I've always wondered what turns people on more. Is it the genitalia? Body language? The body itself? Personality? Money... ect. Now, I'm not talking about preferences. In general what attracts you to your mate? or partner. my boyfriend has Irish and Italian descents. His dick is average and he looks 5 years older than his real age due to stress. He is not in top physical condition and he has a temper problem. Now I'm not saying I'm perfect either but I he doesn't believe me that I am physically and emotionally attracted to him. its hard to explain. but does anybody else feel like this?