What sort of women do you think I attract?

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Weird question, maybe, and could be in the wrong place, but I wondered from the only online community that I belong to what the women here would say.

Obviously there is a reason why I ask this today, but I'd rather hear opinions before I say why I am asking.
 
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Deep ones. Strange, mental, unusual. Desireable. Unintelligible. Maybe it's me and my questions.
 
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Weird question, maybe, and could be in the wrong place, but I wondered from the only online community that I belong to what the women here would say.

Obviously there is a reason why I ask this today, but I'd rather hear opinions before I say why I am asking.

You attract cunts....Can I be your friend???? :) :p) :)
 

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Weird question, maybe, and could be in the wrong place, but I wondered from the only online community that I belong to what the women here would say.

Obviously there is a reason why I ask this today, but I'd rather hear opinions before I say why I am asking.

Um, the kind that breathe? :rofl:
 

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Hm...idk....You are obviously smart and intelligent and I consider you to be a gentleman online. But, tbh, all the men like you I know IRL have ended up with people who have some sort of a hm...mental issue.
You seem like a giver that`s why I think you might attract such women.
 

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Hm...idk....You are obviously smart and intelligent and I consider you to be a gentleman online. But, tbh, all the men like you I know IRL have ended up with people who have some sort of a hm...mental issue.
You seem like a giver that`s why I think you might attract such women.

Damn...but sometimes love comes as a harsh truth
 

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Damn...but sometimes love comes as a harsh truth
Hahaha
Idk...you know when you see a really smart and beautiful woman who ends up with a guy who you`d kill cause he is a total douche?
I find it the same with great guys. They somehow end up with women not worthy of their time.
but, I don`t want to generalize, I have seen some matches made in heaven, where both are great. And when that clicks, it usually lasts for a long, long time. :smile:
 
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Idk...you know when you see a really smart and beautiful woman who ends up with a guy who you`d kill cause he is a total douche?
I find it the same with great guys. They somehow end up with women not worthy of their time.
but, I don`t want to generalize, I have seen some matches made in heaven, where both are great. And when that clicks, it usually lasts for a long, long time. :smile:

I find the finger test works well. :) Or the kiss...............or the tickle...or the touch...or the I dunno. Well, I do know, but I am not going to tell. Maybe it be the word.
 
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Let's see...

You are a romantic.
Smart... but perhaps too smart for your own good, where women are concerned.
you give folks the benefit of the doubt, and that 'doubt' extends well past the zone that most people would cash out and skip.

Because you know you have grown and changed over time, in ways you consider positive, you tend to be too optimistic that others are capable of the same, and so you tend to dismiss or "understand" bad behavior as something borne of injury, or loss, or misfortune or bad habits and hope that they will pull out of it in the supportive circumstance you offer.


This attracts to you women who have dysfunctions ranging from daddy issues to full on narcissism, because you, more than others, will tolerate and have compassion for their suffering, and thus their misbehavior.


At least, that's what my tarot cards say on the basis of the flimsy evidence of reading your posts over the years, which have not generally revealed much of anything about your relationships.

Or... perhaps I am just seeing too much of myself in you.
 

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Based on what I know, you attract women who are low risk for commitment. You are a lifelong bachelor and prefer to stay that way. You probably like an independent woman. Or a woman who can't possibly commit to you in a serious way. I believe you probably enjoy women and the feminine whiles that go with it. Possibly even promote some traditional aspects but also the unconventional at the same time.

Did I win?
 
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Weird question, maybe, and could be in the wrong place, but I wondered from the only online community that I belong to what the women here would say.

Obviously there is a reason why I ask this today, but I'd rather hear opinions before I say why I am asking.
Based on what I know about you I think you would attract a woman with a high level of sophistication, intelligence and independence; or one who thinks that being with you she would be perceived as such a person.
Not a woman's issue. And who gives a fuck.....
Wow was that really necessary?
 
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Phil At least said:
Thanks everyone. Phil is right, I don't normally talk about specifics of my relationships/sex life, and I could have asked a question about are women like this (hence putting it in the WS). But then I thought actually maybe it is more honest that it is about you.

Imagine Miss Jean Brodie of New England variety, maybe fifty, but not looking it. What would you expect from this real life headmistress? Well, so far I have counted 37 various bites, scratches, bruises and deep pinches. One off chance meeting, doesn't know me from Adam.

The point is, I realised that she was very subtly vetting me earlier in the evening, hence the question because I do seem mostly to be with women whom I would describe as sexually radical rather than conforming to the general stereotypes preferring relationships etc etc. How true are these stereotypes? The other point would be that you certainly can't judge a book until you have it under the covers.