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So I'm 18. About 3 months ago I told my best friend that I was bi, and about 2 weeks after, he told me he was too. It seems we were both secretly crushing on each other for quite some time. We had a ton of fun together, we did it every chance we got. It was supposed to just be "Friends With Benefits" but we both fell in love and happier than ever.
I haven't seen him for 3 weeks, last week he was away at camp. When he came back, he didn't text much or anything, and I finally confronted him whether or not he still liked me. He said something changed, he doesn't know what or why, but it did. He finally said he needs to feel "normal." My friend that knew and I told him that its perfectly fine, I've made peace with that I'm bi. Don't get me wrong, I'd kill to be perfectly straight, but I don't see any reason to go against what I like.
We're still friends, But I don't know what to do. Should I try to convince him that its better to be happy than try to be "normal"? We had talked about it before and he thinks people will hate him if he comes out. It's not even like we were going to, we were all behind the scenes.
I can't stop thinking about him. =\ I've been crying on and off the past two days and I feel like death. I feel like I'm going to throw up constantly and keep having panic attacks. I know I shouldn't have gotten that attached. But I'm a lover, not a fighter. I do get attached.
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I haven't seen him for 3 weeks, last week he was away at camp. When he came back, he didn't text much or anything, and I finally confronted him whether or not he still liked me. He said something changed, he doesn't know what or why, but it did. He finally said he needs to feel "normal." My friend that knew and I told him that its perfectly fine, I've made peace with that I'm bi. Don't get me wrong, I'd kill to be perfectly straight, but I don't see any reason to go against what I like.
We're still friends, But I don't know what to do. Should I try to convince him that its better to be happy than try to be "normal"? We had talked about it before and he thinks people will hate him if he comes out. It's not even like we were going to, we were all behind the scenes.
I can't stop thinking about him. =\ I've been crying on and off the past two days and I feel like death. I feel like I'm going to throw up constantly and keep having panic attacks. I know I shouldn't have gotten that attached. But I'm a lover, not a fighter. I do get attached.
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