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I realized my “ethnic” habit of interrupting exasperates my sweetie, who isn’t a member of the tribe.
I’m working on that.
But research on techniques led me to a bunch of religious videos, mainly churchy, about how men need respect (several suggested more than love). And they mainly spoke about in marriage (and thereby cohabitation) and prayer was understandably big on their list. Complete with announcing you were/ had prayed for them.
I don’t live with my partner. I don’t attend church. I’m not Xtian.
I demonstrate respect for and curiosity about his spiritual life. Even as I practice a different faith.
So, I need ideas, examples, philosophical meanderings, etc., about how you feel respected in a relationship.
What’s good? What’s bad (but you think is meant well)?
I’m working on that.
But research on techniques led me to a bunch of religious videos, mainly churchy, about how men need respect (several suggested more than love). And they mainly spoke about in marriage (and thereby cohabitation) and prayer was understandably big on their list. Complete with announcing you were/ had prayed for them.
I don’t live with my partner. I don’t attend church. I’m not Xtian.
I demonstrate respect for and curiosity about his spiritual life. Even as I practice a different faith.
So, I need ideas, examples, philosophical meanderings, etc., about how you feel respected in a relationship.
What’s good? What’s bad (but you think is meant well)?