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What turns you on more?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by D_Hanky Philler, Aug 8, 2011.

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What attracts you more?

Poll closed Aug 20, 2011.
  1. Money

    0.9%
  2. Body

    34.5%
  3. Personality

    45.7%
  4. Genetalia

    11.2%
  5. Body Language

    7.8%
  1. D_Hanky Philler

    D_Hanky Philler Account Disabled

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    I've always wondered what turns people on more. Is it the genitalia? Body language? The body itself? Personality? Money... ect.

    Now, I'm not talking about preferences. In general what attracts you to your mate? or partner.

    my boyfriend has Irish and Italian descents. His dick is average and he looks 5 years older than his real age due to stress. He is not in top physical condition and he has a temper problem.
    Now I'm not saying I'm perfect either but I he doesn't believe me that I am physically and emotionally attracted to him. its hard to explain. but does anybody else feel like this?
     
  2. TheRob

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    sometimes I'm attracted to a girl and I can't figure out why, it's sort of maddening at times
     
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    Sound like the human condition to me.
     
  4. D_JohnQPubic

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    An average-looking person with an amazing personality is waaaay hotter than a gorgeous body on a jerk. JMHO.
     
  5. LaFemme

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    Personality all the way. An average or even slightly unattractive looking man (at first sight) can become smoldering to me once I get to know him. It's his confidence, his attitude, his sense of humour, his outlook and his own perception of being sexy that turns me on.
     
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    hmmm...... well i can surely tell you its not money,personality is definitely a turn on and his ability to make fun of his self once in a while. i would say more but Lafemme basically took the words out of my mouth. well said btw!!!
     
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    Personality -- I love a guy who can make me laughh and feel good.
     
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    Couldn't agree more!
     
  9. irox19

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    I completely agree with LaFemme and Queenie.
     
  10. Serial Kisser

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    A good looking man attracts me initially. The personality is what either makes or break it.
     
  11. MrToolhung

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    Well said!
     
  12. MrToolhung

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    I voted on personality although a dude's cock can be a deal breaker at times.
     
  13. closetfreak

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    Exactly
     
  14. MadCock

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    Body Language is the bate

    Personality is the hook
     
  15. Serial Kisser

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    Hey... I didn't say woman.
     
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    better?
     
  17. B_subgirrl

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    Personality!!! If I think he's good enough to fuck, I'll love his cock too.

    I couldn't give a fuck about money.

    I'm definitely not visually motivated. In my whole life I've only met/seen 4 guys I wanted to screw based purely on appearance.

    Body language I see as being part of personality.
     
  18. TheRob

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    what did the lucky 4 have in common
     
  19. B_subgirrl

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    Not a lot.

    Two of the four were very much my type physically. Short dark hair, dark eyes, shortish.

    The other two were very tall Viking types, one of them blonde, the other blondish.

    They all had facial hair. That's the only thing all four had in common.
     
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    Personality all the way. To some extent, it influences body language, and the body itself (in terms of lifestyle/fitness)...but more than anything, it is the lens through which sexuality is focused and directed.
     
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    I voted "body language", because that is the first thing I will notice about someone and in essence the thing that makes me intrigued enough to want to get to know them better. I like people with e certain playfulness and sass, but quirky at the same time. Though, it does all depend on personality whether or not things will ever go beyond just talking.

    I never cared about money and I can honestly say I have not been able to determine a certain "type" of person I'm generally attracted too, not even in the slightest. So, body is another no. As for genitalia, I can't see how that could ever be a deciding factor.. as that's something you usually don't find out before you already have the intent on having sex with someone?
     
  22. D_Hanky Philler

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    Wow... I'm glad for all the insightful and generous responses. i was afraid that this thread might flop. lol

    Well I'm happy to see that most of us like personality.
     
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  24. Aleutrius

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    My boyfriend turns me on in all respects. Not only do we dig each others bodies (he likes big, muscular men whilst I like twinks), but he is really caring and affectionate and has a brilliant personality. Body is important for me and I won't deny that, but personality comes first.
     
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