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Hi all,

As a st8 guy (mostly!) I lived with a gay guy who had a lot of cool friends. We'd hang out a little but never on his scene. I did however meet one of his friends who at the time developed a little bit of a crush on.

I didn't do anything about it - other than trying to strike up a conversation on Facebook but he was quite a busy chap and well I was dating women. So I don't think I ever appeared on his radar! Anyway - I've more or less lost touch the mutual friend, so no chance of meeting up with the crush as far as I can see. As of late I've been thinking about him more and more, and well I just really want to suck him off. I don't really know why but he's very charismatic and full of energy! I guess I don't need to read into it too much - right?

I realise that it's been more than a year now since we last had contact so I'm after advice on how to try and get back on his radar and test to see if he'd even entertain the idea of a novice on his knees in front of him! And how to even make him think of me like that. Ideas would be really appreciated
 

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You can try to hook up with this guy but at the same time, don't put all your eggs in one basket. Plenty of guys out there to have fun with.
 

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i agree with @Rockhard76, I would reach out and say exactly that... I'm sure he will ask what you were thinking of... it's your chance to tell him, you'd like to hang out with him alone, invite him over your place for drinks and a movie... or ask if he wants to go have dinner and beers somewhere
 
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You can try to hook up with this guy but at the same time, don't put all your eggs in one basket. Plenty of guys out there to have fun with.
I see your point, but hard to meet someone you like when you don't know what you like etc and are not on the "scene". Make sense?
 

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I see your point, but hard to meet someone you like when you don't know what you like etc and are not on the "scene". Make sense?

Your best bet is to play the field so you can figure out what you like.

You don't want to be that person who thinks they have found their soul mate in the person they have a crush on.
 

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Three things: don't let him be "the one that got away", be realistic about your expectations and be prepared for disappointment. In a year he may have met someone. You were "straight" when you last met, remember. Where do you think this will go? Just a one off or something more permanent? How will you feel if this gets back to the mutual friend?

As for what you say it's all about being up front. He's going to be confused (as any of us would be) that you are approaching him a year later.

Regarding your experience: again, tell him this is all new to you. Any guy worth his salt will be understanding and help guide you through. But again, you need to think this through. Good luck!
 
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