you don't want to bulk up but you are interested in him:
Be open about it. Might get weird, but at least your honest.

In case you want bulk and the dick:
Train with him, shiwer with him, see If he shows Interest. Mention it openly If necessary.
Thanks. I'm pretty certain he's straight as he has a wife. I think I'm just happy to work out with him. He's naturally outgoing. I'm notoriously bad at telling how someone feels about me.
Surely he can tell I'm a bit gay though? hahahha
 
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It sounds that he is just self-confident owing the physical change he made. Anyway, keep us posted on how it developed. You got me curious ;-)
 

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Someone gets it. These people make me sick
I used to be the other person when I was in my late teens and early 20s, I justified that the fault was on the person cheating. While that’s true, I also realised my moral compass was lacking if I was justifying being a homewrecker.
 
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with me i am open chatting to people as well--and i dont hide the fact i am gay from anyone so if they ask me i answer--i had seen this guy in the showers several times over a few weeks and one day i asked him with no one else around--if he was gay --he went to walk away and i was like i am --he turns around and tells me yes and that he has seen me alot and i told him same here--

i told him flat out he had a nice ass--and i bet his ass loved to be rimmed --he smiled and says yeah--says he liked it rimmed but when it comes to fucking he likes to top --i was like we can handle that--


so me being open got me a nice guy to be with a few times


if dont wanna tell him about how you feel -kind of ask questions about how often are there gay men in here and what he thinks about them--see his reaction--then let him know you dont have nothing again gay men in fact you are one and see his reaction---

never--ever hide who you are--when you do it shows you are ashamed of who you are-- i been out of the closet from a early age as i didnt see anything wrong with who i was with or what i was--