What to do if they'll do ANYTHING

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So I'm in a situation where someone whom is willing to do anything for me sexually. I'm sure other people have been in similar situations, so what would you do if someone was willing to do anything with you?

They have no limits, but this is not usual for them. This person loves me, so they are willing to do whatever it takes. What would you do?
 

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You guys! Lol! There have been many sexual partners i've had who i've told can "get anything, do anything" and as soon as i say it your brain goes dead. And now i see that when a woman says that you have to ask other people what you should do. Don't you have any fantasies of your own? Are you scared when she says "anything" that YOUR anything is going to be too much? Coz i can tell you, when i say anything, i mean it. This post made me laugh so thanks OP!
 

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Dear Wetter:

I would tell this person to go find someone who has no respect for themselves.

I know that this might be someone who is attractive to you and you might be very attractive yourself (chances are, you are). But, how many people have heard this from him/her and how many have taken him/her up on it. Whew!

I find complete sexual objectification of a person, even if it is self-inflicted, pathetic, pathological, (sorry) desperate and highly unattractive. I just get a sense that you deserve better than that. Maybe, you don't agree.

Just a thought... Good luck and thanks for the OP!

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Thanks for the responses everyone! The thing about this situation is that this willingness comes from the fact that they truly love me. During the course of a 7 month time period, they were essentially just a fwb but thought we were dating. Its been exclusive for 7 months and they have been tested clean. I don't want to abuse the situation, but I already have. Its exactly what a previous poster said, the opportunity has caused my brain to melt. To the last poster, it is indeed pathological. At this point I'm looking to just cross off things on my sexual wish list until I've pushed them far enough that they realize I'm not their soulmate.
 

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you are a horrible person.
:frown:

ya should treat a freely given heart better.
and you should expect more from yourself as a person.

*sigh*

*grumble* when given the option of "anything" why do some folks see this as an opportunity to objectify? to cause humiliation or pain? and not the good/fun kind.

is fucking asshole ya default setting?
 
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So I'm in a situation where someone whom is willing to do anything for me sexually. I'm sure other people have been in similar situations, so what would you do if someone was willing to do anything with you?

They have no limits, but this is not usual for them. This person loves me, so they are willing to do whatever it takes. What would you do?

Interesting situation. However, I am more intrigued by the lengths to which you go to avoid gender specification of the person of your objectification or of yourself, what gives with this? I don't believe this elevates the situation or the conversation.
 

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Interesting situation. However, I am more intrigued by the lengths to which you go to avoid gender specification of the person of your objectification or of yourself, what gives with this? I don't believe this elevates the situation or the conversation.

Its probably so anyone can answer, no matter their orientation.

And i think i'd tie her up to a bedpost/chair/table/banister/object then have my way. Though i am pretty plain that way.
 

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Interesting situation. However, I am more intrigued by the lengths to which you go to avoid gender specification of the person of your objectification or of yourself, what gives with this? I don't believe this elevates the situation or the conversation.

He's right it was to be inclusive. It's a guy if that matters, but a lot of the sexual stuff is the same anyway. Once again guys I appreciate the suggestions! And as to those who think it's morally reprehensible, it is. I admit that. But i'm young and right now I just want to try new things with someone who trusts me enough to do anything.
 

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I would certainly piss and spit in his/her mouth. That's hot! It's fun to own someone. Definitely ejaculate in his/her ass (assuming you are clean and healthy).
 

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He's right it was to be inclusive. It's a guy if that matters, but a lot of the sexual stuff is the same anyway. Once again guys I appreciate the suggestions! And as to those who think it's morally reprehensible, it is. I admit that. But i'm young and right now I just want to try new things with someone who trusts me enough to do anything.

Key word... which you do not deserve.
 

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Thanks for the responses everyone! The thing about this situation is that this willingness comes from the fact that they truly love me. During the course of a 7 month time period, they were essentially just a fwb but thought we were dating. Its been exclusive for 7 months and they have been tested clean. I don't want to abuse the situation, but I already have. Its exactly what a previous poster said, the opportunity has caused my brain to melt. To the last poster, it is indeed pathological. At this point I'm looking to just cross off things on my sexual wish list until I've pushed them far enough that they realize I'm not their soulmate.

Clearly other people stopped reading after the first post.
You are a terrible person for taking advantage of somebody like this.
Just tell them you're just using them for sex and you don't love them back as they so obviously think you do and stop leading them on. :mad:
 

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So this person says you can do anything...

Were you thinking like "oh boy I can put a funny hat on his penis and make him dance" or was it like "I can make him drink my pee" or what is it exactly you're going for??

Would you really want to engage in an activity that you knew he wasn't into but just did it to please you? Because if so thats a little like kicking a puppy.. to me anyway..
 

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I think I'd do one or two things I've wanted to do previously...

I wouldn't need to seek "new" ideas ... ?

It's difficult to know what will work well for another person - not everyone's mind and body work in the same way ...

Having said that, I'm a dominant top in the context of ( gay ) Sm. So for me it might include...

- masks
- whipping
- hot wax
- nipple clamps
- gagging
- breath control
- fisting

... But I've done all of those at least once anyway...

There are still a few things I've only done a few times with a few people, but they are too private and idiosyncratic to be useful here I think :smile:

You could also turn it around and take the person out for a nice restaurant meal first. Or an upmarket bar ? That might be more mind blowing for both of you :smile:
 
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Thanks for the responses everyone! The thing about this situation is that this willingness comes from the fact that they truly love me. During the course of a 7 month time period, they were essentially just a fwb but thought we were dating. Its been exclusive for 7 months and they have been tested clean. I don't want to abuse the situation, but I already have. Its exactly what a previous poster said, the opportunity has caused my brain to melt. To the last poster, it is indeed pathological. At this point I'm looking to just cross off things on my sexual wish list until I've pushed them far enough that they realize I'm not their soulmate.

Respect then and tell them that they aren't your soulmate. Using someone until the break is not a good thing
 

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Hey guys OP here. To those who gave advice,I appreciate it. The whole reason I ran out of ideas in the first place is the sheer volume of possibilities.
To those who find this thread distasteful, let me clarify my situation. This new-found sexual exploration is the result of my honestly saying I was dissatisfied with our current sexual life. He is willing to do anything because he love me, and I care about him. Its just not love, a fleeting attraction.
 

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Hey guys OP here. To those who gave advice,I appreciate it. The whole reason I ran out of ideas in the first place is the sheer volume of possibilities.
To those who find this thread distasteful, let me clarify my situation. This new-found sexual exploration is the result of my honestly saying I was dissatisfied with our current sexual life. He is willing to do anything because he love me, and I care about him. Its just not love, a fleeting attraction.

You are taking advantage of him no matter how you try to rationalize it. Stop.
 

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Currently going through the same situation. The girl just can't take no for an answer, I have a gf who I love. Risking my relationship on her is just not worth it. Ya can have her.
 

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Do whatever you want then.

And if this is real, they probably want to be dominated and told what to do.

If you are really unsure what to do, I kind of think this way:

I imagine the roles were reversed, and I was willing to do anything for them. Then I think of all the things I would love for them to do and say and demand of me.

Then I re-reverse the roles, and do that to them.