What to do for bottom after coming?

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  1. 7"24

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    Hey guys,

    I am In my first real gay relationship my boyfriend and I have been fucking for a couple months. He is the first guy I have ever fucked. My question is what kind of pleasure is being a bottom, after I come I always feel the need to blow or jerk him to come after. I just feel like If I get to come so should he. To all the bottoms out there if you don't come while getting fucked do you expect to be finished off after the top comes? I know the pleasure of being fucked is awesome, if you didn't come would you feel the need to after a good fuck.
     
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    I do not know. I am bottoming for the first time next Friday and plan to cum while I am getting fucked. I have practiced with my toy for many months. (In a long distance relationship). I am a little scared and excited as well. Scared because my BF is hung 8X6
     
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    hold me and talk to me don't fall asleep
     
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    Its good that you're thinking of him. I know some bottoms don't really want reciprocation, esp, into the sort of dominance -submission mode, but most bottoms are same as any guy and want to get off too. Just ask what he'd like and do it, or start sucking, stroking, kissing, jerking, whatever- and watch his reaction. Good luck
     
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    all you have to do is ask if we want to cum. Most of the time we won't, but we just want to make sure you care about us getting off.
     
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    As a bottom, I find that a lot of tops get off on seeing me cum, so I will jerk myself and/or let him do it for me, but it isn't important to me at all.
     
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    There are lots of things but your best course of action is to ask him. Good communication leads to awesome sex. :)
     
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    I've bottomed, but not with men, only with women with strap ons. You can jack him off while you're fucking him, preferable while he's on his back. Maybe you can cum together. Or he can jack himself off while you're fucking him.

    Jacking or sucking him off if good afterward, but it's not bad as a bottom to jack yourself off. I did that for my Domme, since I know how much she enjoyed watching me jack off on her tits, then licking them clean. When you're getting fucked, it's very pleasurable, and intense, so jacking off afterward is also very intense.
     
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    Ask him what he wants you to do. I just mean, he's the one you're fucking and it is better than trying to guess what he wants you to do. That said, I tend to cum after the bottom cums or I'll try to time it so we cum together. If I get off first, I'll ask him what he'd like me to do to get him off. Do not ever try to rush him to an orgasm just because you've already cum. I think it is the mark of a poor lover to do that.
     
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    I just jerk off while being fucked and try to get off the same time he does. Sometime it works sometimes one of us is faster than the other. Either way, we both get off.
     
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    My bottoming experience is that the top loves me to come as my anal muscles clench on his penis. I love a top to stroke as he is fucking me.
     
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    I agree with most of the other comments , try to ask him what he likes , personally I like to stroke myself an orgasm before the top as a good lover my rule is let him cum inside of me if I can take it , and he is not far off , if not I'll kiss him and jack him off . I like when a top is not selfish , and he cares about getting the bottom off in my opinion they are the best tops !
     
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    I like when my top jerks me off all over his chest while I am sitting on his dick. We both love it; he thinks it's really hot to get splooged all over his chest while his dick is buried up in my ass. If I come first, I just stay on his dick and concentrate on it; I keep riding it until he shudders to a stop. In fact, I'm going over there right now to do just this.
     
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    As an answer to the title I'd have to say get your shit and get the fuck out.
     
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    I really like my guy to let go inside of me. I kind of like him to get lost in the whole connection and it spins me out that the great feeling he is experiencing is a result of him being inside of my body and feeling the warmth and softness. My guy kind of knows this and he really likes it too, but once in a while, when he really has me in a state, he will withdraw, move me over face up, start kissing me and go down on me, head or rim or both. It's a really cool surprise when it happens. Sometimes we fuck and neither of us even cum. Even better, sometimes when that happens, he'll wake me in the middle of the night and either make love till he goes or give me head till I go. It's a very cool connection and seems to work well for both of us.
     
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    Hey man, cool that you're thinking about your guy. Typically most guys will want to cum, after all... you're having sex. When my friend is fucking me, he usually gets me to cum while he is fucking me. Some guys like to be jacked off while you're fucking them, but for me my dick is super sensitive. Honestly, ask him what he wants. That will be easier than trying to figure out what to do, seeing that everyone is different. I love seeing a top blow his load on my face, or on my body ... and what makes me cum (if I hadn't already while he was fucking me) is I love my nipples licked... gets me super horny and helps me bust a huge load.

    Hope that helps,

    Nick
     
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    Personally, I almost always cum when being fucked, especially by a hung guy. Like most people suggested, you should really ask him what he wants you to do to him. But, personally, I always find having my nipples played with wilst being kissed and jerked off/blown off very satisfying after being fucked.
     
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