I'm ok with my size honestly, I have a big cock (not a huge cock, but in any world my cock is bigger than average) so I'm grateful for that. Now my current stats are: 6.5x5.1 bpl (6.1" nbpl) and I'm around 3.8 soft. MY IDEAL cock length would be 5" soft (I've always wanted to be a shower) and 7x5.5 NBPL.
I don't need more than that. Even now I get compliments on my size although I've never had a "OH MY GOD WHAT A BIG COCK" I have gotten several compliments for my size and have had plenty of complaints if I push too deep, so I know anything over 7" can become an issue for me to really enjoy sex. (I don't like extremely hard sex, but I like to be able to put my whole cock inside)