What To Do In This Relationship?

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Hi so my partner and I are sort of at a standstill and in an awkward position. So I'm into a lot of kinks and he's sorta kinda pretty vanilla. We're not quite sure how to go about this since I would've liked someone who could keep up with my kink-wise but it's been.... tough. Don't get be wrong, we have a great time with everything else, but when it comes to like kinks/sexual stuff, it's been sorta hard. Any advice???
 

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You have to have some long talks where you can both be open with one another. Make sure that you both understand that neither of you should move beyond your limits in order to placate the other. See if you can find a place where you're both comfortable. If not, then you have to have the next (tough) conversation: Will the relationship work if one of you is sexually unhappy without any solution available that is respectful to you both?
 
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Three options.

You decide you can live without the kinks and stay.

You decide you can't live without the kinks and you go.

You decide you can't live without the kinks and he agrees to have an open relationship.
 
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Or option four: hope he becomes receptive to some of your “tamer” kinks. Maybe he will like them and want to experiment more.
 
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