What to do with a large penis?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by wilko, Jan 28, 2011.

  1. wilko

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    I read a lot of posts from women saying that a big penis is useless if the guy doesn't know what to do with it. What techniques or flourishes are used by guys who DO know what to do with it?
     
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    LOL...wow really? Thats kind of like asking what women like in a man. You ask us what a guy should do with his dick and you'll get a hundred different answers.

    But if you really want to know..

    1. Be hard
    2. Stay hard
    3. Don't cum within the first 15-20 minutes

    Other uses for a large penis include: pacifier, squeeze toy, personal massager, dildo, free entertainment, and good source of protein
     
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    If you're too long for her:

    Know how to fuck in doggy style without causing her to flinch by short stroking, if she's not into that kind of pain.
    Know which positions are best for a penis that's longer than a vagina.
    Know how to play with her clit while fucking her.

    And if you're girthy:
    Know how to take it slow the first time, with lots of foreplay.

    That's all stuff that's specifically big cock related, then you need to have some skills in bed, like know how to kiss, how to talk, how to show passion, how to touch her body, how to go down on her, how to kiss her earlobe and her neck, how to read her responses to you and replicating what you did... Things like that.
     
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    Im not sure what do you expect as an answer to that.
    Do you think there is ONE answer to what makes a good blow job?
    You can just as well ask what makes a good meal. If you ask 10 persons you likely will get 10 different answers. Of course you can collect those individual opinions, but remember they are just that.
     
  5. ThunderGod62

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    Like everyone's said, it depends. Advice is not one-size-fits-all, so to speak (other than foreplay = good, and I'm sure there's even an exception to that rule)

    I remember at one point reading that girthy guys should stick to missionary to avoid pain for the female partner. I took this advice to heart, and we stuck with missionary for a while. Unfortunately, she was getting even sorer. Ultimately, my GF and I found that doggy-style worked much better for her (and therefore for us!), even though we'd heard it was a position to avoid for size-mismatched couples.

    Experiment. Talk to your partner. Watched for their cues about what works and what doesn't. That'll get your further from any advice on a message board.
     
  6. D_Rosalind Mussell

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    A guy that knows how to use it has rhythm, for one. He gets a +1 if he masters control of that rhythm. Don't simply pound away in bed, let the intensity build and adjust the intensity and frequency of thrusts according to your partners signals. And for goodness sake, don't use porn as an educational guide! It's safe to say that the majority of women do not get any pleasure out of a cock smacking her in the cheek, on the thigh, etc. That's my half-penny.
     
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    I think doggy style tends to be a problem for guys who are relatively longer than their female partners rather than thicker.

    The couple of women who didn't want to have vaginal sex with me that way complained that it felt as if I was going in too deep.
     
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