I've been with my girlfriend (Girl A) for almost a year now and it's been great, we're both musicians which makes things even better. The only problem is she refuses to come to any of the gigs I do with my jazz band because her and ex-friend (Vocalist of the band, Girl-B) had a falling out over a picture that my gf didn't put in a collage by accident. Wasn't really much of a falling out as it was the vocalist writing a lengthy, and fairly colourful, Facebook message about betrayal. I've honestly done nothing about the situation as my gf didn't want to "Cause me any problems", none of the guys we hang out with in our group have said anything even though we all know girl-B was wrong to have done it but I'm seriously thinking that enough is enough and things need to be set straight because it's obviously hurting the both of them and I'm like an old man, I like to live my life hassle free :tongue: So am I doing the right thing or will I just potentially make things worse? I was thinking of just sitting them both down in a room and just talking it out.